Bashful Wife???

[Wideopen]

My wife is VERY conservative sexually! She is not bashful at all however. She is very open. Bold but Conservative if you know what I mean! How can I get her to be more open sexually? She certainly seems to trust me and I could NEVER hurt her...

 

[FungiUg]

There's no magic formula. The first thing you need to do is talk to her about it, be honest, and ask her if there's something she's not comfortable about with sex. Find out what turns her on, what motivates her, what her fantasies are, and build from there.

Communication, patience, and no pressure.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Take her out on a night on the town, taking her to her favorite place(s).

While you are sitting over an intimate dinner, ask her about her fantasies. The ones she thinks you will think are not very nice. Tell her you really want to know, and see what happens. You may find she is not as conservative as you think.

Men cannot read minds, and women are really good at keeping secrets from them.

As a dominant, I make it my business to find out My sub's secrets. It is amazing what you find out.

 

[DVS]

As a dominant, I make it my business to find out My sub's secrets. It is amazing what you find out.

Um, he said he didn't want to hurt her.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Um, he said he didn't want to hurt her.

How can that hurt her?

 

[DVS]

#1-As a dominant
We dominants do tend to make it hurt.

#2-I make it my business
That sounds like you mean business.

#3-to find out My sub's secrets.
What if they don't want to tell? See #1.

#4-It is amazing what you find out.
refer to #1 and #2.

 

[FungiUg]

Men cannot read minds, and women are really good at keeping secrets from them.

Indeed! And we men tend towards uncommunicative (unless you can call monosyllabism "communication"). So in a relationship, communication is something both people need to work on. It's not "instinctual".

For some wierd reason, sex often seems to be a topic that people just don't talk about. When it's the very thing that adds spice and passion to a long term relationship! Go figure...

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... And we men tend towards uncommunicative ...

oh hell no you didn't ...

Stud, i can't imagine you uncommunicative if your life depended on it.

But on the main topic, everyone has a "lock on" capability. You just have to listen and watch. Gently probe if you like, but pay attention. If you married her, she must be worth having, and i'd hope vice versa. Find the key to the lock, and she'll love you forever.

 

[Ebonyfire]

#1-As a dominant
We dominants do tend to make it hurt.

#2-I make it my business
That sounds like you mean business.

#3-to find out My sub's secrets.
What if they don't want to tell? See #1.

#4-It is amazing what you find out.
refer to #1 and #2.

The only response to your post is to #3.

It is a condition of serving Me. They must answer every question I care to ask candidly or I show them the door. No secrets and no lies, period.

I insist.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Indeed! And we men tend towards uncommunicative (unless you can call monosyllabism "communication"). So in a relationship, communication is something both people need to work on. It's not "instinctual".

For some wierd reason, sex often seems to be a topic that people just don't talk about. When it's the very thing that adds spice and passion to a long term relationship! Go figure...

That is because many men have the nasty habit of only wanting to talk about sex in bed. Bad time.

 

[FungiUg]

That is because many men have the nasty habit of only wanting to talk about sex in bed. Bad time.

Hmmm... I like talking about sex in the car.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

That is because many men have the nasty habit of only wanting to talk about sex in bed. Bad time.

Wait a second ... we aren't allowed to talk about it in the kitchen? Think of all that wasted counterspace.

What about the living room? i bought that damn ottoman for a reason.

and the faucets in the bathroom ... hell i thought they were made for a woman to hold onto while ...

Never mind. i'm going to the bedroom and go to sleep.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Hmmm... I like tal++++ about sex in the car.

Why am I not surprised?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Wait a second ... we aren't allowed to talk about it in the kitchen? Think of all that wasted counterspace.

What about the living room? i bought that damn ottoman for a reason.

and the faucets in the bathroom ... hell i thought they were made for a woman to hold onto while ...

Never mind. i'm going to the bedroom and go to sleep.

You missed the laundry room.

 

[niteshade]

You missed the laundry room.

Washing machine on spin cycle... yeah, baby!

 

[AngelicAssassin]

No, that would be the indoor swimming pool that used to be a basement, and i do love a good sidestroke.

Thanks for the reminder. Anyone up for skinny dippin'?

 

[niteshade]

No, that would be the indoor swimming pool that used to be a basement, and i do love a good sidestroke.

Thanks for the reminder. Anyone up for skinny dippin'?

Think Texas....

Now think Beer....

Now think Farms....

Now think Heat.......

Mix it all up, and you got lots of skinny dippin' goin on.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... Now think Heat ...

Mix it all up, and you got lots of skinny dippin' goin on.

So ... are you not bashful?

Are we talking temperature/humidity heat, or flushed with embarrassment heat?

 

[niteshade]

So ... are you not bashful?

Are we talking temperature/humidity heat, or flushed with embarrassment heat?

Well, we usually wait till after sundown, and lots of alcohol, so no embarrassment.

In the normal run of things though, yes, I am bashful.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Well, we usually wait till after sundown, and lots of alcohol, so no embarrassment.

In the normal run of things though, yes, I am bashful.

And do you blush/flush?

 

[niteshade]

And do you blush/flush?

Oh, yes. I turn the most unflattering shade of bright red when I get nervous or embarrassed.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Oh, yes. I turn the most unflattering shade of bright red when I get nervous or embarrassed.

And do you get angry because of that as well?

 

[niteshade]

And do you get angry because of that as well?

LMAO... no, there would be no point in being angry about it, there is nothing I can do about it. As for getting angry when I cry, I think that is because I hear so much crap about women using tears to manipulate men. Also, it makes me feel very weak when I cry.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

LMAO... no, there would be no point in being angry about it, there is nothing I can do about it. As for getting angry when I cry, I think that is because I hear so much crap about women using tears to manipulate men. Also, it makes me feel very weak when I cry.

Tears don't manipulate me ... the animal loves them.

 

[niteshade]

Tears don't manipulate me ... the animal loves them.

So, If I cry for you, will you lick my tears away?

Does blushing do it for you to?