BBWetKitty
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Shy at first... need patience... and more exprerience....
BBW new to Dallas area
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Shy at first... need patience... and more exprerience....An analysis
OK, Wet kitty, let's analyze your profile and your post.
First you say you are shy. Maybe in a one-on-one dating situation, but you don't succeed as a sales marketing person by being shy. Old saying: timid salesmen/women have skinny kids. If you have any success in your business, you are not shy.
You are new to Lit. Everybody is at one time or another. No big deal.
AS a sales marketer, you are probably very self-critical personality. So BBW may describe you accurately, but the definition may not be what you thik it is or what others think it is. BBW is too often used as a synonym for obese. yet I know some BBW here in Dallas who fit the real definition. They are tall and large, but far from fat. I would die to have their legs wrapped around my face for an hour or so.
Also, the fatter women in sales/marketing are usually not the more successful types. Buyers generally, in my opinion, haave difficulty getting past the view of a person of ungainly size to consider making the purchase. So you may not be as BBW as you think.
So give yourself credit. You are probably not as you piture yourself. we don;t have a pic of you and we know very little of you other than what is in your post and what is in your profile.
So, be less critical and make a good self-evaluation. Look at yourself in the mirror, nude. I'll probably get flamed for this but see if your body is large, but firm. Or do you have rolls of fat all around you. Is it difficult for a lover to curl up behind you in bed and tell if he is holding a boob or fat? Then it is too much and you need to do something, for your health's sake. If you are just a large, but well proportioned woman, hey!! What is the problem.
So take a look and tell us more about yourself.
Igor
OK, Wet kitty, let's analyze your profile and your post.
First you say you are shy. Maybe in a one-on-one dating situation, but you don't succeed as a sales marketing person by being shy. Old saying: timid salesmen/women have skinny kids. If you have any success in your business, you are not shy.
You are new to Lit. Everybody is at one time or another. No big deal.
AS a sales marketer, you are probably very self-critical personality. So BBW may describe you accurately, but the definition may not be what you thik it is or what others think it is. BBW is too often used as a synonym for obese. yet I know some BBW here in Dallas who fit the real definition. They are tall and large, but far from fat. I would die to have their legs wrapped around my face for an hour or so.
Also, the fatter women in sales/marketing are usually not the more successful types. Buyers generally, in my opinion, haave difficulty getting past the view of a person of ungainly size to consider making the purchase. So you may not be as BBW as you think.
So give yourself credit. You are probably not as you piture yourself. we don;t have a pic of you and we know very little of you other than what is in your post and what is in your profile.
So, be less critical and make a good self-evaluation. Look at yourself in the mirror, nude. I'll probably get flamed for this but see if your body is large, but firm. Or do you have rolls of fat all around you. Is it difficult for a lover to curl up behind you in bed and tell if he is holding a boob or fat? Then it is too much and you need to do something, for your health's sake. If you are just a large, but well proportioned woman, hey!! What is the problem.
So take a look and tell us more about yourself.
Igor
Sweetie, if you haven't already, you may want to check out this thread:
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=128068
It's for BBWs and the people who love them.
No one there will tell you that BBWs can't be successful in sales and marketing, tell you to lose weight, nor write a disparaging analysis of you based on a one line post and a few words of profile.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=128068
It's for BBWs and the people who love them.
No one there will tell you that BBWs can't be successful in sales and marketing, tell you to lose weight, nor write a disparaging analysis of you based on a one line post and a few words of profile.
disparaging analysis
Bird's Wife
Frpm your reply to my post I can see that once, the lack of intonation in a post misinterprets the intent. I apologize for the misreading and misstating of my intent.
My whole intent was to tell her that many women who consider themselves BBW are NOT in the category of the euphemism for just being fat. I fully agree that a large woman can be successful in any field of endeavor. Maybe i stated it wrong, but it seems to me that she has a handicap to overcome, which she may very well have overcome. I won't tell her to lose weight. That is the purview of her doctor.
What I was trying to get across was that I know ladies who THINK they are BBW, but who actually meet the true definition of the word. Maybe they are in need of a few pounds to lose, but they are truly ladies who are Big, Beautiful and WOmen. They will attract anyone with a pair of eyes.
But I will stand by my description of a woman who is fat, i.e. one whose rolls of flesh around the body detract from their appearance. I was married to one and many times had difficulty telling whether or not I was caressing a breast or a roll of fat. And she was nearly this when we got married. So it did not keep me from marrying her. In later years, when we would travel, she would not even go inside to sit and talk with other wives while I was busy because she did not want anyone to see her like that. (her words)
But I happen to think that this lady is probably not as heavy as she thinks and has no reason to be shy. I would love to meet her and possibly date her. If she thinks I am acceptable to her.
Once again, I apologize for the lack of emotion in the words on the screen. I meant no disrespect to the lady and, if you go back and carefully read what I wrote, I think you will also see it.
Igor
Bird's Wife
Frpm your reply to my post I can see that once, the lack of intonation in a post misinterprets the intent. I apologize for the misreading and misstating of my intent.
My whole intent was to tell her that many women who consider themselves BBW are NOT in the category of the euphemism for just being fat. I fully agree that a large woman can be successful in any field of endeavor. Maybe i stated it wrong, but it seems to me that she has a handicap to overcome, which she may very well have overcome. I won't tell her to lose weight. That is the purview of her doctor.
What I was trying to get across was that I know ladies who THINK they are BBW, but who actually meet the true definition of the word. Maybe they are in need of a few pounds to lose, but they are truly ladies who are Big, Beautiful and WOmen. They will attract anyone with a pair of eyes.
But I will stand by my description of a woman who is fat, i.e. one whose rolls of flesh around the body detract from their appearance. I was married to one and many times had difficulty telling whether or not I was caressing a breast or a roll of fat. And she was nearly this when we got married. So it did not keep me from marrying her. In later years, when we would travel, she would not even go inside to sit and talk with other wives while I was busy because she did not want anyone to see her like that. (her words)
But I happen to think that this lady is probably not as heavy as she thinks and has no reason to be shy. I would love to meet her and possibly date her. If she thinks I am acceptable to her.
Once again, I apologize for the lack of emotion in the words on the screen. I meant no disrespect to the lady and, if you go back and carefully read what I wrote, I think you will also see it.
Igor
My point is that this is a personal ad.
She didn't ask people to analyze her or make critical comments about overweight people in general. Not everyone shares your narrow definition of what constitutes a BBW, and since she is comfortable labeling herself as that, posting your opinions on the subject here seem inappropriate. Start your own thread for that.
If you are interested in dating her, then why don't you do what the others have done and ask her to post more about herself instead?
She didn't ask people to analyze her or make critical comments about overweight people in general. Not everyone shares your narrow definition of what constitutes a BBW, and since she is comfortable labeling herself as that, posting your opinions on the subject here seem inappropriate. Start your own thread for that.
If you are interested in dating her, then why don't you do what the others have done and ask her to post more about herself instead?
BBWetKitty
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Gosh, thanks Igor for your all knowing input and bringing me into the light of your mind. If ignorance is truly bliss, may you be orgasmic the rest of your life.
BBWetKitty
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Birds Wife
Thank you for your posts.
and btw - nice picture
Thank you for your posts.
and btw - nice picture
fatblondebabe69
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High Five BirdsWife!
Amen Sister! Love the way you told him like it is.
Amen Sister! Love the way you told him like it is.
OK, I was wrong
BBwetkitty and all:
OK I was wrong in my posting. Believe it or not I really wanted to see about a meeting with BBwetkitty. I guess that is out the window now.
To all, I sincerely apologize for offending you. there was no such attempt. I read the ad, particularly the part about being shy, as someone who had no confidence in herself. I was, in my miniscule mond, trying to build up her confidence and point out that she was really a very beautiful large woman. Obviously I took it too far.
I accept that all of you were dead on in coming down on me like white on rice. And I will confine my responses to personal ads to requests for dates/meetings.
I am really not the jerk I made myself out to be. I am a very nice person in reality, but I think very differently, biut expect everybody else to understand exactly how I think. I blew it!!!!
Once again, I apologize profusely for it and humbly request your forgiveness.
If I get it, If I get your forgiveness, I most sincerely thank you. If not, well at least I tried.
Igor aka Michael
BBwetkitty and all:
OK I was wrong in my posting. Believe it or not I really wanted to see about a meeting with BBwetkitty. I guess that is out the window now.
To all, I sincerely apologize for offending you. there was no such attempt. I read the ad, particularly the part about being shy, as someone who had no confidence in herself. I was, in my miniscule mond, trying to build up her confidence and point out that she was really a very beautiful large woman. Obviously I took it too far.
I accept that all of you were dead on in coming down on me like white on rice. And I will confine my responses to personal ads to requests for dates/meetings.
I am really not the jerk I made myself out to be. I am a very nice person in reality, but I think very differently, biut expect everybody else to understand exactly how I think. I blew it!!!!
Once again, I apologize profusely for it and humbly request your forgiveness.
If I get it, If I get your forgiveness, I most sincerely thank you. If not, well at least I tried.
Igor aka Michael
fatblondebabe69
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Hey everybody screws up once in a while....more power to you for admitting it.
BBWetKitty
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Igor aka Michael
Thank you for being <ahem> big enough to apologize.
Thank you for being <ahem> big enough to apologize.
BlueDaisy
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Igor, my first thought was to head up to Dallas and smack you upside the head for your post, but everyone else has done that in their posts, and since I have no idea how to find you in Dallas, you're in luck. lol
Now...for my tirade. I did not see anywhere in her post where she asked for a critique on her size. Just because her name has BBW in it does not leave her open for someone to start in with all that. Besides...did it even occur to you that maybe her Lit name has nothing to do with being a BBW? Could have stood for "BettyBoop", or "BarbaraBigtits". Or even just her name...maybe her name has two "B"s...something like BridgetBrown.
Glad you apologized to her, and yes, I do know that it is difficult sometimes to make ourselves understood online. I've had that problem myself.
I am not a BBW, by the way; I'm just plain fat.
Now...for my tirade. I did not see anywhere in her post where she asked for a critique on her size. Just because her name has BBW in it does not leave her open for someone to start in with all that. Besides...did it even occur to you that maybe her Lit name has nothing to do with being a BBW? Could have stood for "BettyBoop", or "BarbaraBigtits". Or even just her name...maybe her name has two "B"s...something like BridgetBrown.
Glad you apologized to her, and yes, I do know that it is difficult sometimes to make ourselves understood online. I've had that problem myself.
I am not a BBW, by the way; I'm just plain fat.
Thank you very much
For all who accepted my apology, thank you very much.
I will not go into any detail on my original post. I think it has been cussed and discussed enough. besides, all those DRY noodles are beginning to hury my back.
When I get enough posts, I will post a pic of myself. Maybe it will help you evaluate me and my appearance.
Thanks again for accepting my apology.
Igor aka MIchael
For all who accepted my apology, thank you very much.
I will not go into any detail on my original post. I think it has been cussed and discussed enough. besides, all those DRY noodles are beginning to hury my back.
When I get enough posts, I will post a pic of myself. Maybe it will help you evaluate me and my appearance.
Thanks again for accepting my apology.
Igor aka MIchael
waverlysgirl
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WOW
That sure got out of hand in a hurry. Welcome to Lit, BBWet! Things can only improve from here.
That sure got out of hand in a hurry. Welcome to Lit, BBWet! Things can only improve from here.
BBWetKitty
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Everyone
WOW what a whirlwind of conversation. How did everyone fare this week? Today I have survived my first 30 days as a TEXAN!
Now, if I could only find something to ride besides my horse!
WOW what a whirlwind of conversation. How did everyone fare this week? Today I have survived my first 30 days as a TEXAN!
Now, if I could only find something to ride besides my horse!
Re: Everyone
well now I'm sure that couldn't be too hard to find I know there are plenty of guys out there willing to give you a ride........... to work or whatever..... lol I know i wouldn't mind
and congrats on being a texan... I've always said if you can't be texan at least move here as fast as possible. Hope you're loving it here, its the best damn place in the world to be
well now I'm sure that couldn't be too hard to find I know there are plenty of guys out there willing to give you a ride........... to work or whatever..... lol I know i wouldn't mind
and congrats on being a texan... I've always said if you can't be texan at least move here as fast as possible. Hope you're loving it here, its the best damn place in the world to be
BBWetKitty said:WOW what a whirlwind of conversation. How did everyone fare this week? Today I have survived my first 30 days as a TEXAN!
Now, if I could only find something to ride besides my horse!
BlueDaisy
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Re: Everyone
Well, Welcome to Lit AND to Texas.
Since I don't have anything to ride, either, can I borrow your horse? lol
BBWetKitty said:WOW what a whirlwind of conversation. How did everyone fare this week? Today I have survived my first 30 days as a TEXAN!
Now, if I could only find something to ride besides my horse!
Well, Welcome to Lit AND to Texas.
Since I don't have anything to ride, either, can I borrow your horse? lol
BlueDaisy
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thump said:Hey Ladies, I will volunteer...Hell you can even put a saddle on me if you would like...
And Blue Daisey, I think you are sexy as hell and remember I have seen you naked...oops that was in my dream...sorry
You trying to get me in trouble, thump? LOL
Hmm...saddle....if I ever get out your way, I'll keep that in mind *wicked grin*
BBWetKitty...meet thump.....such a sweetie and dirty old man extraordainaire! (well, not so old...not much older than me...lol)
