BDSM and club drugs.

Betticus

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I was recalling some intense cuddling whilst on x and had a thought.

Mind control, bdsm, psychotropics, orgasm control and sex.

To tie someone up, bind them in a helpless way after having them ingest something that makes you feel intense sensation and then to mentally and physically tease the bejesus out of them. Make them beg and cry and get soaking wet and frustrated.

That would be a lot of fun!
 
Betticus said:
I was recalling some intense cuddling whilst on x and had a thought.

Mind control, bdsm, psychotropics, orgasm control and sex.

To tie someone up, bind them in a helpless way after having them ingest something that makes you feel intense sensation and then to mentally and physically tease the bejesus out of them. Make them beg and cry and get soaking wet and frustrated.

That would be a lot of fun!
For me, I do not use any drugs or booze in scene at all because they can screw up all three parts of SSC.

Hate to be a spoil sport, but I want us both to have as clear a head as possible to reduce the possibility of injury.
 
Quint said:
In a purely theoretical way, etc, etc...

I'd probably want to play a little darker. I can see whimpering and helpless in a terrified mind-altered frenzy being extremely sexy when played back.

I was eventually working my way into a CIA style prisoner questioning scenario. Mind altering drugs, buckets of ice cold water, forced anal penetration, spanking, smothering and some type of nice violet wand.... maybe a stun gun.
 
Betticus said:
I was recalling some intense cuddling whilst on x and had a thought.

Mind control, bdsm, psychotropics, orgasm control and sex.

To tie someone up, bind them in a helpless way after having them ingest something that makes you feel intense sensation and then to mentally and physically tease the bejesus out of them. Make them beg and cry and get soaking wet and frustrated.

That would be a lot of fun!
I'll be honest ... I'd be willing to try it, with the X at least ... but only with my Master, whom I trust implicitly. However, that being said, my Master being professionally what He is would never consider such a thing, much less allow it to happen. In fact, He'll probably stroke out the moment He reads this post and sees that I would even consider it.

*shrugs* I've always wondered what sex on X was like .... I've heard it's awesome. I'm adventurous ... I'll try almost anything, once.
 
Quint said:
In a purely theoretical way, etc, etc...

I'd probably want to play a little darker. I can see whimpering and helpless in a terrified mind-altered frenzy being extremely sexy when played back.

I'm assuming you're talking about hallucinogens?

I don't know what your experience is with these kinds of drugs, but I want to say that this is NOT a good idea.

I'm no Nancy Reagan, but I do know that it can be hard enough making sure you don't have a bad trip without intentionally trying to go there. There is nothing fun or sexy about a bad trip and I imagine it might make certain areas of play difficult in the future.

Drugs and fear do not mix in my opinion, no way, no how, not at all.

Drugs and affection, well, that's a different story.
 
You can use all that to reach a high better than any drug ;)

I've had highs from being sexually tormented better than anything else I've ever done. I spent a large part of my earlier life searching for that ultimate high! I think shrooms were the best, but that stuff is more for your self mind
realization IMO.

Having my Mistress taking me to a point of not only mind expansion, but also a body expansion, is unreal to say the least! If only I would have realized this in my early years Dammit:)
 
I have a "friend" who tried to watch Saw 3 on shrooms.

Wasn't such a hot experience.

Shrooms on a Hawaiian cliff overlooking the ocean with someone you love, great experience.
 
Sorry but for me if you want to use drugs or booze I am not interested in your play or lifestyle choices. Like Shankara and Marquis said, it is not fun or sexy or safe, and frankly I can get enough of a natural high with and without play to not need to fuck myself up with drugs. There is talent in conducting a scene to achieve whatever result you want, including earth shattering terror, and if you use drugs it seems it is just a prop for not being able to or wanting to do it yourself. I'm sure you would find plenty who would jump at the chance though because there are a lot of gullible victims out there who will believe whatever you tell them is good for them.

Catalina :catroar:
 
I've tried acid twice, both several years back (around 98/99) and yeah, there was way too much going on in my head. I think doing BDSM while on acid would be a little too much, for me anyway. Some sensation play - a feather tickling the arm, an ice cube in the hand - might be interesting, but not in a kink way.
 
i did x a few times in my younger days (ok i am not old enuff to use that saying but)
it was before bdsm, but me and hub (then bf) had some great sex
now dont get me wrong, between two ppl who want this scenario Betticus described, that also perferrably had prior experience with the drug so they want to expect there (insert disclaimer about poss. not knowing what to expect on x here) this could be hot for them
but not for me
because
1. i am not gonna do x ever again (been there, done that, glad i did, but more glad i wasnt the one percent or whatever that doesnt have such a good time <or die>, also glad i never got hooked to anything-thank god -thank god)
2. i am one of the ones whod rather be clear minded during the scene, not just so nothing goes wrong, but more cause i dont want to miss a thing, or forget it later, i like to relive it again and again in my mind; and i already have enuff foggy part damage from indulging in my earlier years

that said, i totally get why thatd be hot, the force drugging, frustrating torture,etc
just would make a good bdsm flick for me though
 
catalina_francisco said:
Sorry but for me if you want to use drugs or booze I am not interested in your play or lifestyle choices. Like Shankara and Marquis said, it is not fun or sexy or safe, and frankly I can get enough of a natural high with and without play to not need to fuck myself up with drugs. There is talent in conducting a scene to achieve whatever result you want, including earth shattering terror, and if you use drugs it seems it is just a prop for not being able to or wanting to do it yourself. I'm sure you would find plenty who would jump at the chance though because there are a lot of gullible victims out there who will believe whatever you tell them is good for them.

Catalina :catroar:


This is basically what I was trying to imply. Producing a scene that gives you a high that far outcedes any drugs. I searched for that ultimate high early in my life using drugs. But I have come across some of the most fantastic highs I have ever incurred in sceneplay. The natural high of subspace I've found is the best!
 
submissiveknight said:
This is basically what I was trying to imply. Producing a scene that gives you a high that far outcedes any drugs. I searched for that ultimate high early in my life using drugs. But I have come across some of the most fantastic highs I have ever incurred in sceneplay. The natural high of subspace I've found is the best!

As I was getting into this thing that we do a friend asked if I was going for the high or the sex. I answered "both", but truth be told I love the high more.

In some places that high is called non-ordinary states of consciousness (NOSC) and there are many non-drug ways of inducing them. but "set and setting" are very important in using NOSC for personal growth...



edit - I forgot the "S" in NOSC
 
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Shankara20 said:
As I was getting into this thing that we do a friend asked if I was going for the high or the sex. I answered "both", but truth be told I love the high more.

In some places that high is called non-ordinary states of consciousness (NOC) and there are many non-drug ways of inducing them. but "set and setting" are very important in using NOC for personal growth...


This would be a great thread to start. Your threads are so well recieved ever consider starting one on this subject.:)
 
No! I think it would be just amazing to lure a s/o into the dungeon. To have everything prepared and to see the look of fear come over her as she realizes that something completely different is about to happen. She would her table set up with the restraints ready. I would strip her and force her into the bindings. I would take my time with the preparation of the drugs and mix her a nice alcoholic drink to mask the taste then explain to her that this is going to be a very different experience. I would tell her to swallow the drink and if she fought me I would just force it down her neck.

Then I would put on some nice, soothing music for me to enjoy. I'd put the blindfold on her and let her know that I'm going to be there with her the whole time. We would try out different stimulation, lots of teasing and voice and sexy talk, build her frustration up and play with it in any way that I want. I'd explore her helpless little body and mind to my hearts content and I can assure you that she would be just fine and would learn to enjoy the whole experience. Part of that experience being that she has no idea what little chemical gift I have given to her. She would just have to trust that I know what I'm doing and that I will keep her nice and safe.
 
Betticus said:
No! I think it would be just amazing to lure a s/o into the dungeon. To have everything prepared and to see the look of fear come over her as she realizes that something completely different is about to happen. She would her table set up with the restraints ready. I would strip her and force her into the bindings. I would take my time with the preparation of the drugs and mix her a nice alcoholic drink to mask the taste then explain to her that this is going to be a very different experience. I would tell her to swallow the drink and if she fought me I would just force it down her neck.

Then I would put on some nice, soothing music for me to enjoy. I'd put the blindfold on her and let her know that I'm going to be there with her the whole time. We would try out different stimulation, lots of teasing and voice and sexy talk, build her frustration up and play with it in any way that I want. I'd explore her helpless little body and mind to my hearts content and I can assure you that she would be just fine and would learn to enjoy the whole experience. Part of that experience being that she has no idea what little chemical gift I have given to her. She would just have to trust that I know what I'm doing and that I will keep her nice and safe.
Interesting fantasy - but anything more that a fantasy and I have real problems with it for reasons already expressed.

You are being a very very bad boy....
 
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Shankara20 said:
Interesting fantasy - but anything more that a fantasy and I have real problems with it for reasons already expressed.

You are being a very very bad boy....

My middle name is bad boy!
 
I'm interested in other ways of altering the state. Hypnosis, sound, light, sens deprivation. I find these ways of altering the state a little more predictable and easily UNdone than playing with the chemistry.

Also with my luck, the chick would have some unknown heart issue and be one of the few people who just flatlines or has some insane allergic reaction to something - do you really want the minute risk of that?

I have enough paranoia in my life with men taking viagra and then wanting to do bondage. :rolleyes:
 
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Netzach said:
I'm interested in other ways of altering the state. Hypnosis, sound, light, sens deprivation. I find these ways of altering the state a little more predictable and easily UNdone than playing with the chemistry.

Also with my luck, the chick would have some unknown heart issue and be one of the few people who just flatlines or has some insane allergic reaction to something - do you really want the minute risk of that?

I have enough paranoia in my life with men taking viagra and then wanting to do bondage. :rolleyes:

That could be a new genre of bdsm. We'll call it bondagra and then use it for some serious orgasm denial.
 
Betticus said:
That could be a new genre of bdsm. We'll call it bondagra and then use it for some serious orgasm denial.

Yeah, if it didn't result in people stroking out it'd be fun.
 
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