Bad Boys

[A Desert Rose]

I like Bad Boys. The badder - the better.

I know there are other submissives here who feel just like I do.
I can't articulate well, what a bad boy is. But for me, a bad boy is a Dom in every sense of the word. I've been thinking about this all day and shy's thread just brought it all to the forefront for me, again.

I'll try and do better at defining my ideal bad boy, later.

What's your definition?

How bad is bad enough for you?

Is it about the physical aspects of the domination, only?

Does he ride a motorcycle? aaaaaaaahahahahahaha

Seriously though... whaddayathink?

 

[shy slave]

I like Bad Boys. The badder - the better.

I know there are other submissives here who feel just like I do.
I can't articulate well, what a bad boy is. But for me, a bad boy is a Dom in every sense of the word. I've been thinking about this all day and shy's thread just brought it all to the forefront for me, again.

I'll try and do better at defining my ideal bad boy, later.

What's your definition?

How bad is bad enough for you?

Is it about the physical aspects of the domination, only?

Does he ride a motorcycle? aaaaaaaahahahahahaha

Seriously though... whaddayathink?

Yes I like Doms in every sense of the word. The micro-management and mind control. I will be ready for it one day but not sure mentally now is the time.

AA and Rosco are 'bad' boys which sum up my definition

 

[incubus'_sub]

Oh yes, bad boys, yum. Wicked minds do it for me. Unfortunately the bikers I have met have all been posers. They might look the part but fall down in the brain department, what a shame.

Bad Boy Doms are all about confidence for me. They don't have to be huge caveman types to do the trick. It's more a quiet, confident knowledge that they will be obeyed or the consequences will be immediate, clever & totally without conscience or pity.

Examples here, Incubus of course, Marquis & Sir Winston.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh yes, bad boys, yum. Wicked minds do it for me. Unfortunately the bikers I have met have all been posers. They might look the part but fall down in the brain department, what a shame.

Bad Boy Doms are all about confidence for me. They don't have to be huge caveman types to do the trick. It's more a quiet, confident knowledge that they will be obeyed or the consequences will be immediate, clever & totally without conscience or pity.

Examples here, Incubus of course, Marquis & Sir Winston.

I've missed you.

And not really knowing any of those examples, I can hardly disagree with you. But then I usually don't anyway. ;-)

 

[RavenousRae]

I've always been attracted to bad boys but I've only been with the good guys - maybe someday I can get a little taste of a bad boy.

 

[serijules]

Bad boys are the only type of 'boys' I like anymore, heh. My bisexuality is slowly sinking into "i'll fuck a guy if my Domme orders it but otherwise...."

However, there are exceptions. There are always exceptions, right? heh. One Dom I've known for years always manages to make me melt into a puddle of goo in his presense. He's much older than I, tall (and I do mean tall ...like over 6'5" tall), long hair and beard...very confident in a quiet, intense sort of way. Loves to hear me scream. Just yummy.

Another is complete opposite. On the shorter side (maybe a bit taller than I am at 5'6"), short well kept hair and beard. Again older than I...I tend to feel more secure with older men. But again...very intense, very serious, very confident. Loves to hear me scream LOL. Altough my attraction to this man isn't sexual, purely pain-play desire. Hurt me, please...

It's all in the attitude. But long hair and a single earring and tattoo's always attracted me when I was younger.

 

[babiesmiles]

I like bad boys too !!

But its really an hard work to find a true one nowadays !

At least badder than I am ! ( moreover I'm a bikergirl , does it count ?)

 

[A Desert Rose]

serijules, so much of your post reminds me of my definitions, too!

But I do like being behind a Man on a big ol' bike!!!!

(And I love any excuse to use those big ol' letters.)

Seriously, I love bikes and I liked a certain guy who has one. ;-)

 

[serijules]

I like bikes too...I'm always watching these crazy bike building shows for some odd reason no one can fathom. Must be that whole bad-ass thing.

I live right on a major highway in North Dakota, and every year ALL the bikers stop at the gas station across the street and drive right by my house on the way to Sturgis, SD. I'll sit out on the porch and watch bikers all day long with my Great Danes. A few always stop to see my dogs, LOL.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I like bikes too...I'm always watching these crazy bike building shows for some odd reason no one can fathom. Must be that whole bad-ass thing.

I live right on a major highway in North Dakota, and every year ALL the bikers stop at the gas station across the street and drive right by my house on the way to Sturgis, SD. I'll sit out on the porch and watch bikers all day long with my Great Danes. A few always stop to see my dogs, LOL.

OMG.... I've been to Sturgis!!!!!!!! LMAO

What a small world.

Gimme a man on a Harley...... PLEASE!!!

 

[serijules]

OMG.... I've been to Sturgis!!!!!!!! LMAO

What a small world.

Gimme a man on a Harley...... PLEASE!!!

I'll try to capture one for you next time.

 

[TaintedB]

I've got to say "bad men" not "bad boys" because the latter phrase is making several very stupid songs go round in my head. :/

I like 'em bad too, but usually a bit badder than what we tend to see here, with one possible exception. Does anyone know where their liking for bad men came from? I know exactly where mine did: my dad, who died before I was old enough to become disillusioned with the fucker, was one. The kind of man who has always felt like a 'best fit' for my sometimes-subservient somtimes-tempestuous personality is the classic domineering, blue collar, strong-as-an-ox, slap first and explain later, "where's my dinner, bitch?" hard-drinking Italian type. A thug, in other words. Just like dear old dad.

I understand what someone said about not liking brainless bikers; stupid men are awfully easy to control even for those of us who desperately want _them_ to do the controlling; but I also don't enjoy bad men who are too intellectual (as opposed to smart), who live too much in their heads instead of in their bodies, as they are far too easy to distract. Throw an elegant idea their way and they'll gnaw on it for hours or days, usually forgetting completely about what mean thing they were going to do to you. :/ I guess that's why I like the thug types, they know enough about women not to let one reach the point where she enthralls him with her words. This sounds pretty primitive, but what I've noticed is that once you "catch" a man with your words, he's a few short steps away from being enslaved to your emotions. Which, while very safe, is ultimately unfulfilling if you are submissive.

 

[A Desert Rose]

... Throw an elegant idea their way and they'll gnaw on it for hours or days, usually forgetting completely about what mean thing they were going to do to you. :/

LMAO... I love this. And way tooooo true!

yea... thug type... spells Tony Soprano to me. big ol' sigh

 

[curlyred24]

The Rock and Vin Diesel are my two favorite bad boys. Vin Diesel's voice drives me over the edge. *sigh* god i would love to get my hand on both of them, either of them, both together.......

 

[A Desert Rose]

I know this... I don't want the candle-lit (unless it's part of wax play) kinda love making.

I want my bad boy to take me whenever he wants to and know that he can do that to me, anytime he feels like it. And if that means my mouth swallowing up his cock, if that is his current desire, then so be it.

I want my bad boy to use me.




and I hope he has a bike, too.

 

[TaintedB]

... Throw an elegant idea their way and they'll gnaw on it for hours or days, usually forgetting completely about what mean thing they were going to do to you. :/

LMAO... I love this. And way tooooo true!

yea... thug type... spells Tony Soprano to me. big ol' sigh

So... how do I find out who this Tony Soprano is? Seriously, I don't keep up with non-print media very much. Is it a movie or a tv show? Di Niro in the The Godfather had that paternal controlling Italian attitude I like, although he didn't much look the part (not enough physical thug in him).

Did you enjoy Sturgis, Desert Rose? Did you go topless? :0 I'd love to go there someday, although I'd probably get jealous of all the biker chicks.

 

[A Desert Rose]

... Throw an elegant idea their way and they'll gnaw on it for hours or days, usually forgetting completely about what mean thing they were going to do to you. :/

So... how do I find out who this Tony Soprano is? Seriously, I don't keep up with non-print media very much. Is it a movie or a tv show? Di Niro in the The Godfather had that paternal controlling Italian attitude I like, although he didn't much look the part (not enough physical thug in him).

Did you enjoy Sturgis, Desert Rose? Did you go topless? :0 I'd love to go there someday, although I'd probably get jealous of all the biker chicks.

I think you're poking fun at me. LOL Tony is on HBO... soon to be on A&E in reruns of The Sopranos.

Yes... Sturgis is a great town. ;-D and no, I didn't go topless LOL. I'm too shy.

 

[A Desert Rose]

http://www.camelotdw.com/fa/graphite/images/actors-gandolfini.jpg

wonder if this will work or not...

Lance uses this as his AV sometimes.

 

[sunfox]

You can add me to the women who love bad boys club.

It's pretty much all I've spent my life pursuing/being pursued by.. and all I am interested in. I enjoy the unpredictability, the rough and ready passion, the uncertainty. That keeps my fire burning.

 

[TaintedB]

I think you're poking fun at me. LOL Tony is on HBO... soon to be on A&E in reruns of The Sopranos.

Yes... Sturgis is a great town. ;-D and no, I didn't go topless LOL. I'm too shy.

No, I wasn't poking fun at you! But I would have poked fun at you if you had gone topless at Sturgis!

Seriously, I don't watch tv except for the weather channel and I think I've seen maybe three movies in the last two years. I'll try to catch that show--thanks for the channel tip.

 

[TaintedB]

http://www.camelotdw.com/fa/graphite/images/actors-gandolfini.jpg

wonder if this will work or not...

Lance uses this as his AV sometimes.

I thought that creepy looking guy _was_ Lance. Oh well. Another bubble burst. Who is he really? The Sopranos guy?

 

[Caitlynne]

Wicked minds do it for me.

*Snip*

Bad Boy Doms are all about confidence for me. They don't have to be huge caveman types to do the trick. It's more a quiet, confident knowledge that they will be obeyed or the consequences will be immediate, clever & totally without conscience or pity.

*melts into a puddle*

Yep! This is also my definition when it comes to the kind of Dom that rings my bell. The kind that can just fuck with your mind 'because they can' type, yet still make me feel I have a place in their world. (if I behave)

It's one thing to feel submissive, and need to serve and all that stuff. It's another to feel the Domination of a man who can meet the intensity of my submission with his WILL and CONTROL.

Gotta love the feeling of that power exchange.

I'm no slouch in the brain department, and a Dominant that can make me run around in circles inside my head, is MY kind of Dom.

For me, the 'bad boy' thing is all about his brains and his confidence. He is quiet because he can give me a 'look' and I know everything I need to know (and better know).

........ and if he has a bike in his garage, (0r even in the living room) so much the better.

 

[Marquis]

I'm actually thinking of getting a Ducati.

 

[Aeroil]

Lol, there's a fine line between 'bad boy' and 'asshole', if you ask me, most guys fit into the latter. hehehe, or maybe it's just because I'm a good boy and I'm not supposed to be giving my rivals any credit .

 

[incubus'_sub]

Well, there you go, girls, Marquis on a bike. All the desired elements in one package. I'll quit that conversation now or I'll be accused of stalking LOL.

Rose, I have a Harley riding Nomad I'll be glad to send to you, but you'd send him back very quickly I think. One of my best friends is about to marry this posing, tedious bludger & exiling him from this country sounds good to me. Looks the part, all tatts & attitude, but DUMB & what's even worse, doesn't know it. He's one of those who, when he thinks he's made a witty or clever statement, repeats it ad nauseum to make sure everyone "gets" it. Now where's that rolly eyed smilie face when I need it?