Bashful Girl, looking for an older gentleman

[Bashful_Flower218]

Bashful Girl, seeking to explore my submissive side

Hello, I'm new here. I'm 38 years old, Female, Bisexual, and Single. Live in Florida. Eastern Time Zone. Also learning a lot about myself this past year and I discovered that I am quite submissive and would like to explore this with someone I can truly trust. I'm looking for an older gentleman that I can connect with on a deeper level and talk to every day. I've always been a shy girl and have a hard time coming out of my shell. The internet helps me express myself in ways that I'm unable to do in person. I've always long to connect with someone, I can open up too but I had a hard time finding that person. Either because I was too scared, nervous or I didn't feel comfortable with them. It left me feeling disappointed in the end.

This time I'd like to try again and do it right this time. By going slowly, opening up to them, until I feel comfortable opening up and exploring new things with their help. I'd like to first chat through private messages first on Literotica, before we chat on a chatting device daily. You must be patient, understanding and help me explore fantasies and things with me. When I feel safe, we can use chat through voice. Feel free to ask me questions. I'd like to know more about you, your interests/hobbies, and the kinks/fantasies you have. I love someone who's honest, doesn't play mind games, and will respect me as a person. I'd like to feel safe in order for me to open up to you. I do get quite nervous, but it'll be worth it in the end.

I learned from my past mistakes and this time I think going slow until I'm fully comfortable would be my best option. Anytime I push myself too far, I get nervous and panic. Writing this out so you know what your in for. If my personal ad interests you and you'd like to get to know me, please send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Bashful Flower-

 

[Replicant2018]

Hello, I'm new here. I'm 38 years old, Female, Bisexual and Single. I'm looking for an older gentleman that I can connect with on a deeper level and talk too everyday. I've always been a shy girl and have a hard time coming out of my shell. The internet helps me express myself in ways that I'm unable to do in person. I've always long to connect with someone, I can open up too but I had a hard time finding that person. Either because I was too scared, nervous or I didn't feel comfortable with them. It left me feeling disappointed in the end.

This time I'd like to try again and do it right this time. By going slowly, opening up to them, until I feel comfortable opening up and exploring new things. I'd like too first chat through private messages first on Literotica, before we chat on a chatting device daily. You must be patient, understanding and help me explore fantasies and things with me. When I feel safe, we can use chat through voice. Feel free to ask me questions about myself, what kinds of things interests you and kinks/fantasies you have. I love someone who's honest, doesn't play mind games and will respect me as a person. I'd like to feel safe in order for me to open up to you. I do get quite nervous, but it'll be worth it in the end.

I learned from my past mistakes and this time I think going slow until I'm fully comfortable would be my best option. Anytime I push myself too far, I get nervous and panic. Writing this out so you know what your in for. If my personal ad interests you and you'd like to get to know me, please send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Bashful Flower-

Just sent you a PM

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Hello, I'm new here. I'm 38 years old, Female, Bisexual and Single. I'm looking for an older gentleman that I can connect with on a deeper level and talk too everyday. I've always been a shy girl and have a hard time coming out of my shell. The internet helps me express myself in ways that I'm unable to do in person. I've always long to connect with someone, I can open up too but I had a hard time finding that person. Either because I was too scared, nervous or I didn't feel comfortable with them. It left me feeling disappointed in the end.

This time I'd like to try again and do it right this time. By going slowly, opening up to them, until I feel comfortable opening up and exploring new things. I'd like too first chat through private messages first on Literotica, before we chat on a chatting device daily. You must be patient, understanding and help me explore fantasies and things with me. When I feel safe, we can use chat through voice. Feel free to ask me questions about myself, what kinds of things interests you and kinks/fantasies you have. I love someone who's honest, doesn't play mind games and will respect me as a person. I'd like to feel safe in order for me to open up to you. I do get quite nervous, but it'll be worth it in the end.

I learned from my past mistakes and this time I think going slow until I'm fully comfortable would be my best option. Anytime I push myself too far, I get nervous and panic. Writing this out so you know what your in for. If my personal ad interests you and you'd like to get to know me, please send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Bashful Flower-

I would love to talk to you. Feel free to pm me if you feel the same.

 

[Bashful_Flower218]

gldflcn

I have tried to send you a pm back but it says you can't receive messages.

 

[gldflcn]

Apologies

gldflcn

I have tried to send you a pm back but it says you can't receive messages.

I believe I have it fixed...

 

[Bewleybrother]

You didn't say which country you're in,not that it makes an insurmountable obstacle to long term communication I suppose. Garralous,lol.
"Good luck".From the movie "Taken".

 

[Bashful_Flower218]

I updated my thread a bit.

Bump!

 

[StarGazer58]

The anonymity of Lit makes it much easier to open up about personal feelings without feeling the pressure of what kind of impression you are making. If you are not comfortable then it easy to just move on without anyone really knowing who you are. Good luck in your endeavors.

 

[KinkyColby]

If you haven't found what your looking for yet, feel free to send a PM.

I am also looking for someone to chat and connect with, about whatever. I totally get what you mean about trust. I am slow to open up to people, but willing to take a risk sometimes.

 

[bull4cuckolds]

Are you still looking?

Hello Bashful. I tried messaging you, but it seems your messages are turned off. But if you are still looking to confidentiality and patiently discuss and explore your submissiveness, feel free to contact me.

I’m an experienced Dom - but rather than telling you all about me, feel free to search my past threads, so you can judge our compatibility and my personality and writing style. Send me a PM if you want to correspond.

- SIR

 

[royhobbs67]

Hello, I'm new here. I'm 38 years old, Female, Bisexual, and Single. Live in Florida. Eastern Time Zone. Also learning a lot about myself this past year and I discovered that I am quite submissive and would like to explore this with someone I can truly trust. I'm looking for an older gentleman that I can connect with on a deeper level and talk to every day. I've always been a shy girl and have a hard time coming out of my shell. The internet helps me express myself in ways that I'm unable to do in person. I've always long to connect with someone, I can open up too but I had a hard time finding that person. Either because I was too scared, nervous or I didn't feel comfortable with them. It left me feeling disappointed in the end.

This time I'd like to try again and do it right this time. By going slowly, opening up to them, until I feel comfortable opening up and exploring new things with their help. I'd like to first chat through private messages first on Literotica, before we chat on a chatting device daily. You must be patient, understanding and help me explore fantasies and things with me. When I feel safe, we can use chat through voice. Feel free to ask me questions. I'd like to know more about you, your interests/hobbies, and the kinks/fantasies you have. I love someone who's honest, doesn't play mind games, and will respect me as a person. I'd like to feel safe in order for me to open up to you. I do get quite nervous, but it'll be worth it in the end.

I learned from my past mistakes and this time I think going slow until I'm fully comfortable would be my best option. Anytime I push myself too far, I get nervous and panic. Writing this out so you know what your in for. If my personal ad interests you and you'd like to get to know me, please send me a message and I'll respond as soon as I can. I look forward to hearing from you.

-Bashful Flower-

I am unsure if this will reach you. I did not see any link to send you a private message. So initially I am just reaching out to see if you receive this. I am an older man. I hope I am a gentleman, a good man, a patient man, an understanding man. I would love getting to know you better. And doing so slowly, ever so slowly. Send me a message here or I can provide a private email if you prefer.
Rick

 

[Primealox]

Hello

I feel I am exactly what you are looking for but you leave no way to contact you other than PM. kindly contact me and I will be happy to explain.

 

[Primealox]

Your ad

Kitten

Most likely you have found someone that you like but if you will, please read what I have to say.

I’m sure others have said what a different kind of Dom they are and I am going to say the same thing, but explain.

First I want someone who is intelligent, well written and also someone that will be a friend and not just a submissive. You certainly seem to be that person.. There are times for regular conversation and times we may want to delve into desires and fantasies. I want to build a trust together and although we will never meet, it by no means means we cannot count on the other for many reasons

I much prefer email to chat programs. The reason is with email one can elaborate clearly how they feel and can better answer questions and comments. A chat program lends itself to quick answers that many times can be taken the wrong way or become awkward easily. Emails can be answered in our own time and not a quick forced answer or comment. I don’t want to be someone that interferes with your real life duties.

I will always respect you. I admire the fact you seem to want to be “you” and still wanting to explore desires and wants that we all have. I would like to be the guy you trust enough to want you to be “you” and for us both to explore together.

I am also in the eastern US time zone.

I know the dangers of the internet. Especially for women. I will never ask for pictures, your phone number or your address or any other identifying facts. I will always respect your privacy.

I am sure there is lots more we might discuss but I will save that if you feel you are interested.

Anyway I hope there might still be a chance we might begin together. However if not I will not bother you again and wish you the best luck that you certainly deserve.

Doug

 

[ericbsinger]

Bashful, I'd very much enjoy getting to know you and seeing if we're compatible to explore moving into the realm of domination and submission. I can't see to send you a PM for some reason, but will be happy to respond if you PM me.

Hoping you fulfill your wish, whether it's with me or someone else...

Eric

 

[just4Mikey]

Hello, 72yr straight male, looking to 'make' a friend to chat and adventures

 

[WiLordCadus]

To all posting,

She has moved on. This woman doesn’t even have a profile, it’s listed as guest. Wish her the best, it was very strong of her to post. She was shy and wanting to get to know someone. I’m sure she did, if not she may return. But remember some get shy with too much attention men and women.

Be on the look out she maybe got lucky. I got lucky. There are amazing people here. But get to know them, even if it takes time.

 

[Buckonlyme]

There you are

I am a perfect gentleman.

 

[pattjones]

Bashful Girl

Hello BG,
I just read your post and was intrigued. I think you are wise to take things slowly and form a connection before you move too far forward. I would enjoy developing a connection with you if you are still longing for that. I realize you may have had many offers. Please feel free to contact me at any time if you would like to connect.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

To all posting,

She has moved on. This woman doesn’t even have a profile, it’s listed as guest. Wish her the best, it was very strong of her to post. She was shy and wanting to get to know someone. I’m sure she did, if not she may return. But remember some get shy with too much attention men and women.

Be on the look out she maybe got lucky. I got lucky. There are amazing people here. But get to know them, even if it takes time.

That won't stop the chronically desperate, as evidenced by the posts after yours. Unless the OP has a new alt and makes herself known again, we'll probably see more fools wander in for our entertainment.

 

[electricoceanblue]

That won't stop the chronically desperate, as evidenced by the posts after yours. Unless the OP has a new alt and makes herself known again, we'll probably see more fools wander in for our entertainment.

Literally, lol.