Asian man, white woman

[Autumn2]

I admit I don't say much around here, but I am interested in stories of that variety where the Asian man is not crude or soulless. I haven't seen many at all or they've been so buried among the black/white theme that they get lost.

I've tried writing them myself but have not gained the confidence to even show the stories to anyone.

The sort of stories I'm thinking of would show up most likely under "romance" non consent/reluctance or BDSM.

 

[Monazwx]

Giving this a much-needed bump. Any ideas?

 

[emap]

I should stay away from this cause I already got way more than enough good idea's running through my head.

That said though, here's a few.

Sorta Lost in Translation-ish but how about a woman who is staying in Japan cause her boyfriend/husband got a short term job there. At first she is bored out of her mind but runs into, as literally as you want to make it, a nice japanese man who say wishes to know english better. He then shows her around Tokyo, they become fast friends, lots of sexual tension then at the end they consummate their relationship, or not depending on what you feel like doing.

Alternate idea, a Japanese man is in Los Angeles say to work out an agreement with a US company. He planned on staying in the hotel in his offtime though the second night he goes out to buy some presents for his kids/parents. In doing so he meets up with an american woman who is bored and wants something new. The next couple of days are spent with her trying to seduce him, he trying to resist her until finally he gets drunk and they have lots of sex.

This one is a teensy odd, but say we have an american woman who has spent the last decade in Japan teaching english and learning Japanese. She is an avid historian so learned all she could about Japan, upon returning to America she becomes a Japanese teacher. One of her students is Japanese but does not speak it. Seeing him bereft of knowledge of his homeland so to speak, she takes him under her wings to teach him all she knows of the language and history. During the after school teaching she is giving him, sparks fly and one thing leads to another. Bonus points from many readers if she becomes pregnant.

 

[DarkBee]

I should stay away from this cause I already got way more than enough good idea's running through my head.

That said though, here's a few.

[...]This one is a teensy odd, but say we have an american woman who has spent the last decade in Japan teaching english and learning Japanese. She is an avid historian so learned all she could about Japan, upon returning to America she becomes a Japanese teacher. One of her students is Japanese but does not speak it. Seeing him bereft of knowledge of his homeland so to speak, she takes him under her wings to teach him all she knows of the language and history. During the after school teaching she is giving him, sparks fly and one thing leads to another. Bonus points from many readers if she becomes pregnant.

I like that one, and you make it a girl wanting to learn the language of her ancestors, you already have 5 stars from me!

 

[SaintM]

What about a 20ish married white woman who gives piano lessons to a teen asian boy. He finds it difficult to compete with louder and more aggressive white guys his own age but has the same urge to discover his own sexuality. This is evident to the lonely piano teacher who allows him to explore with her.

 

[Lalah]

What about a 20ish married white woman who gives piano lessons to a teen asian boy. He finds it difficult to compete with louder and more aggressive white guys his own age but has the same urge to discover his own sexuality. This is evident to the lonely piano teacher who allows him to explore with her.

I don't know, it's kind of strange to have a eighteen year or older guy being so awkward about sex, and the woman being just five or six years older than him isn't that much of a difference.

Although if the woman was in her mid forties it could probably work with the same effect, the older experienced woman tutoring the rather shy and inexperienced young man on the ways of sex as she teach him music.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Giving this a much-needed bump. Any ideas?

Any thing you write that DOESN'T have the Asian man in a stereotypical situation or uses/refers to the unflattering stereotypes of Asian male sexuality to give it color, ALREADY will give it three and a half stars starting out the gate in my book.

Now, having said that, I suggest you write a story doesn't necessarily make disparaging or conflicting cultures or race a primary focus. Use them instead to enhance the erotic value and potential of the direction. And don't just leave the woman at being "white." Give her some "color" too. Let her heritage be Italian, Irish, German, Australian, etc...the sky's the limit with your creativity!

Have the woman be an out-of-town newbie, going to meet a friend (and possible, much-needed sexing-up) she met off of the internet for the first time. They're supposed to meet at a (pick an Asian ethnic culture of your choice) restaurant/lounge and the 'net friend ends up standing her up. She meets a regular at the bar counter who notices her knocking back drinks with names she can't pronounce with bad form. He goes over to her and tells her how to drink it properly. They both get to know each other gradually as the liquor breaks down both their inhibitions and they start getting more loose. Take it from there, it's practically writing itself!

My suggestions: Do NOT give the man broken English or an accent. Make him Asian-American or a naturalized citizen, either way, he's multilingual with proficiency in his heritage lingo. In fact, skip the Asian bar theme and just do a trendy hipster-type bar that he frequents that just happens to have a specific liquor from his native heritage. See how far you can go without reminding the reader that he's "Asian." and let the color flow naturally.

Give the woman the accent. Make her British. Brits are sexy.

 

[emap]

Irezumi you are a teensy sensitive about the whole stereotype thing.

Dangit Mona you gave me another good idea. This keeps up I am so going to have to stop coming to the forums.

Going with my first one cause dangit I really think it's the best one.

So we get a woman who is in Japan with her boyfriend. The first day she stays in the hotel while he goes off to work, she can't make sense of the shows so sits around reading or staring out the window. Next day she goes out and about, wandering around the city, gets lost and in trying to find her way back to the hotel, she meets a very nice man, he shows her the way back to the hotel and promises to show her around Tokyo.

Next day they go to one of the numerous temples, wander around a mall and just have a great time talking. He helps her with her Japanese, she helps him with his English. That evening they go to a club/restaurant, they dance and she realizes she is attracted to him. Next day they go to a beach, and he asks if she would like to go and see the cherry blossoms.

After talking to her boyfriend she does go, it's an overnight trip. Day after they get to where the cherry blossoms are falling, I forget where that is right this second, they go out and see the blossoms swirling about in the wind, they walk around and end up alone with cherry blossoms falling all about them, and they kiss.

The next day she tells him she can't go out, and ends up sitting in the hotel room thinking about him instead. Day after that she calls him and tells him she has to go out with him, they talk and one thing leads to another, they kiss again and again. Unable to control herself any longer they sneak off to a hidden place and consummate their relationship.

She breaks up with her boyfriend and goes with him to his home. He doesn't live in Tokyo, was on vacation there where they live happily ever after.

So would that work for you mr uptight Irezumi?

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Irezumi you are a teensy sensitive about the whole stereotype thing.

Ha ha ha...yes, I admit it's a biiiiiig stick in my craw, but when you've read as many stereotype-saturated amateur erotica as I have (outside of Literotica) that deals with one-dimensional reps of (primarily) Blacks and Asians associating with White people...it really GETS to you...and not that they're all bad as is par for being basic stroke n' jill material you get to read for free, but...gaaaaahhh...it's depressing because even in regards to the fictional fantasy deus ex machina, you are reading what people honestly think about the "other," deep down inside.

But to be fair, most of those I found to be eye-rolling involve erotica written about Asian women from non-Asian guys getting their non-PC fantasy jones out of the mix; I wholeheartedly welcome something refreshing and hot dealing with Asian men that isn't an evil Fu Manchu warlord also-ran. I have faith in people, though.

So we get a woman who is in Japan with her boyfriend. The first day she stays in the hotel while he goes off to work, she can't make sense of the shows so sits around reading or staring out the window. Next day she goes out and about, wandering around the city, gets lost and in trying to find her way back to the hotel, she meets a very nice man, he shows her the way back to the hotel and promises to show her around Tokyo.

Next day they go to one of the numerous temples, wander around a mall and just have a great time talking. He helps her with her Japanese, she helps him with his English. That evening they go to a club/restaurant, they dance and she realizes she is attracted to him. Next day they go to a beach, and he asks if she would like to go and see the cherry blossoms.

After talking to her boyfriend she does go, it's an overnight trip. Day after they get to where the cherry blossoms are falling, I forget where that is right this second, they go out and see the blossoms swirling about in the wind, they walk around and end up alone with cherry blossoms falling all about them, and they kiss.

The next day she tells him she can't go out, and ends up sitting in the hotel room thinking about him instead. Day after that she calls him and tells him she has to go out with him, they talk and one thing leads to another, they kiss again and again. Unable to control herself any longer they sneak off to a hidden place and consummate their relationship.

She breaks up with her boyfriend and goes with him to his home. He doesn't live in Tokyo, was on vacation there where they live happily ever after.

So would that work for you mr uptight Irezumi?

Oh hells yeah. I'd read that in a heartbeat!

Just make her reason for cheating/ditching the boyfriend something solid and not vague. And unless you're going to write this all romantical-like with lilies and unicorns in the background, make them have "fooling around" sex more than once, preferrably in incremental stages that eventually breaks her walls down to let him do her fully in the bed...like have her suck and/or jack his cock off at that bar or club while he fingers her hot box like crazy...you know what to do! Make it hotter than Shichigatsu*, babeh!

* "July"

 

[emap]

I can't do that, visit Arizona in July sometime, if I made it that hot people's monitors would melt.

OK so I will eventually get around to writing that. Not anytime soon, could be a year, could be a decade, could be longer. I type slow and I have a tendency to forget what I was going to do and do something else.

 

[Autumn2]

I could get into those story lines for sure, I might even try to write it myself...I'll be haunting the newly posted stories for it that's for sure.

What drove me to post this was a story I was reading where the research was so thin and the stereotypes so heavy that I had to stop reading it, it's much more interesting if the man is showing the woman around and he clearly has a place in his community and is respected, an eminent man who has the advantage on so many levels,his English is far better than her Japanese ect ect.

That's why your story idea has me at the edge of my seat! Especially if it contains some HOT sex as well as romance.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

What drove me to post this was a story I was reading where the research was so thin and the stereotypes so heavy that I had to stop reading it, it's much more interesting if the man is showing the woman around and he clearly has a place in his community and is respected, an eminent man who has the advantage on so many levels,his English is far better than her Japanese ect ect.

Yes, yes, YES! You have BEEN there and KNOW what I rant about! Thank you!

If you DO decide to go ahead and write your story...take your time, get it right, do it with passion and what you'd like to read in a story yourself...you'll have your awaiting audience ready to read it, never fear!

 

[emap]

I suppose I better say it, don't take advice from Irezumi. He's got shifty eyes.

 

[Autumn2]

Well I've written the first half of the story, but I have to let it sit while the characters and I decide how to solve a dilemma. I'll go look again in a day or so. I moved the story to Seoul because I have a guidebook for it.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

I suppose I better say it, don't take advice from Irezumi. He's got shifty eyes.

Heeeeyyyy...my eyes don't shift THAT much! I (try to) keep them firmly fixated on the breasts, thank you very much!

Well I've written the first half of the story, but I have to let it sit while the characters and I decide how to solve a dilemma. I'll go look again in a day or so. I moved the story to Seoul because I have a guidebook for it.

That's what I'm talkin' 'bout! Now, throw in a scene featuring the characters eating some good old fashioned Korean cuisine (and drinking some booze) and I'll love ya forever! Samgyetang and nongju works for me!

 

[SaintM]

I don't know, it's kind of strange to have a eighteen year or older guy being so awkward about sex, and the woman being just five or six years older than him isn't that much of a difference.

Although if the woman was in her mid forties it could probably work with the same effect, the older experienced woman tutoring the rather shy and inexperienced young man on the ways of sex as she teach him music.

Ha! You should meet some of the male asian university students I know.

 

[emap]

Saint has a point actually, an asian man who is born in the US is different form an asian man born in Japan or China, there the entire emphasis on your life for the first twenty or so years is to graduate with honors and get a high paying job. As a result they are rather sheltered from many things, many of them do not know anything about sex beyond what they see on their cartoons.

No seriously primetime japan TV they can and do show cartoons with sex and violence. China I beleive is pretty similar, I'd have to research that. After turning twenty and getting the job, they are then told to find a wife and have kids. Parents being the same the world over they want to curse their kids with kids just like them.

 

[Mansa Musa]

Heeeeyyyy...my eyes don't shift THAT much! I (try to) keep them firmly fixated on the breasts, thank you very much!



That's what I'm talkin' 'bout! Now, throw in a scene featuring the characters eating some good old fashioned Korean cuisine (and drinking some booze) and I'll love ya forever! Samgyetang and nongju works for me!

Change it to all-you-can-eat bulgogi and copious amounts of soju (the soldier´s diet), and I´m there!

 

[skydiving]

i was adopted by my mom, when i was 14. anyway, we became lover when i turned 17. i shall always remember..... anyone outthere, from around new orleans area, that is white and about 45 to 55. i would love to get to know....

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Bulgogi, o.k. but stay far, far away from the soju. The stuff's worse than grappa. When the waitress opens the bottle she throws the top inch on the floor. It ain't no libation, guys, it's formaldahyde! Man, that is some bad shit.

 

[Autumn2]

My guide book describes soju as a yam or tapioca 'vodka' so I'm assuming this stuff was turned into wine and then distilled? How much (if any) yam or tapioca flavor remains? I'm neutral on tapioca and I don't like yams... Is this stuff clear? or colored? what color is it? what is the predominant flavor? Is it sneaky (you're much drunker than you expected to be) does it cause a nasty hangover?

I drink good scotch neat, the occasional martini and real margaritas made with fresh lime juice. I like dark beer and understand the process of making homebrew...so I am no wuss when it comes to booze

 

[arturobraganza]

i've been seen some videos of it in Youtube.

 

[Autumn2]

I can't do youtube, it eats too damn much bandwidth and I'm on a satalite dish. Don't get me started on that subject LOL!

I wrote the story now I need to let it sit and go back through it and decide who to ask to edit it. I am a BIG chicken now...

Do I have any editing volunteers?

 

[Mansa Musa]

Bulgogi, o.k. but stay far, far away from the soju. The stuff's worse than grappa. When the waitress opens the bottle she throws the top inch on the floor. It ain't no libation, guys, it's formaldahyde! Man, that is some bad shit.

Soju is the nectar of the gods. The dark gods, but gods nonetheless.

 

[arturobraganza]

I can't do youtube, it eats too damn much bandwidth and I'm on a satalite dish. Don't get me started on that subject LOL!

I wrote the story now I need to let it sit and go back through it and decide who to ask to edit it. I am a BIG chicken now...

Do I have any editing volunteers?

Yeah, but I also like seeing them in videos or pictures.