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This post is probably going to make a lot of people mad; that’s not its intent. The intent is to make as many women who consider themselves BBW aware of the relation between excess weight and sexuality.
I’m not talking about those of you who are 20-30 lbs over your ideal weight; yes weight is an important health factor for you, but not as much as it is for heavier women.
Fist a bit about me; I’m a healthy heterosexual male, I’ve been a sexual addict since adolescence, and am currently being treated. My SO is aware of my background, and participates in my treatment. Because of my addiction, I’ve been with more women then I care to mention, more women then I can remember. If I had to guess, I’d put the number in excess of 1000. I had a room mate that once commented I’d fuck a snake, if someone would hold its head. I don’t think I was that bad, but I wasn’t very discriminating.
Because of my lack of discrimination, I’ve been with women of all sizes and shapes; the youngest was 17, the oldest over 70. I’ve been with women when they were thin, after they gained weight, and again after loosing weight. Ladies, the difference is dramatic; much more then you might suspect.
I’ve seen a beautiful, responsive clit, become buried beneath rolls of fat. That wonderful little nub doesn’t stand a chance when it’s guarded by dam after dam of fat.
The difference in the feeling between penetrating a slender woman and a grossly overweight woman defies description. In extreme cases it’s difficult to tell when I’m actually entering a heavy woman. All that fat also makes it more difficult to reach your G spot. You are depriving yourself of a tremendous amount of pleasure, just as you are depriving your lover.
Your lack of flexibility, and your weight, limits the positions available to you. Do you dare be the one on top? Does you lover dare to have you there?
Yes, you may have the best personality in the world. You may be fun to be around. You may be the best mother in the world. You may give unforgettable blow jobs, boob fucks, and let your man do things with you that other girls won’t. But don’t expect to be first on his “booty call list”.
Wise up, loose that weight. You’ll live longer, have a happier sex life, and have a happier life in general. You can do it!
I don’t want a bunch of messages bellyaching about your metabolism, thyroid, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, or genetics. I don’t care how few calories your body burns, there is a point where you can maintain nutrition and still loose weight. There is no magic elixir, or combination of foods that will melt weight off. Diet books are written to make money, not to help you loose weight. They will tell you what you want to hear, and let you continue on your yo-yo pattern until you give up, or draw your last breath. If you eat balanced, and get some exercise, you can achieve a healthy weight. It’s simple science; your body needs fuel. Too much fuel and you gain weight. Burn more fuel than you take in, you loose weight. Some of you may have to eat like a bird, and work like a horse, but it can be done. All right, it’s not easy, but know what you are doing and make your choices.
My apologies for my brutal words; I hope they make a difference for at least one of you.
I’m not talking about those of you who are 20-30 lbs over your ideal weight; yes weight is an important health factor for you, but not as much as it is for heavier women.
Fist a bit about me; I’m a healthy heterosexual male, I’ve been a sexual addict since adolescence, and am currently being treated. My SO is aware of my background, and participates in my treatment. Because of my addiction, I’ve been with more women then I care to mention, more women then I can remember. If I had to guess, I’d put the number in excess of 1000. I had a room mate that once commented I’d fuck a snake, if someone would hold its head. I don’t think I was that bad, but I wasn’t very discriminating.
Because of my lack of discrimination, I’ve been with women of all sizes and shapes; the youngest was 17, the oldest over 70. I’ve been with women when they were thin, after they gained weight, and again after loosing weight. Ladies, the difference is dramatic; much more then you might suspect.
I’ve seen a beautiful, responsive clit, become buried beneath rolls of fat. That wonderful little nub doesn’t stand a chance when it’s guarded by dam after dam of fat.
The difference in the feeling between penetrating a slender woman and a grossly overweight woman defies description. In extreme cases it’s difficult to tell when I’m actually entering a heavy woman. All that fat also makes it more difficult to reach your G spot. You are depriving yourself of a tremendous amount of pleasure, just as you are depriving your lover.
Your lack of flexibility, and your weight, limits the positions available to you. Do you dare be the one on top? Does you lover dare to have you there?
Yes, you may have the best personality in the world. You may be fun to be around. You may be the best mother in the world. You may give unforgettable blow jobs, boob fucks, and let your man do things with you that other girls won’t. But don’t expect to be first on his “booty call list”.
Wise up, loose that weight. You’ll live longer, have a happier sex life, and have a happier life in general. You can do it!
I don’t want a bunch of messages bellyaching about your metabolism, thyroid, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, or genetics. I don’t care how few calories your body burns, there is a point where you can maintain nutrition and still loose weight. There is no magic elixir, or combination of foods that will melt weight off. Diet books are written to make money, not to help you loose weight. They will tell you what you want to hear, and let you continue on your yo-yo pattern until you give up, or draw your last breath. If you eat balanced, and get some exercise, you can achieve a healthy weight. It’s simple science; your body needs fuel. Too much fuel and you gain weight. Burn more fuel than you take in, you loose weight. Some of you may have to eat like a bird, and work like a horse, but it can be done. All right, it’s not easy, but know what you are doing and make your choices.
My apologies for my brutal words; I hope they make a difference for at least one of you.
I'm starting to wonder if I have Type II diabetes (since I had gestational diabetes when I was pregnant) and have had trouble losing weight no matter how little I eat or how much I walk.
