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SensualCealy

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This may seem like a dumb question but... At what age do most males start to masterbate, as in handjobs?

Am I right in suspecting my 13 yr old is already activly taking care of business?

Just wondering if thats why his bed was banging the wall so much the other night- gotta get him some pillows to sound proof! lol
Cealy
 
Yep...that would be about right. I remember my husband telling me he was 12 when he discovered self gratification. He said it involved a Sears catalog (turned to the bra section) and alot of alone time in the bathroom.
 
I was an early bloomer, I began the lifelong career at 11. I found a magazine my brothers had stashed away with sex stories and one of them was on a girl who gave incredible "hand-jobs". I didn't know what that was until I read the article, and had to try for myself. The first several orgasms I had, were semenless. It wasn't until I was almost 12 that I started making a mess. Any other guys have that experience?
 
My son started just after his 11th birthday. From what I have been told most boys start sometime between 11 and 12 so I would guess your son has been at if for a year or so.
 
I was like 9 years old when I began masturbating and I was fantasizing about a girl from school. Also, I walked in on two of my friends giving blow jobs at about the same age...they were actually one-two years younger. Depends on your growing-up life too. My one friend, his brother was a teenager and told his brother to lick his baby sister's pussy...she was only three. His brother was a bully...and still is. Been in/out of jail most of his adult life. Worthless piece of doodoo.
 
I don't know the answer, but I have a 10 year old son. I know that he has found touching himself to be pleasurable (at least I think he finds it pleasurable! lol), because I've walked in on him in the tub and it looked like he was moving his hands away from himself, and bending over, as if to hide an erection. Of course, he yelled "get out"! lol Well, he does that if I walk in on him just changing shirts. I try not to walk in on him, but sometimes it happens.
 
I'D HAVE TO SAY THAT ALMOST DEFINITELY YOUR THIRTEEN Y/O IS MASTURBATING... ONCE US GUYS HIT PUBERTY, WE DISCOVER THAT WE HAVE OUR OWN PERSONAL TOY THAT WE TAKE WITH US EVERYWHERE... :D HELL, I STARTED WHEN I WAS ELEVEN... ;)
 
I started at 11. I didn't know that was what I was doing, and I frightened myself pretty badly when I ejaculated.
 
I remember it well

I was 9 and staying at my Grandmothers House. She had these Satin comforters on the Guest beds. That was a long time ago.

Holden
 
Yeah, at about eleven for me, too.

If he's thirteen and NOT doin' it - then, you should worry...
 
Can't recall exactly when I started, but I think I've been at it for about 40 years or so...;)
Thirteen's in the ballpark, probably not later than that.
 
Banging the headboard?


He is in there by himself, right?
 
Banging the headboard

If he is 13 yep he probably has a close relationship with Rosey Palmer.I was about 13 when I started but I spent a lot of time in the bathroom,didn't want to sleep in the mess I made everytime I blew my wad.I got a 13 year old now and he sure does like to go to bed early anymore.
They say it makes you go blind,I did it till I needed glasses then got scared and quit.LOL Not really I still shake hands with the unemployed every now and then 30 years later.
 
I was 14. And that was just to see if I could! Yup, I could! But that first year I think I made up for it to actually make my start age about 9 LOL!!!!
 
LOL! at the Innocent.

Kids grow up waaay to fast nowadays.

The first time I had sex was at the age of thirteen, in my bedroom...at night with everyone else at home.

Now, she was alot older than me, however, kids (boys and girls) are very brave in these latter days!
 
My hubby says he was 13, so your son is definately in the right age group.

You ought to buy him a can of paint for that wall.
 
Age sounds about right ;) If headboard is-a-banging, he might be a "pillow humper".
 
Yes he's jacking off.

I had sex before hand job but i was 12 when i started jacking off.

I was [age removed] when i had sex.

Your son may need a new pillow soon send him a blow up doll in the mail that way it would save the pillows.


Good luck we guys are loners on this issue.
 
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First thing you need to do is tell him to keep it quiet.

After all, when he's ready to have sex in a few years, it is a skill he will have to learn. Then later, when he has kids...he will have to learn to be quiet...and when visiting inlaws...and...and...

And does he REALLY want his mom to hear THAT?

:cool:

S.
 
Reminds me of the scene from Parenthood when Dianne Weist realizes what her daughter sees in Keanu Reeves when he explains that her son didn't have anyone to talk to about having wet dreams.
 
VSE said:
Age sounds about right ;) If headboard is-a-banging, he might be a "pillow humper".


my thoughts exactly! and at the time, i thought it was the most amazing feeling, too....lol!
 
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