BBW thoughts

Annabelllee2003

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I saw a post earlier.. I just wanted to tell you my opinion.

May not be worth much.


Of Big Women.


They have a charm. They are rather unobtrusive, for all of their size. They suggest a warm feeling. Although most of you don't realize that you have been in the presence of a beautiful big woman. It has been said that they are usually really big and rarely beautiful, I beg to differ.


They are with us every day. They are the ones that your closest friends hurt by saying, oh I am so sorry, I know you have been my friend since childhood, but I need my wedding to be perfect, and you are well, too fat, to be in the pictures. So Skinny Kim will be my maid of honour.


Your dear friend accepts this.. After all, she is a good friend.

But do you know?

The scars and stretchmarks on her big body represent so much more?

The two scars that represent the children she had.

The other scar, an accident. So much did she want another child, she nearly died for it.

Another, ah, those sweet breasts.. So Womanly, so beautiful.
She had a little lump, that thankfully was nothing.

The gall bladder that quit. That's another scar. Or the bowel that quit functioning after the second kid that needed a little boost to start functioning again.

Always so nice to have a fat friend to stand beside in pictures to make you look skinnier.

She seems so jovial. So willing to laugh at nothing. She is atune to her children and the hurts they will endure.. She has been there for you.

She smiles when the hurt is the greatest. For she knows the hard way, what is worse, inaction or rather non-reaction.

She is a wonderful cocksucker. Don't you know? She is the best there is.. Why? Because she doesn't know when her husband of 23 years will decide to go with a slimmer model..

She has no respect from society. Her children can sometimes treat her as just an embarrassment at the PTA.

She is a big woman. Full of love and honesty. Caring.

And aside from the real life roadmap of stretcbmarks on her belly, the very worst scars are not physical, but mental. To endure another day of Barbie and Ken, trodden down by convention, and commonplace standards, this bold woman, turns the other ample cheek.. In defeat perhaps, but I don't think so ... in retaliation, she is better than the assholes that will again strike that sweet cheek with stupidity.
 
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my applause

A fitting tribute, AnnaB, raising a veritable lump in my throat.
Very pleasing to read.
When I've modelled for life classes these ladies have taken on the role of my protectors; my vulnerability overcome by their attentive care of this naked man.
Distant sisters and mothers, whose interest I've been fortunate enough to receive. It also makes them very sexy to work for! :rose:
 
BBW....Oh how I love thee. There's no better woman to mother me, and the breasts of some BBWs are AWESOME (they can make me so envious!). I think variety is a good thing to enjoy, and sometimes everyone needs a much bigger woman than themselves. What better place to rest your head, or get a really big hug. I've always found most BBWs to be very maternal, and that makes loving easy. A BBW femme-domme to me is so seeexxxy too...!
 
Okay, now somebody needs to make it a Story Idea. Any thoughts on *that* subject?

RS
 
Ah RS... Now I find myself giving the story idea some considerable thought....

Who knows? Look for it soon! And of course, collaboration is greatly appreciated!

Anna
 
Annabelllee2003 said:
Ah RS... Now I find myself giving the story idea some considerable thought....

Who knows? Look for it soon! And of course, collaboration is greatly appreciated!

Anna

Well... I read the first post several times, went and had a howl, then read it again. I could certainly write on this topic - especially the unthinking dismissal and cruelty of society to bigger women - but it'd take a while. It's a bit close to home to just zap off.
You have any questions about life as a slightly-bigger-than-most woman, Anna, drop me a line.

Thinking firmly of the pillowy breasts and warm comforting image side of being ample.... and munching on yet another stick of celery to try and lose some of it. The duality of being oneself and trying to conform to social pressure.... sigh. :(
 
I'm not a BBW myself, but I think the envy is useless. We are what we are. It really depends on which country you're in anyway. The western ideal is considered way too skinny by many African cultures, and way too big by many Asian cultures.

I keep thinking of stone-age goddeses for some reason. I'm sure a lovely story could come from some Earth Mother cult concept, set in the stone-age.
 
My characters are generally less than perfect examples of flesh and bone and for that, I have recieved a lot of favorable feedbackl. (My being a mediocre writer is another issue! ;))

However, when working a BBW story, what about the BBW who hooks up with the Adonis?

It happens and is far more exciting and realistic than some may think?

It could even have a bit of plot in which there is jealousy from the fickle Beauty Queen or even a three some?

Yes, Beauty is relative to the beholder, but writing porn is more effective when it is a bit realistic, IMHO.

Let the BBW's and not so perfect guys and gals feel like you are writing about them.

:)
 
I can't wait to read this....

Where are the bbw stories located, anyway? hmm...
 
Maybe we should start a site? I'd cerainly like to visit it. Anyway, at least we can keep adding to this thread...keep the discussion alive, and it can become a meeting place for BBW, fans, friends, and even cheerleaders...

...BBW cheerleaders...sorry, but the thought has made me breathless. Wow, the wonder of it all.
 
toffeegyrl said:

Where are the bbw stories located, anyway? hmm...

Right now they are "everywhere", but Lit's search feature has been down for a long time now. That makes it hard to find what you are looking for, saddly.

I pulled up a thread recently where Laurel stated if there were "enough" BBW stories submitted to Lit she would give them their own category here. I guess there hasn't been much interest anymore?
 
Lovelynice said:

Anyway, at least we can keep adding to this thread...keep the discussion alive, and it can become a meeting place for BBW, fans, friends, and even cheerleaders...

Check out the Playground. Such a place already exists.

This is, after all, the wrong board for general chat.
 
Lovelynice said:
The western ideal is considered way too skinny by many African cultures, and way too big by many Asian cultures.

I've dated a lot of African immigrants, who loved my big body. When I mentioned this to an African woman I know, she nodded and said:

"Yeah, it was the same thing back in my country. The fat girls got all the guys, I couldn't find anyone!"

For a while, I was seriously thinking of moving to Africa.;)
 
Hi you darling things you.

I have started a story that I want to put on the big board before the fifth to go with the valentine's thing. It is bbw.. would you like to read it? If so, please give me some insight after you read the first part. And I will make it a story for all of us.


Tell me Please!

Anna
 
Just submitted the whole thing to the site. Used a valentine theme.

Thank you all for the support and ideas.

Turned out romantic!

:kiss:
 
What's the story called?

....I think everyone will really want to know....not only curious me.
 
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