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[alatar00]

Anal sex from my girlfriend.

We've talked about it before, that it is something that I'd like to try and that she'd be willing to do it on occasion, but I'm not sure how to bring it up as more than just a hypothetical situation. Just comming out and saying can I fuck you in the ass isn't exactly the way to create a romantic setting. Any suggestions are more than welcome.

 

[millieteases]

Try talking about it in a nonsexual situation. It's tough to decide in the middle of sex. If you talk about it before, maybe do some research like going through some of the threads on anal sex, then maybe she'll be willing to try it.

In any case, don't pressure her to do it. Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful.

Also, are you willing to be the receiver as well as the giver? My spouse likes anal stimulation, and every once in a while I put on a strap-on and do him. It's a very arousing role reversal. Not our usual thing, but something fun once in a while. And since he's willing to receive sometimes, so am I.

And we both took it slow and have gotten to like it now and then.

PS - There's no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal.

 

[acamstar]

i just went through the same thing with my SO. he's been wanting to do it for awhile... i've been curious about it but didn't have a burning desire to do it. but he brought it up again recently in a kind of joking manner, while we were spooning in bed before going to sleep.
we tried it the next night and let me tell ya its nothing like regular sex. dont expect to actually fuck her the first time... especially if you have a thick or long cock, its going to take a lot of time for her to get used to feeling a dick in her ass. to be honest the sensation is like having to take a shit really bad. haha. so dont expect it to be great the first fews times is all i'm sayin

 

[strgzr1230]

Watch some movies with good anal scenes.... Nothing too raunchy, Dreamquest with Jenna Jameson has a good anal scene that isn't too rough(not with Jenna of course) If these scenes turn her on, It's a good way to broach the subject.