subgrl18
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2007
- Posts
- 323
you know how when you think back into ur childhood...even if was really painful theres something pleasant that just sticks out and puts a smile on ur face...whether its the time u went fishing with grampa or had ur first sleepover.
now lets try something here...i want you all to stop thinking about tons of things and when u think ur mind is fairly calm think to yourself, what is a time (while practicing BDSM) when u have been truely happy, pleased, loved or anything that brought u pleasure. see what the very first thing that comes to you head was and tell us about it.. it can be fun and interesting to tell/hear about other peoples happy memories involving BDSM.
ok ill go first... when i cleared my mind the best i could and thought to myself what was a great time involving BDSM i imediatly thought about a time not to long ago when i was on yahoo talking to a dom and i was still kinda wondering i wasnt just nutts lol and i told him alot about my thoughts and feelings that i thought might have to do with bdsm, or maybe just the thoughts of an abused child. well he listenen to me and then said you know what, that is exactly what so many other subs have described about the way the feel about being sub. i remember feeling like i wasnt weird... im not just messed up and thats why i think these things...its ok how i feel about this and other poeple feel the same way. i had a smile from ear or ear lol
....now if anyone does want to share please now that ur story doesnt have to be all sentamental like mine it can simply be the first time u met ur dom/sub...or a piticularly wonderful session u had with him/her...or even just a great orgasm if u want lol its up to you... 

now lets try something here...i want you all to stop thinking about tons of things and when u think ur mind is fairly calm think to yourself, what is a time (while practicing BDSM) when u have been truely happy, pleased, loved or anything that brought u pleasure. see what the very first thing that comes to you head was and tell us about it.. it can be fun and interesting to tell/hear about other peoples happy memories involving BDSM.
ok ill go first... when i cleared my mind the best i could and thought to myself what was a great time involving BDSM i imediatly thought about a time not to long ago when i was on yahoo talking to a dom and i was still kinda wondering i wasnt just nutts lol and i told him alot about my thoughts and feelings that i thought might have to do with bdsm, or maybe just the thoughts of an abused child. well he listenen to me and then said you know what, that is exactly what so many other subs have described about the way the feel about being sub. i remember feeling like i wasnt weird... im not just messed up and thats why i think these things...its ok how i feel about this and other poeple feel the same way. i had a smile from ear or ear lol

