Attracted To The Already Spoken For...Oh Fuck

[iDreamInNude]

So I started a new job at a very sweet, small cafe.

My new boss is a fellow in his late thirties, who is very self confident and charming... as well as engaged to be married.

I am in a committed relationship. But there is quite a bit of sexual tension between my new boss and I. Fucking hell!

I cannot help that I find myself attracted to him. I have been completely content in my relationship, until now. My boss has the one quality that my boyfriend lacks, confidence. I am very attracted to men that are confident and can take control.

I am at a loss. My heart hurts terribly because I am attracted to this man and yet I love my boyfriend!

I love this job and I want to keep it...

I don't know what to do... Quit the job? Break up with my boyfriend? Tell my boss what I feel? Wait for the feeling to pass?

I am very well aware that lust and love are very different things...

But what is love without lust?

 

[Sonnys_Big_Head]

So I started a new job at a very sweet, small cafe.

My new boss is a fellow in his late thirties, who is very self confident and charming... as well as engaged to be married.

I am in a committed relationship. But there is quite a bit of sexual tension between my new boss and I. Fucking hell!

I cannot help that I find myself attracted to him. I have been completely content in my relationship, until now. My boss has the one quality that my boyfriend lacks, confidence. I am very attracted to men that are confident and can take control.

I am at a loss. My heart hurts terribly because I am attracted to this man and yet I love my boyfriend!

I love this job and I want to keep it...

I don't know what to do... Quit the job? Break up with my boyfriend? Tell my boss what I feel? Wait for the feeling to pass?

I am very well aware that lust and love are very different things...

But what is love without lust?

marriage

 

[eyer]

Sorry, sugarbritches...

...one cannot eat her cake and have it, too.

 

[lovetoread]

Don't fuck where you work.

 

[fluffPE]

Don't fuck where you work.

Experience?

 

[GracefullyYours]

My new boss is...engaged to be married.

I am in a committed relationship...I love my boyfriend!

I'm sorry...what's your question????

 

[GracefullyYours]

Don't fuck where you work.

Don't go dippin' your doughnut in the company coffee....

 

[Farrah]

I, unfortunately, have no advice to offer. I wish you the best of luck in figuring it all out.

Your post has actually made me quite curious. I wonder how many among us are blessed enough to be happily married or perfectly content in their current relationships?

 

[fluffPE]

Don't go dippin' your doughnut in the company coffee....

Hahaha...We have good coffee and doughnuts!

 

[artemesia_g]

What you're feeling is a crush. Crushes happen....especially when you work with someone closely every day. Wait for it to pass. It always does.

 

[artemesia_g]

I, unfortunately, have no advice to offer. I wish you the best of luck in figuring it all out.

Your post has actually made me quite curious. I wonder how many among us are blessed enough to be happily married or perfectly content in their current relationships?

I am.

 

[iDreamInNude]

marriage

MUAHA. That is such an awesome reply.

 

[clutch1]

If he were really this confident, he wouldn't be the boss of a sweet, small cafe.
He'd be at some big joint that fed hundreds on the daily.

 

[iDreamInNude]

What you're feeling is a crush. Crushes happen....especially when you work with someone closely every day. Wait for it to pass. It always does.

I do tend to agree.

I guess we never completely outgrow having crushes. But what exactly does it mean when you have a crush on someone when you yourself are already taken?

 

[iDreamInNude]

If he were really this confident, he wouldn't be the boss of a sweet, small cafe.
He'd be at some big joint that fed hundreds on the daily.

Haha. He's actually already been there, done that. Made his first million at 19.

 

[fluffPE]

Haha. He's actually already been there, done that. Made his first million at 19.

So if you are truly confident, you make millions and feed the masses?

 

[trysail]

So if you are truly confident, you make millions and feed the masses?

"Feed the rich and grow poor. Feed the poor and grow rich."

 

[clutch1]

Haha. He's actually already been there, done that. Made his first million at 19.

Defending him already? I guess you really have it bad for this Jack Tripper type.
I suggest you stay away.

 

[iDreamInNude]

Defending him already? I guess you really have it bad for this Jack Tripper type.
I suggest you stay away.

Hmm... defending him? Or stating my knowledge? Either or. I suggest I stay away too. I really don't want to be a home wrecker

 

[KRCummings]

What a load of bullshit.

 

[fluffPE]

What a load of bullshit.

Sugarcoater! I made up a word!

 

[KRCummings]

Sugarcoater! I made up a word!

Seems like it should be hyphenated.

 

[fluffPE]

Seems like it should be hyphenated.

No, I have decided it is a word, no hyphens!

 

[artemesia_g]

I do tend to agree.

I guess we never completely outgrow having crushes. But what exactly does it mean when you have a crush on someone when you yourself are already taken?

It means you're human.

 

[WastelandVoice]

Sorry, sugarbritches...

...one cannot eat her cake and have it, too.

Well that's ridiculous! What's the point of having a cake if you're not gonna eat it!