Bdsm-Need help in trying for first time

[griff5499]

I do not have any experience with bdsm but I have been intrigued with some aspects of it. For example I love tying my cock and balls with small rope. I am starting to find that I like the pain aspect on my cock and balls. I have also tried clothes pins on my cock and balls and I loved the pain they caused. I need someone preferably a man to quite me through the phases of bdsm. Hope someone's out there that can help me! Thanks

 

[9to5]

you have a great start, I started the same way

 

[griff5499]

Hi and thanks for responding. I find that I'm liking some pain in my sex life. I have tried slapping my cock and balls, putting hot sauce in my piss slit and on my spincter, spanking my ass with a leather belt, putting clothes pins all over my cock and balls, using a electric fly swatter on my cock and balls. I like tying up my cock and balls with small ropes and wrapping them up so that my balls are stretched way out from my body. Then I slap my balls pretty hard until I get a stomach ache!
I want to try being bound to a table or wall with restraints naked and someone is torturing my cock and balls.
Do you have any other ideas on how I can further my interest in this genre ? Thanks again for responding

 

[9to5]

I have tied string around the balls and hung weight. walk around like that and feel the weight swing between the legs. walking up and down stairs like that is a great feeling also. I have a spiked parachute for the balls too. adds to the pain.
also chastity cages to tease with.
have you tried any self bondage yet with vibe on the cock.

 

[griff5499]

No what does that entail? I bought a ball bearing weight that goes around my balls and hangs under them. The problem is they are not heavy enough. What else can I do? What is a spiked parachute? I'm so sorry for asking so many questions I'm just a little ignorant about this but I want to know more. Thanks again for all your help! I have been watching some videos of guys doing cock and ball torture. Some put their cocks in a ant pile and let the ants bite their cocks which sounds good but the idea of ants crawling around on my cock and balls isn't that appealing!
Do you have any other suggestions for cock and ball torture? Also if you have any other advice for me regarding pain levels or how I can control it? I really enjoy having my ass beat with a thick leather belt until my ass is bright red! Anyway thanks again!

 

[9to5]

the parachute goes around the balls and the spikes are on the inside and poke at the balls. 3 chains hang down the you can hang things from. like some large wrenchs is fin

 

[griff5499]

Oh wow I have to get that one! I am finding that I really enjoy ball torture and that sounds like fun! I have just had clothes pins all over my cock and balls and they can produce quite a bit of pain! I enjoy them when I run my hands through them. I bought a electric sparker and tried it out just yesterday and I really like it after giving my cock and balls about 10 shots my breathing was a little labored but it felt good on my junk! Can I get the parachute at any adult toy shop or do I have to go to a specially store?
I really am grateful for you helping me with this. Your the only one that has answered my post and I really appreciate it. I would say I owe you a good blow job in repayment for your help but I don't even know where you live. I'm in Tucson Arizona. But I wanted to offer the blow job regardless.

 

[9to5]

thanks for the blow job thought it would be nice but im outside Chicago
you might find the parachute on amazon. maybe an adult store I did get one there. they sold some bondage stuff

the clothespins are fun. next time you put them on slap them off with a spoon.
I have used the tens unit at times. I do enjoy doing some mild cbt to myself too
have you checked out the ball crusher

 

[griff5499]

Hey I saw one on Amazon but it looks vicious, is it? I enjoy slapping my cock and balls it makes my cock hard but I did order the parachute but now I have to figure out what weights I can hang from it to stretch my balls. I thought of tying a pair of shoes to it what do you think? The ball bearing balls are awful expensive! Do you use a ball crusher on your balls? What does it feel like? I bought a tens unit from temu that you attach a hood over the cock head and another one around the shaft. I have not tried it yet kinda afraid I guess. What else do you enjoy about the bdsm arena? I'm only doing things that I can do by myself. I don't have a partner so I can't tie myself to a bench or table. Do you have any suggestions of anything else I can try in the bdsm? Thanks