Ashamed to be bi-sexual?

[sexieyoungone]

I'm from the west texas area, very much bi sexual and engaged to the most perfect man...

My question to everyone is: Is there a reason why woman seem to be ashamed to be bi-sexual?? I might be in the wrong place to ask this since everyone here seems so open but I can not for the life of me find a nice caring woman for a relationship!!

 

[rjp44]

bisexuality in the closet

Sexie, I think in many areas in the US there are a good percentage of bisexual people, but many remain deeply closeted in fear of the opinion of others. To myself, the ideal situation would be to find a bisexual woman so that we would understand the needs of one another, but it seems most in this area are closeted also.

Sites like this are a good place to begin looking though, so hang in there. Best of luck in finding a good friend.

 

[binary1980]

in my short time here on earth, ive found the opposite to be true. ive known more openly bi women than men (myself being a so deep in the closet im finding christman presents). maybe its just the regions we live in that make the difference. dunno. hope you find whatever it is youre lookin for

 

[Betticus]

I'm from the west texas area, very much bi sexual and engaged to the most perfect man...

My question to everyone is: Is there a reason why woman seem to be ashamed to be bi-sexual?? I might be in the wrong place to ask this since everyone here seems so open but I can not for the life of me find a nice caring woman for a relationship!!

I will tell you this girl, you are living in the wrong place to find a vibrant and open gay/bi community. Midland Texas is a cesspit of hardcore old school southern christianity and even talking about it will get you one hell of a bad reputation, not only for you but for your fiancee. There are too many people who are more concerned about your business than their own lives where you are at. It's crazy.

Seriously, I've been in the same kind of environment and I can say that there are a lot of people just like you but you will have to find them and be very discrete. If you want to chat more send me a pm and we can be pen pals or something.

I'd like a pen pal anyway

 

[PredatorSmile]

Ashamed to be bisexual ? Not bloody likely. Proud and out, thank you very much.

 

[rjp44]

sellin' tickets

PS, I would love to be there if anyone ever gave you any shit about being bi. LOL

 

[juicy_kitten]

in my humble opinion as an openly bi-sexual girl it often stems from prejudice encountered and the attitude tht u r "just greedy". i was in a relationship with a girl for quite sometime and we encountered all sorts of prejudice and abuse, mostly from ppl who didnt know us - this could well be why so many remain in the closet
just MO
good luck!!

 

[sexieyoungone]

you guys answers were great, and if course all things Ive thought about but thanks for in the input...by the way if anyones from this area lookin for a friend that would be nice too

 

[Betticus]

you guys answers were great, and if course all things Ive thought about but thanks for in the input...by the way if anyones from this area lookin for a friend that would be nice too

I've driven through Midland.

 

[PredatorSmile]

PS, I would love to be there if anyone ever gave you any shit about being bi. LOL

Lol ! No you wouldn't. I got kicked off the GLBT Alliance for loving a man...who happened to be a closet bisexual. In the eyes of the world, we were a hetero couple. I didn't want to out him just to please my ex-friends. I had to make a choice between them and him. I chose him. The surprising thing is that while so many gays and lesbians fight for the right to love any gender they choose, they turned me on me for loving a man AFTER embracing me years ago back when i was just a girl who digs other girls. Bisexuality is seen as a disease or something by all of these haters. Oh, well. I dont wanna be cured !

 

[rjp44]

bi and love it

You are so right PS. It seems that we are rejected by many of the hetro people on one side and the gay/lesbian people on the other. How much nicer it would be in this world if everyone would only accept the differences of others, no matter whether sexual orientation, or race, religion and age.

You showed what you are made of when you decided to take all the heat and protect your bf (there you go again doing that....we won't tell though).

 

[bi_married_lady]

i live in marin county, and i was ashamed of being perceived as straight.

i can tell you that people are the same everywhere: about the same percentage of straight, gay and bi, it's whoever suppresses it. i am sure there is someone in the same area as you that wants to get into your pants.

 

[lilwetone]

One of my good friends (boy) is gay.....For a whole year him and i would go to every Pridefest, and nightclubs in the state.....After awhile it grows on you...(or at least it did for me).....So I thought, now..would i be a lesbian or bisexual??? ...Dont get me wrong, i like guys.. (when they're not being lame).... But with women...they understand (ie: time of the month, moodiness..ect)....thats comforting. I just takes some time to get use to ..... its your life, your body.....dont let anything or anybody change that......

So as of now....im so open with both sexes......

 

[rjp44]

One of my good friends (boy) is gay.....For a whole year him and i would go to every Pridefest, and nightclubs in the state.....After awhile it grows on you...(or at least it did for me).....So I thought, now..would i be a lesbian or bisexual??? ...Dont get me wrong, i like guys.. (when they're not being lame).... But with women...they understand (ie: time of the month, moodiness..ect)....thats comforting. I just takes some time to get use to ..... its your life, your body.....dont let anything or anybody change that......

So as of now....im so open with both sexes......

It's all good

 

[lilwetone]

It's all good

I mean Cumon...Your getting the best of Both Worlds....

 

[rjp44]

I mean Cumon...Your getting the best of Both Worlds....

I agree, I love it all.

Maybe I'm just greedy....

 

[jshawk74]

Good sex is good sex - I'm glad I'm able to appreciate a nice body whether it's m or f.

 

[lilwetone]

I agree, I love it all.

Maybe I'm just greedy....

I dont think its greed...its honesty

 

[alltherage]

I your sexuality does not include a desire to do harm to anyone then i see no shame in whoever you love or have sex with. I would only say the as a bi sexual women older than 30 i have learned that honesty with partners is vital. One lie fucks up so many things and shame almost always leads to lies.

 

[Samuelx]

I your sexuality does not include a desire to do harm to anyone then i see no shame in whoever you love or have sex with. I would only say the as a bi sexual women older than 30 i have learned that honesty with partners is vital. One lie fucks up so many things and shame almost always leads to lies.

Honesty as best policy works anywhere except marriage.

 

[robbie_boy1]

lol...you are young still. I am married, tell her the truth all the time....that way I do not have to have a file on what is true, half truth and no truth....lie once and you will be questioned by any lover the rest of your life..........now isn't that a pleasant thought...

Honesty as best policy works anywhere except marriage.

 

[Bandit58]

I'm originally from a small rural area in New Zealand. I have been attracted to women since my early/mid teens. However I did nothing about it and tried to fit in with the "normal" people by getting married at a young age (19) and having two children.

Now I live in Sydney Australia, happily out of the closet as a bisexual submissive and in love with a wonderful Man who is also my Master. How a lot can change in 4 years! But when I have had to go back to NZ I put myself firmly back in the closet

My private life is just that - private. Everything is on a need to know basis, and my mother, brother and kids (even though they're grown) don't need to know what I do regarding my sex life.

 

[blndfun4you]

My private life is just that - private. Everything is on a need to know basis, and my mother, brother and kids (even though they're grown) don't need to know what I do regarding my sex life.

Hear, hear!!!

 

[Nabokov]

I think it is certainly tough finding a good group of friends that you feel comfortable with in confiding your real nature. In this day and age it seems that too many people want to tell others what to do. I am a somewhat closeted bi male and I imagine that it is tough for you.

 

[FallenAngel3]

still just bi-curious

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