BDSM and "harder" play?

[jeninflorida]

We’ve enjoyed some dom/dome play in the past with other females and loved having one couple stay with us (they were both submissive and it was more or less a working vacation for them when they stayed with us).

On the fiction side I’ve been asked to write harder bdsm stories but I’m not sure where to go with this. From my experience I’ve enjoyed face sitting, humiliation of pets, having a pet nude while in public or parties, clips (for nipples, clits, and balls), having subs act as chairs, and things like that.

Sure some people loved to be slapped. But when they ask for harder stories what does that mean?

 

[Corylea]

I think you should write the kinds of stories that you have a feel for. If someone wants "harder" stories, let them write those themselves, or seek out an author who's already writing those.

This is not to say that I don't think authors should challenge themselves, stretch themselves, and seek to grow as writers, but in the direction that calls to YOU, not in the direction some random reader asked for.

I will always be interested in what my characters are thinking and feeling, and I will never care all that much about what they look like. The day I post a story that talks about a character's "36-C breasts" is the day you know that someone has hacked into my account. Some people like this about my work, and some people hate it. *shrug* I don't care. There are lots of ways that I'd like to grow as a writer, but I can only grow in MY direction, not in whatever people ask for.

 

[Summore]

Harder BDSM

I think Corylea is right. I use literotica to explore some things I fancy and also some things that I have never tried and may never try. It really is the ultimate safe sex in that respect LOL But be warned; getting into a character can be a little scary if you are willing to go there just make sure you can get back
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