BDSM Jewellery

Mr Wolf

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This has been done before I'm sure but I can't be arsed looking for the old thread and finding most if not all is out of date so here goes...

I am looking for some elegant but tasteful jewellery for my partner that she can wear without attracting too much attention at work etc. but that will let her feel owned. In case you are going to ask no we are not 24/7 but yes we do want to make a subtle statement.

I'm sure you have plenty of links etc. to help out an old romantic like me! :rolleyes:
 
if they have nipple piercings or other naughty bits then jewelry there will go a long way. Hidden jewelry always feels naughtier. you can emphasize that by connecting hem with a chain.
 
Thanks for the pointers, not looking for pierced jewellry at least not yet...;)

Sabo used to do minature handcuffs, also does feathers to hang off a chain and does a 'gothy' type figure holding a bag and handcuffs.

The hunt goes on! :D
 
Where is Kybele? :confused:

She makes beautiful things.

Personally, I am partial to less flowery totems, like stones and rawhide and simple things that have clear meaning only to the parties involved, but it doesn't sound as if that's what you're looking for.
 
Kybele, one of our own members does beautiful incredibly subtle collars:
http://www.gentle-medusa.com/

I wear a heavy silver chain with a braided knot that takes up some of the length. I am not owned but people think I must be...

You can see it here (along with some wacky makeup, sorry about that) http://stellaomega.com/files/2012/07/clown12.jpg

You could do it with thinner chain, too.
Oh my, what beautiful pieces! I love the idea of the fingerprints. Incedentally, I have some tiny vials that I want to fill with blood to incorporate into jewellery, but I understand that I need an anti-coagulant to do so. As I don't know how to do this safely (although each one holds only a few drops), do you think I could do this when we next give blood? Has anyone else done this?
 
Oh my, what beautiful pieces! I love the idea of the fingerprints. Incedentally, I have some tiny vials that I want to fill with blood to incorporate into jewellery, but I understand that I need an anti-coagulant to do so. As I don't know how to do this safely (although each one holds only a few drops), do you think I could do this when we next give blood? Has anyone else done this?
Poke a fingertip with a pin, it's safe enough.

What will you use for the anticoagulant?
 
Oh my, what beautiful pieces! I love the idea of the fingerprints. Incedentally, I have some tiny vials that I want to fill with blood to incorporate into jewellery, but I understand that I need an anti-coagulant to do so. As I don't know how to do this safely (although each one holds only a few drops), do you think I could do this when we next give blood? Has anyone else done this?

My Domme did this with her ex-submissive. I will ask her what she used for an anticoagulant and post when I find out.
 
Thank you both for your reply! The anti coagulant is my main issue. I assume it's Already in the packs that you give blood into, but that would involve tapping a vein, so... Maybe not... :(. Any suggestions appreciated, as the vials are beautifully shaped and would make such beautiful jewellery!
 
Where is Kybele? :confused:

She makes beautiful things.

Personally, I am partial to less flowery totems, like stones and rawhide and simple things that have clear meaning only to the parties involved, but it doesn't sound as if that's what you're looking for.

I won't know what it is until I see it, the Sabo feather looks interesting perhaps on a black leather necklace??? I really am just looking for something that is subtle but understandable if that hasn't just muddy the waters LOL!

I have thought of a tat, choker etc but nothing grabs me yet and that is before she gets her say so please keep the ideas coming it is all very much appreciated.

Regards
 
I won't know what it is until I see it, the Sabo feather looks interesting perhaps on a black leather necklace??? I really am just looking for something that is subtle but understandable if that hasn't just muddy the waters LOL!

I have thought of a tat, choker etc but nothing grabs me yet and that is before she gets her say so please keep the ideas coming it is all very much appreciated.

Regards

"understandable" by whom? Strangers, or just you two?
 
I wear an omega necklace. We know what it stands for and those in the lifestyle could probably guess, but nillas just think it is a pretty choker necklace.
 
In the UK, Mulberry sell a very nice padlock necklace. I'm struggling with trying to post a link to it but if you google "mulberry padlock necklace" (here in the UK) you should get to it.
 
I have no idea what a metal feather means to you, OP. It means nothing to me... nor to most people, IMO.

If it means submission to you and her-- you're good to go. :)
 
Once again thanks for the feedback and the suggestions, not that keen on the Mulberry necklace though...still the hunt goes on!

Stella the thought behind the 'feather' is because we use a similar type of feather during play if the mood takes me so I was toying with it as a personal symbol but thanks for your input.

If I find anything I will post an image or if anyone has any new ideas then please post on this thread...I will be watching ;)

Regards
 
Still curious, you say "elegant" and "tasteful" but then mention handcuffs and goth figures which, sorry, but I don't find elegant?
Do you want to "mark" her, so to speak? So strangers know she's owned?
Then a big lock and chain will do.

Something just between you two?
How about a silver or gold chain with your initial on it. Tiffany used to make small very elegant initial necklaces, they weren't in the stores, you had to order online. I have one my sister gave me.
I also read a story here a while ago (my favorite to date) where a Dom used an anklet. I loved that idea.
 
LK as I have previously said I will know it when I see it, I have thought of similar ideas to yours but they are just not feeling right if you get my meaning.

Whilst I am happy to 'mark' her I don't feel the need for it to be in your face or what others might think is right it will purely be based on my gut instinct. This is why I welcome all ideas or suggestions after all why settle for one brain when you can have many...:D

Regards
 
Anklets are nice. One of my lovers wears one, and gives me a little wink when I notice it-- like she's trying to condition me to respond dominantly to it. Something I'm more than happy to do! :D
 
Stella, LK thats both of you mentioning anklets, it is an idea I have thought about so perhaps I will investigate further and see what I can find.

Once again thanks for the input. :)

Regards
 
Catalina always a pleasure and some of those ideas may well work for me, very nice.

Please keep your ideas coming...no pun intended :D

Regards
 
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