You avatar is showing up on your BB profile, but the site member's profile has to be approved and the page regenerated before it shows up on the site profile -- usually about 24 hours.
riiiiiiiight... it's all come together... cool... thanks for helping us... I didn't realise that it was like that... I just thought I was an idiot, and that's why I didn't ask why I couldn't do it... Thanks again...