bdsm clubs in essex uk?

[vampirecircus]

hi my lover and I really fancy going to as bdsm/fetish club but dont know the first thing about how or where or when .
are they worth a visit? which ones are worth going to etc.. whats the dress code, oh all that stuff
any advice would be welcome
we live in essex
many thanks
also posted this in "cafe" not sure which was best?

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I have heard about this place but have never been there. These guys would know more.

 

[vampirecircus]

thanks

thanks will look right now

 

[vampirecircus]

thanks

hi thanks found some good stuff and info many thanks to you ... any other advice from people put there welcome
cheers