Ask Me Anything

[J D Danger]

Hi...Longtime member

I am 35 male and a little bored tonight so let's talk...nothing is off limits...PM or post here

I I like to write and rp...I am a Dom into light pain for pleasure and a bunch of other kinky stuff

I like sports....love movies and am very open and open minded

hope to hear from you all soon

 

[J D Danger]

Bump!!!

 

[J D Danger]

had some good chats yesterday...hoping for the same today

 

[southern_gal]

anything?

 

[J D Danger]

yes anything....I am very open

 

[southern_gal]

And you promise to give me the answer I am looking for right?

 

[J D Danger]

I promise to answer honestly

 

[southern_gal]

I promise to answer honestly

Which wall does my sofa look better on? Does the short wall look too crowded with the loveseat and the recliner both on it? What are your feelings about windows? Curtains pulled back or hanging at the sides? Thanks you are the best.

 

[J D Danger]

Which wall does my sofa look better on? Does the short wall look too crowded with the loveseat and the recliner both on it? What are your feelings about windows? Curtains pulled back or hanging at the sides? Thanks you are the best.

I think the short wall is far too crowded

hanging at the side no question

you are welcome...always glad to help a southern gal...I am the best

 

[southern_gal]

I think the short wall is far too crowded

hanging at the side no question

you are welcome...always glad to help a southern gal...I am the best

Ok you can be trusted. Now for the real question. I want to learn more about and get my husband to try bdsm without thinking his wife has lost her few remaining marbles. (they are the pretty ones too) How do I go about bringing something up that has never before been talked about and not make him wonder if I have been abducted by aliens? It is soooo out of character for me that even I am not sure I would believe it if I said it.

 

[J D Danger]

Ok you can be trusted. Now for the real question. I want to learn more about and get my husband to try bdsm without thinking his wife has lost her few remaining marbles. (they are the pretty ones too) How do I go about bringing something up that has never before been talked about and not make him wonder if I have been abducted by aliens? It is soooo out of character for me that even I am not sure I would believe it if I said it.

what makes you want to try it? ( you can PM me if you want)

 

[southern_gal]

It is just something that stirs me and gets me aroused like few other things. I am in no way talking about anything beyond light bdsm but even that is more than the hubs has ever heard me say.

 

[J D Danger]

how do you tell him:

Tonight when you go to bed...start a conversation about your sex life and or his turn ons....

then when the time is right bring up your turn ons and this..tell him just like you told me... communication in this as in every part of a relationship is key

how do you learn more about BDSM:

ask me anything...LOL....

google..read...read together....

have you ever read any of BDSM talk here?...there are some very smart helpful people over there

 

[southern_gal]

except tonite when I go to bed he will be sleeping a few hundred miles away on an oil platform in the gulf of mexico. The plot thickens.........

 

[J D Danger]

when and how do you guys talk?

 

[VladHarkonnen]

Most men will give you what you want if you ask for it. I seriously doubt he'd look at you as if you just sprouted a third eye and run out of the house screaming...yknow...unless you told him that you were into pegging...

 

[J D Danger]

It is just something that stirs me and gets me aroused like few other things. I am in no way talking about anything beyond light bdsm but even that is more than the hubs has ever heard me say.

you could wait to talk to him face to face..

Or..

you could send him an E-mail

I love to open up to people I care about over e-mail...it is a one sided conversation..you get to let everything that is on your mind and in your heart

even if you wait to tell him if you are nervous...write him a note..hand it to him and say..this is something I have been thinking about for awhile

however you tell him...be sure to tell him everything that stirs you

 

[J D Danger]

BUMP!!!

I am on for a few hours if anyone wants to talk

 

[J D Danger]

I am still on for a bit and will check the thread and pm's before logging off

special thanks to vibrant_vixen and scarygood

loved chatting with everyone

remember... ask me anything!!!

 

[J D Danger]

special thanks to His_DirtySecret

you made my night girl

rp was amazing and the chat with you was even better

 

[J D Danger]

thank you to everyone who responded to me...all of our chats were different and fun and that is the point of this thread

keep it going!!

I will answer any thread posts or PM's when I log in tomorrow

I am excited to see what you ask..

so ask me anything!!!

 

[J D Danger]

I hope everyone is having a good Friday

let's talk!!...ask me anything!!

 

[J D Danger]

I am watching baseball right now...but would love to chat

so ask me anything!!!

 

[Noor]

why do men give sleezy lingerie to women who don't want sex?

Why don't they give them gift certificates to Figleaves or somewhere that has nice lingerie?

 

[J D Danger]

why do men give sleezy lingerie to women who don't want sex?

Why don't they give them gift certificates to Figleaves or somewhere that has nice lingerie?

I prefer my women naked

but is there really such a thing as sleazy lingerie?

whatever my woman wears for me I want her to feel sexy and beautiful because that is what she is to me