BDSM and dreams

[PaxNurgle]

Has anyone ever had a dream of submitting to, or "Scene playing" with someone you casually know but never had any particular feelings for?

Last night I had a rather intense erotic dream about a woman I know casually, but we were never on romantic terms. She has never indicated that she is in any way "kinky" or interested in that sort of thing. However, in the dream, we had agreed to rendezvous at night, and I was to be Her plaything, to use, abuse, violate and humiliate, for the night. I woke up feeling more aroused than I had in a long time, and now I can't stop thinking about this person, who honestly I never thought about as more than just a casual friend.

I clearly know the difference between dream and reality, so of course I have no intention of creeping out over her in real life, or even saying anything about it to her or even anyone who might know her.

Has anyone ever experienced a sudden unconscious fantasy like this? This was a dream, not a conscious creep fantasy, but I still feel somewhat guilty and embarassed by it.

 

[Winterscumming]

I have experienced this. I had a professor, my favorite actually. After I graduated we became mutuals on social media and spoke occasionally. One night I had the most insanely amazing and vivid dream about them. For awhile I convinced myself I had a crush on them, but honestly once that initial “high” from the memory of the dream wore off, I realized I definitely didn’t have a real crush or interest in them.

It’s been years, but still every now and then I’ll see a profile pic or something and have a flash back to that dream.

 

[seela]

Yes, I've had this happen a couple of times, most recently with the ex of a friend. The dream roused lots of feelings for sure, but most of all it left me feeling guilty, because I thought I let my friend down with my dream. I'm occasionally in touch with the ex and ever since the dream I've been acting a little weird in those situations.

I'd never tell either of them about the dream, though, and I'd never act on the dream either.

 

[FallenAngelBBC]

Looking for a kinky and open minded sub

imagine you are in my hotel room..i've tied you up...your legs and hands spread..your eyes blind folded...and your pussy is quivering in anticipation...i bring a burning candle and drop the wax on your nipples as they get hard..i hook a nipple clamp on them and hold the chain in my hand...now i get to your head..choke you and dunk my cock into your mouth to throat fuck you...while pulling the nipple clamps...wanna continue?

Yes, I've had this happen a couple of times, most recently with the ex of a friend. The dream roused lots of feelings for sure, but most of all it left me feeling guilty, because I thought I let my friend down with my dream. I'm occasionally in touch with the ex and ever since the dream I've been acting a little weird in those situations.

I'd never tell either of them about the dream, though, and I'd never act on the dream either.

 

[MeekMe]

imagine you are in my hotel room..i've tied you up...your legs and hands spread..your eyes blind folded...and your pussy is quivering in anticipation...i bring a burning candle and drop the wax on your nipples as they get hard..i hook a nipple clamp on them and hold the chain in my hand...now i get to your head..choke you and dunk my cock into your mouth to throat fuck you...while pulling the nipple clamps...wanna continue?

This is absolutely the wrong place for this. Skedaddle back on over to the BDSM Personals like a good little boy.

 

[Bramblethorn]

imagine you are in my hotel room..i've tied you up...your legs and hands spread..your eyes blind folded...and your pussy is quivering in anticipation...

...but how fast is it quivering? Is this a 60-Hz North American quivering, or a 50-Hz European quivering? I can't imagine the scene properly without that information.

i bring a burning candle and drop the wax on your nipples as they get hard..i hook a nipple clamp on them and hold the chain in my hand...now i get to your head..choke you and dunk my cock into your mouth to throat fuck you...while pulling the nipple clamps...wanna continue?

The bell rings. It's room service. The maid looks appalled by what she sees. "Mr. Legghumpre! You're dripping wax all over the bedspread! That's going to have to come out of your deposit!"

She wheels the cart into the room - two bowls of cocktail franks and a Mountain Dew, just like you ordered. On her way past she casts a contemptuous glance at the nipple clamps. "Didn't know they sold those at Hot Topic."

 

[PaxNurgle]

^ha ha, post of the day.

As for the FallenAngel post, I couldn't tell if he was just describing a dream or fantasy, or "Trolling for action" so to speak; it's hard to tell and I don't just want to make a premature blanket assumption it is the latter.

(edit Although to be fair, in context of responding to Seela, it does come across as a little premature and maybe a bit creepy.

I have noticed that in dreams, the subspace and the erotic feelings seem to be ten times more powerful than anything I have ever experienced in waking- whether the dreams are about real people I know or strangers. When they are about real people, as hot as it is, I do later feel embarassed about having feelings like that- especially from a submissive/kink oriented male point of view where those kind of sexual feelings are unlikely to be reciprocated (and no, I am not" trolling for action" when I post this.)