Attention fellow females? Question that makes me blush.

[Jade]

Okay... I seriously considered posting this under a secret name but for my own reasons decided that you all could handle this question.

How do you make "pleasuring yourself" last longer?

Is it just me or is it over too quickly?

I am hoping no one that is attracted to females reads this b/c I am sure they will all be turned off by me now but I had to try to seek the advice of the people I trust on such matters. (Okay so I don't trust every single lit member but I know we have at least a few "sexperts!")

And before anyone asks... of Course I do the f#$$#ing kegels dammit!

 

[Dreamer1]

Jade, I know you were asking the females and I am sure you will actually receive some good advice but I have to say this. If it is all over too soon then you must be too damn good! You surely require some hands on assistance in your time of need. I want you to know I have always believed in the volunteer spirit and am always willing to assist.

Oh and the part about those folks who are attracted to women being turned off by your post...YEAH RIGHT!

[Edited by Dreamer1 on 10-14-2000 at 09:56 AM]

 

[Ezzie]

Jade, I really don't know what answer to give you. Considering my upbringing, I don't "pleasure myself" often and when I do, it doesn't last long. But since Tiggie is a "Sex Goddess", I'll ask her for advice and let you know what she suggests.

 

[MADDOG]

Jade, I think more information is required. How are you doing it now? Don't skimp on the details. The more information I have, the more I want to help.

MADDOG

 

[Renee]

Yea rrrrrright MADDOG, you are just looking for new stories to read... lol.


Jade, I can't say I've had this problem but it might be because of what I'm about to tell you.

My advice to you is this... when you feel that you are about to cum.. stop doing whatever it is you are doing at that time and go to something else... i.e., if you are rubbing your clit and about to cum.. but you don't want to yet, then stop rubbing it... go to fingering yourself, or just rubbing the top of your pussy... OR, if that will only make you cum at that point too, then stop all of it for a moment until you calm down a bit... you can either start rubbing your tits, taste yourself for a moment, or maybe if you are a person who likes your body to be rubbed, and that is sensual to you, then rub and touch it, just not on or near your pussy... do anything except whatever it is that's bringing you to the point of exploding. Even if it means getting your thoughts distracted for a moment then going back to the fantasy again.


Then again, if you cum too soon, just start over and enjoy it a second time, third time... hell make a day out of it and have fun.

 

[Cheri]

Everything that Renee said but also alternate your rhythm as you rub. Speeding up and then slowing down helps me to extend things and make my orgasm larger in the end.

 

[Yesca]

DAMN GIRL ! I only Wished I had such a dilema LOL
found myself the night before last masturbating for 2 hours without cumming before I got frustrated and gave up !

 

[Juliet]

Why slow things down?.....

Why slow things down? Apparently what ever you are doing feels very good to you or else you wouldn't be reaching an orgasm so quickly. So my advice is ...go with the flow...if it feels good continue and once you have reached your first orgasm....don't stop there. The second will certainly not be so easily achieved!...If you are not already multi-orgasmic you may discover a talent you didn't know you had.

 

[Guest]

Jade,

A way to prolong your pleasure (and, in some cases develop better, stronger orgasms) is to tease your body as you might your lover. Don't just "go straight for the kill". The body has MANY erogenous zones aside from the obvious ones. Perhaps, once you feel you're close to orgasm, stop what you're doing (or slow down) and move on to another part of your body. Or, if you prefere, bring yourself to orgasm (be it quick or not) and then continue to play with your body afterwards. Many men and women stop sexual touching after the FIRST orgasm. Everyone (even men) are capable of having multiple orgasms... You just have to work at it sometimes!

~Dr Tiggs~
~giggle
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[Countess DeWinter]

Everyone has had great advice for you, Jade, but everyone seems to have forgotten something really important. I find that my brain is my most sensitive erogenous zone. If I start in my mind, my orgasms are always super strong and usually leave me unable to walk for a little bit. I like fantasies (duh!) but never use the same one twice.
Imagine more than just your lover's hands. Imagine the scenario...

 

[ANiceGuy]

One technique I use.

This works for me as a guy so I don't even know if it works for girls as well. About the fourth of fifth time I have gotten off in an hour it takes longer for sure. Am I way off base here or does iot work of girls too?

 

[Tawny T]

Jade, no one asked one important question. Are you a one climax woman?

I know of a friend who just wants to quit with one, no more. God, what she's missing! But it's her body. I did bring her to a second climax one time and she really enjoyed it. Why only one? I don't know. Too intense? Anyway, that's her and not me!

If you are multiorgasmic then the more you climax, usually it takes a little longer each time. I prolong it by changing the pace, of where, and how, I'm fingering myself.

Or take a short break and do something else, but keep in mind, that you'll be back soon and excite yourself some more. Walk around the house totally nude. Go look at yourself in full length mirror and stroke your pussy very slowly. No wait that might hurry it along!!! *Grin* Tease yourself a little!

Call a good friend and while you are talking, slowly and very gently stroke yourself, but don't do it so she'll know what you are doing. No moans of ecstasy! Stretch it out!

Have fun, it's your body and enjoy it!