Bdsm Happy Memories

subgrl18

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you know how when you think back into ur childhood...even if was really painful theres something pleasant that just sticks out and puts a smile on ur face...whether its the time u went fishing with grampa or had ur first sleepover. :nana:
now lets try something here...i want you all to stop thinking about tons of things and when u think ur mind is fairly calm think to yourself, what is a time (while practicing BDSM) when u have been truely happy, pleased, loved or anything that brought u pleasure. see what the very first thing that comes to you head was and tell us about it.. it can be fun and interesting to tell/hear about other peoples happy memories involving BDSM. :)

ok ill go first... when i cleared my mind the best i could and thought to myself what was a great time involving BDSM i imediatly thought about a time not to long ago when i was on yahoo talking to a dom and i was still kinda wondering i wasnt just nutts lol and i told him alot about my thoughts and feelings that i thought might have to do with bdsm, or maybe just the thoughts of an abused child. well he listenen to me and then said you know what, that is exactly what so many other subs have described about the way the feel about being sub. i remember feeling like i wasnt weird... im not just messed up and thats why i think these things...its ok how i feel about this and other poeple feel the same way. i had a smile from ear or ear lol :cathappy: ....now if anyone does want to share please now that ur story doesnt have to be all sentamental like mine it can simply be the first time u met ur dom/sub...or a piticularly wonderful session u had with him/her...or even just a great orgasm if u want lol its up to you... :rose:
 
Great thread idea. I can't think of anything right now, I'm too tired, but I'll think on this and come back.
 
graceanne said:
Great thread idea. I can't think of anything right now, I'm too tired, but I'll think on this and come back.

what she said :p

of the very top of my head id say my first french kiss left me seeing stars for days, but ill see if i can remeber something else
 
I met Master online, and the best memory was the first time I saw him face to face. We agreeed to meet at a busy restaurant, in my city. I just lived a few minutes away so he was going to call me when he got there and then i could go over.

I was so terrified, i had no clue what to expect, well i'd seen pictures, but you know real is always different. As soon as he saw me he grabbed me in the biggest hug i've ever had and it was wonderful.

He moved here a year or so later and I still smile everytime i pass that restaurant. :heart:
 
lil_pooka said:
I met Master online, and the best memory was the first time I saw him face to face. We agreeed to meet at a busy restaurant, in my city. I just lived a few minutes away so he was going to call me when he got there and then i could go over.

I was so terrified, i had no clue what to expect, well i'd seen pictures, but you know real is always different. As soon as he saw me he grabbed me in the biggest hug i've ever had and it was wonderful.

He moved here a year or so later and I still smile everytime i pass that restaurant. :heart:

Thankyou for sharing! :nana:
 
lil_pooka said:
I met Master online, and the best memory was the first time I saw him face to face. We agreeed to meet at a busy restaurant, in my city. I just lived a few minutes away so he was going to call me when he got there and then i could go over.

I was so terrified, i had no clue what to expect, well i'd seen pictures, but you know real is always different. As soon as he saw me he grabbed me in the biggest hug i've ever had and it was wonderful.

He moved here a year or so later and I still smile everytime i pass that restaurant. :heart:

that is so sweet!!
 
Hmmm

the first thing that comes to mind is of my ex pet/ girl:Trinique. She was having a no day and normally I took "no" from her with a modicum of grace (as I knew her past history). On this particular day however I wasn't feeling very nice and her "no" got to me in a way I hadn't expected. I told her to smack herself for me, so that I wouldn't have to. There were a few sniffles and some words but in the end, she did it.

That was the first time I knew she trusted me and it filled my heart with so much love that I wanted to cry. (Of course, I didn't right then..instead I came and posted a thread about it...here on this forum)
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
the first thing that comes to mind is of my ex pet/ girl:Trinique. She was having a no day and normally I took "no" from her with a modicum of grace (as I knew her past history). On this particular day however I wasn't feeling very nice and her "no" got to me in a way I hadn't expected. I told her to smack herself for me, so that I wouldn't have to. There were a few sniffles and some words but in the end, she did it.

That was the first time I knew she trusted me and it filled my heart with so much love that I wanted to cry. (Of course, I didn't right then..instead I came and posted a thread about it...here on this forum)

Does she know it? I would read the words off the thread if that were me! :nana:
 
Yeah she read the original thread (some other people commented on it as well...) It's funny to think about it now..she is my best friend and I love her with all my heart but gods she was such a bad petling!!!!
 
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