Asked for help with self-discipline

spankableBelle

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This may be a can of worms and i may not be able to phrase it right so that i don't look like a complete nitwit, but please bear with me...

Okay...say you want to quit smoking, quit drinking, lose weight, etc...and you've tried in the past and haven't been able to do it, haven't been able to discipline yourself enough, or stay disciplined enough to see it through...

Has anyone ever approached their Master/Mistress for help in this sort of thing? And help could be anything...

belle
:rose:
 
spankableBelle said:
This may be a can of worms and i may not be able to phrase it right so that i don't look like a complete nitwit, but please bear with me...

Okay...say you want to quit smoking, quit drinking, lose weight, etc...and you've tried in the past and haven't been able to do it, haven't been able to discipline yourself enough, or stay disciplined enough to see it through...

Has anyone ever approached their Master/Mistress for help in this sort of thing? And help could be anything...

belle
:rose:
We plan on addressing this problem once we live together...this doesn't make you a nitwit, it makes you one of us normal folks who needs help with a problem.;)
 
spankableBelle said:
This may be a can of worms and i may not be able to phrase it right so that i don't look like a complete nitwit, but please bear with me...

Okay...say you want to quit smoking, quit drinking, lose weight, etc...and you've tried in the past and haven't been able to do it, haven't been able to discipline yourself enough, or stay disciplined enough to see it through...

Has anyone ever approached their Master/Mistress for help in this sort of thing? And help could be anything...

belle
:rose:

when the relationship was new, and i had complete trust in Him~ and His concern/care for me ~He asked me not to smoke...i probably could have walked on water~ my faith was so strong! ~i quit... when the relationship severed, i started again

however, i am a stronger person now because of the entire experience and i'm sure i'll quit when i'm ready : )

yesssss, if you have a strong relationship~ by all means, communicate ---be sure of your intentions/motivations..make sure you're not seeking :eek: attention~ that you may not be getting
:heart: to you
 
Re: Re: Asked for help with self-discipline

ethereal~minx said:
when the relationship was new, and i had complete trust in Him~ and His concern/care for me ~He asked me not to smoke...i probably could have walked on water~ my faith was so strong! ~i quit... when the relationship severed, i started again

however, i am a stronger person now because of the entire experience and i'm sure i'll quit when i'm ready : )

yesssss, if you have a strong relationship~ by all means, communicate ---be sure of your intentions/motivations..make sure you're not seeking :eek: attention~ that you may not be getting
:heart: to you

ok, weak :( in the "relationship" area but when it comes drinking/smoking... i really am stronger
 
Sure, belle.

A Master or Mistress wants their sub to be their very best and can really provide motivation and incentive to make ourselves healthy!

Best wishes.

Self discipline hasn't been my strong suit.

:)
 
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