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[MrLucky92]

I am new to BDSM. I find being a Dom exhilarating and empowering. I want to find the correct sub to fit my needs, but I want to thoroughly feel the need to pursue. My only other sub was compliant, yet vague in fulfilling my expectations.

 

[Conager]

I want to say something constructive here without sounding condescending. In the positives is your enthusism and your frank honesty about being new to the dynamics involved between a Dominant and a submissive. It sounds like you are figuring out the level of compliance that you wish to see in a submissive. All that on your end is probably more or less fine.

The challenge you face (I think) is understanding why a submissive would decide upon you as her Dominant. Bear in mind that she could find many autocratic men to do the bidding of. She is still s woman and os going to need some aspect of attraction. Submission is something they choose to offer to a man they find appealing for any number if reasons in additiin to him being of Dominant mindset.

If I may suggest? Wander over to the BDSM section and read a lot and ask some questions. In any case best of luck, I am not prepared to suggest the above ad absolutely won't work because it, indeed, takes all kinds to make the eorld go round.