Avoid the 'friend zone' . . .

[noobwriter]

So I play this online game, I meet this online girl. We play, we chat, we have a good time. We share pictures, videos, webcam. We tease each other sexually.

She complains she has no toys any more, I remedy the situation. She keeps one of the toys in while out in public, texting me to tell how wet the whole thing is making her.

We keep talking, texting, chatting, sharing etc.

Then one day it stops and suddenly I'm in the friend zone. WTF?

 

[chelleb]

Is it possible that maybe she found a real life boyfriend? To me, that would be reason enough to stop the activities you described. Though she should have at least told you, or explained why.

I hope you find out what happened.

 

[mynameiskate]

Aw. Maybe she's find the real thing? Have you confronted her about it? Cheer up, you'll find someone soon.

 

[noobwriter]

Well, if she DID find a boyfriend she isn't copping to it. The explanation I got was that she liked being friends. Who knows.

Oh well, should only be a matter of time before I either take a Texas vacation or have a little piece of Texas come to me. I'm rather looking forward to that, though the future of the relationship is uncertain. At least I know there's a chance.

 

[SweetErika]

Maybe she put on an act of liking you more than a friend to get you to buy her toys. That kind of thing isn't beyond some women. She might also have felt it was moving too fast, liked the idea of a romance better than the reality, or just enjoys being "chased" but doesn't want to go beyond that.

There are a bunch of things it could be. If I were you, I'd let her make any future moves or simply keep it as a light online friendship. If you're going to be in her area (or she in your area) for some other reason and want to meet for drinks or whatever, fine, but don't travel just to see her, and do not send her money or gifts in hopes of wooing her or getting her to travel to you under any circumstances. Her unwillingness to be upfront about wanting it to stay platonic is a BIG red flag.

 

[noobwriter]

I don't know. Timing wise I think there WAS some interest but for whatever reason it changed. Oh well. Live and learn I guess.

 

[Colton_White]

I had same sort of experience year ago,

I find a nice lady
we had lot time well spent together just like you two did [except that I didn't send her money/toy..and she's was finanically capable of affording them lol]

suddenly she stopped appearing, and doing the naughty things we used to do,
later on told me, that she had divorced her husband and right now living with a b/f.

its not that I hate her, or regret anything,
I'm happy she's happy now.

but morale of the story is that
don't expect someone to remain stuck to you, .
.they might move away, when they find someone nice and real in their real life.

I ask you the same question?
suppose you find a good companion offline, will you still be putting all the time in that online girl?
[my answer..no I'd rather make love with that real girl than trying to fuck someone online via webcam and keyboard.]

same thing in her case, I bet she has found someone better either online/off line.
may be a faint possibility.something bad and stressful going in her life?

and like Erica said, don't invest any more money in her.
[I also think she might be just playing 'time-pass' with you and kept you as reserve soldier]
I wish you good luck : to find a better companion!