BDSM and Kink Personals "chat"~ post here!

MissTaken

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BDSM Personals

As some of you are aware, the issue of where, how and when to place BDSM personals has be discussed since the inception of the BDSM Discussion Forum. As a possible alternative to posting an ad there, having it moved here and then losing it, here is a thread we can devote to people interested in the lifestyle and sharing it with someone.

AS always should be the case, remember and encourage Safe, Sane and Consensual practice.

Suggestions:

1. Include your preferred role. Dom/me, sub, switch or none of the above and just loving a bit of kink to your play.

2. What are you looking for? e mail partner, a phone partner, a playmate, a discreet playmate or a long term relationship with all the trimmings?

3. Age, location and preferences are always helpful. If you have a checklist somewhere, keep it readily available to share if you so chose.

4. Feel free to direct new friends to profiles you may have on other sites. (I hope this isn't spamming, but it can save lots of time!) :D Sorry Laurel!

5. Be considerate and respectful to one another on the thread. This isn't a "Play nice" edict, but if you post something seen as rude or malicious, who knows who is reading it? You could really lose out on something special.

6. Above all, BE SAFE!

I will visit the thread daily and give it a nudge for purposes of visibility.

Note: If you are someone who is not interested in BDSM and have moral issues with the lifestyle, this is not the place to post those concerns. Feel free to post a separate thread elsewhere with your questions or concerns or pm me directly.

Good Luck, everyone.

Enjoy.

:rose:
 
Ottawa Dom Switch

Male age 40 dom /switch seeking female for discrete realtime. skin to skin, fun and friendship in my area, or who is able to be in my area code of 613. I am 6'2" tall, 225 lbs, goodlooking, and very sane, safe, and sensual. I have no preconcieved ideas or agenda, just seeking someone to play with and to celebrate our uniqueness . All fetish ideas entertained and welcomed. All Pm's will get a reply. I am spirtual / newage, with an open understanding mind. Perhaps you have similar qualities?
 
looking for a sub!

Hi everyone I'm cellis and if you have spent anytime on the BDSM Talk Forum then you know a little aboit me.

I am a switch in a committed relationship with Himself, a most wonderful Dom. I guess we all mostly say that about our partners, but in this case it is true.

We have spent the better part of this year looking for a bisexual female sub. Age and looks really don't matter to us. Although I do think that if you are interested that you should that we are a little older in our mid forties. You would think that it would not be that hard, but of course, we all know the competition is fierce in the BDSM world!

Oh did I mention that we are looking for a Real Life experience, not cyber, so living in Texas would be a big plus and in Houston would be even better.

In addition, we are open to all levels of experience. So if you have years of experience that is great. But if you are new and seeking to have that very first experience that is okay, too. I might add that we will take all the time necessary to get to know a person.

And Miss T. a big hug and kisses to you!

:rose: :kiss:
 
Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

MissTaken said:
BDSM Personals

As some of you are aware, the issue of where, how and when to place BDSM personals has be discussed since the inception of the BDSM Discussion Forum. As a possible alternative to posting an ad there, having it moved here and then losing it, here is a thread we can devote to people interested in the lifestyle and sharing it with someone.

AS always should be the case, remember and encourage Safe, Sane and Consensual practice.

Suggestions:

1. Include your preferred role. Dom/me, sub, switch or none of the above and just loving a bit of kink to your play.

2. What are you looking for? e mail partner, a phone partner, a playmate, a discreet playmate or a long term relationship with all the trimmings?

3. Age, location and preferences are always helpful. If you have a checklist somewhere, keep it readily available to share if you so chose.

4. Feel free to direct new friends to profiles you may have on other sites. (I hope this isn't spamming, but it can save lots of time!) :D Sorry Laurel!

5. Be considerate and respectful to one another on the thread. This isn't a "Play nice" edict, but if you post something seen as rude or malicious, who knows who is reading it? You could really lose out on something special.

6. Above all, BE SAFE!

I will visit the thread daily and give it a nudge for purposes of visibility.

Note: If you are someone who is not interested in BDSM and have moral issues with the lifestyle, this is not the place to post those concerns. Feel free to post a separate thread elsewhere with your questions or concerns or pm me directly.

Good Luck, everyone.

Enjoy.

:rose:

Hey there MissTaken!!!! Love that new AV!!!!!

I can be both Dom and Sub, tho I prefer to be sup!!! that's where my passion lies!!! I so enjoy giving in to another and being used for his/her pleasure!

I'm looking for something to start as online and eventurally move to r/l. Maybe in the end something long term with all the trimmings! I'm a lil new but getting everything down. I'm patient and quick learner. I listen very well.

I live in Waco, TX. Preferences? I'm still figuring that out. I so enjoy being bitten so I am looking for a Master/Mistress that is into biting!! Other than that, just about anything else goes. I'm very open minded and have things that I wanna try. The only thing I would not be interested in is niddle torture. Nipple torture is fine, just not with niddles.

I'm 5'5", long brown hair(and love to have it pulled!), and am a bbw. Looking for a Master/Mistress that doesn't mind that.

Thx everyone. You can email me or pm me. Either is fine. I'm alright with email encourters as well. Have a great day everyone!
 
Re: looking for a sub!

cellis said:
Hi everyone I'm cellis and if you have spent anytime on the BDSM Talk Forum then you know a little aboit me.

I am a switch in a committed relationship with Himself, a most wonderful Dom. I guess we all mostly say that about our partners, but in this case it is true.

We have spent the better part of this year looking for a bisexual female sub. Age and looks really don't matter to us. Although I do think that if you are interested that you should that we are a little older in our mid forties. You would think that it would not be that hard, but of course, we all know the competition is fierce in the BDSM world!

Oh did I mention that we are looking for a Real Life experience, not cyber, so living in Texas would be a big plus and in Houston would be even better.

In addition, we are open to all levels of experience. So if you have years of experience that is great. But if you are new and seeking to have that very first experience that is okay, too. I might add that we will take all the time necessary to get to know a person.

And Miss T. a big hug and kisses to you!

:rose: :kiss:

Love your AV!!!! find it a complete turn on!!!
 
Re: Re: looking for a sub!

ShiningEyes said:


Love your AV!!!! find it a complete turn on!!!

Thank you... that wonderful Dom I was speaking about took it recently!
 
Re: Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

ShiningEyes said:


Hey there MissTaken!!!! Love that new AV!!!!!

I can be both Dom and Sub, tho I prefer to be sup!!! that's where my passion lies!!! I so enjoy giving in to another and being used for his/her pleasure!

I'm looking for something to start as online and eventurally move to r/l. Maybe in the end something long term with all the trimmings! I'm a lil new but getting everything down. I'm patient and quick learner. I listen very well.

I live in Waco, TX. Preferences? I'm still figuring that out. I so enjoy being bitten so I am looking for a Master/Mistress that is into biting!! Other than that, just about anything else goes. I'm very open minded and have things that I wanna try. The only thing I would not be interested in is niddle torture. Nipple torture is fine, just not with niddles.

I'm 5'5", long brown hair(and love to have it pulled!), and am a bbw. Looking for a Master/Mistress that doesn't mind that.

Thx everyone. You can email me or pm me. Either is fine. I'm alright with email encourters as well. Have a great day everyone!

Too bad you are in Waco and not a little closer... you know the biting thing is such a turn on for me.... and of course, I could show you my back from yesterday... or my shoulders... it will be a week before the marks go away!
 
Hum

I have posted personals a couple times each time they get lost. So hopefully this one will work out a little bit better for me!

As of next week I will be broken up with and moved out of my boyfriends house YEAAAAA, quite excited. Although I am a little scared this is the first time I have ever actually lived on my own.

So as of the first weekend of August I will be single. I am a little against men right now (please don't take offence to that anyone) I am sure it will only be a short term thing. In the future I want a Master but that is not what I am looking for right now.

What I am and have been looking for is a female ... mmmm somewhere between the ages of 18-30... or somewhere around there. I don't know. Spacific ages aren't true to the person. I am a submissive .. but for the past year I have had these incredably urges for my own little female pet. I don't know I think it would all depend on the chemistry between us wether I was sub or dom.

Here is a little about me. I just turned 20, I have more of a gothic style to me. I am fun, loveable, compassionate, but I do have a strong head and can be stubborn sometimes. About 90% of the people who have met me would not recognize that I was 20 they usually assume I am in my mid 20's. Here this is a good idea... if you want to know a little bit more about me check out my site The Crow's Nest There are pictures of me, things I have written, things I have painting... tons of other stuff.

I am looking for someone who is willing to go out and do stuff with me, I am a very social person and I like to have fun. That is one thing that I couldn't stand living with my boyfriend in the over a year that we were together he took me out twice. He was a home body and very unwilling to go do anything. So now I have to make up for that year. LOL

Ok now that I have blumbered a long here if you have any more questions PM's are welcome and will get answered or you can e-mail me. raincrow_88@hotmail.com

PS and no I don't talk much about the Xboyfriend I was just using him as an example!!
http://home.attbi.com/~raincrow/jasmine_crowsmall.JPG
 
Let me start off by introducing myself. My name is Lindsay. I have been known as Pet, Puppi, and Tiggs. I used to be a Mod to this board well over a year ago, and have been recently reappointed here. So, if you have a question or concern involving the personals, please feel free to contact me. :)

Now, onto the matter at hand here... ;) If it's not obvious by my name and profile (since I do not have a custom title or Av under this new name yet), I am a submissive. My Fiance is my Dominant. He and I are in O/our mid to late 20s and live in Omaha, Ne. If there are any bisexual women, or swinging couples, in the area (preferably who are into BDSM) drop me a line!! :D



Have fun and play safe!
~Puppi
:kiss:
 
Re: Re: Re: looking for a sub!

cellis said:


Thank you... that wonderful Dom I was speaking about took it recently!

now if i could get someone to take pictures of me in that...ummm...situation! lol
 
Re: Re: Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

cellis said:


Too bad you are in Waco and not a little closer... you know the biting thing is such a turn on for me.... and of course, I could show you my back from yesterday... or my shoulders... it will be a week before the marks go away!

My ex bed buddy left marks on m!! He wasn't trying to it just kinda happened that way. I couldn't get enough so he tried to satisfy me. lol I always had to come up with new ways to hide them.
 
Re: Re: Re: Re: looking for a sub!

ShiningEyes said:


now if i could get someone to take pictures of me in that...ummm...situation! lol

Well if you are ever in Houston let me know! Maybe something could be arranged!
 
Re: Re: Re: Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

ShiningEyes said:


My ex bed buddy left marks on m!! He wasn't trying to it just kinda happened that way. I couldn't get enough so he tried to satisfy me. lol I always had to come up with new ways to hide them.

Yep, I know what yoy mean... No tank tops out side the house for a while!
 
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

cellis said:


Yep, I know what yoy mean... No tank tops out side the house for a while!

I like them tho. Not exactly sure why. Just wishing it was done more often
 
What a good idea MissT

I'm looking for a female submissive in the North Georgia, Upstate South Carolina, Eastern TN area. Ideally, you should be around 35 years old, but plus or minus 15 years works also. Level of experience isn't important. I'm willing to nurture the relationship through emails and later the phone, but if that's all you are looking for then don't respond. Cyber subs are welcome, but if you use your safe word during the warm-up I'll be disappointed.
 
Thank you, WD.

*smirking*

I haven't decided if I am posting yet. I do hope it works well for some, you included :)

Now, I know for a fact that there are many more people here that enjoy BDSM and are looking.

Feel free to post as much or as little as you like, all.

As for me, for now, I will simply whisper in your ear

I am lacey36 on bondage,.com
 
MissTaken said:
Thank you, WD.

*smirking*

I haven't decided if I am posting yet. I do hope it works well for some, you included :)

Now, I know for a fact that there are many more people here that enjoy BDSM and are looking.


Yes, I know there are people who come here for the stories and only read the personals. They'll be more. Give it time :)
 
Re: BDSM and Kink Personals~ post here!

MissTaken said:
BDSM Personals

As some of you are aware, the issue of where, how and when to place BDSM personals has be discussed since the inception of the BDSM Discussion Forum. As a possible alternative to posting an ad there, having it moved here and then losing it, here is a thread we can devote to people interested in the lifestyle and sharing it with someone.

AS always should be the case, remember and encourage Safe, Sane and Consensual practice.

Suggestions:

1. Include your preferred role. Dom/me, sub, switch or none of the above and just loving a bit of kink to your play.

2. What are you looking for? e mail partner, a phone partner, a playmate, a discreet playmate or a long term relationship with all the trimmings?

3. Age, location and preferences are always helpful. If you have a checklist somewhere, keep it readily available to share if you so chose.

4. Feel free to direct new friends to profiles you may have on other sites. (I hope this isn't spamming, but it can save lots of time!) :D Sorry Laurel!

5. Be considerate and respectful to one another on the thread. This isn't a "Play nice" edict, but if you post something seen as rude or malicious, who knows who is reading it? You could really lose out on something special.

6. Above all, BE SAFE!

I will visit the thread daily and give it a nudge for purposes of visibility.

Note: If you are someone who is not interested in BDSM and have moral issues with the lifestyle, this is not the place to post those concerns. Feel free to post a separate thread elsewhere with your questions or concerns or pm me directly.

Good Luck, everyone.

Enjoy.

:rose:

(bump)-I just wanted to thank you for the thread MissT. A great idea,...the longer it can be kept front page,...the more it will be USED.
 
YOUR POST

This is my first time to answer any of these things so I don't know what I am doing.I dont know what you are looking for.I write BDSM stories and soon hope to post on this site.I think that is what your intrest is.

PICK UP MAN
 
Welcome to the boards, Pick up man.

:)

We are just posting all of our BDSM personal ads in one place so as to better , well, hopefully better find a connection.

If this interests you, feel free to tell us a bit about what you might be looking for !
 
Oh-kay.

Thirty one year old single heterosexual male switch; 6'0", 325lbs, CNY area. BDSM interests include bondage, spanking, tickling, and sexual teasing (especially combined with bondage). Not entirely sure what my "soft" limits are; they've never been pushed. "Hard" limits involve overt public displays (specifically humiliating in nature), fecal or urine play, knife play, pretty much anything under the "edgy" category. I like to avoid the ER, thanks much. :D As a switch, those interests are in both giving and receiving.

R/L interests include Computers (duh! :rolleyes: ), Photography (nature and architecture), Hiking, Camping, Movies (as opposed to "films"), Languages, Cultures, Professional Wrestling, Anime, Comic Books, basically the whole wide world.

Seeking: Single Female of compatible interests (Geek like me) e-mail, phone, friendship, LTR. I'd like to know a person and develop a relationship first.

There, I did it! Miss T, feel free to post yours! This seems friendly enough!

edited to include: Forgot a kink! Crossdressing.
 
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Maybe, T.

Just maybe!


Oh, and I will throw in my two cents. T is a great guy, patient with kids and fun to hang out with. We have gotten together a couple of times and NEED TO DO IT AGAIN!


Hint Hint!
 
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU ALL ARE TALKING ABOUT

I just thought I was answering a lady who was interested in BDSM.I have no idea what you people are talking about.I write BDSM stories and thought you might to read one.
 
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