As you get older do you find

Yes indeed

You get more open minded and curious to try new things. Sex becomes more pleasurable and kinky.
 
You get a little older..want explore new things......while you still can...
 
I find that I'm less inhibited by what other people might think of me. Especially about what I'm turned on by. When I was young I felt like I needed to prove myself through things like having a conventionally attractive partner, getting notches on my belt, and performing conventional masculinity. But as I've gotten older I'm way more open to exploring my desires. For example: attraction to different body types (especially BBWs and mature women), bisexual curiosity, both subbing and domming, group play, and indulging in frequent masturbation. I'm also, inexplicably, as horny at 40 as I was at 14!
 
that things that completely grossed you out before now seem ok or make you curious?

I wouldn't say this ever grossed me out just never had the opportunity before, today we had an IR date with a black man.

On a separate note, I've grown less opposed to hubby's bi tendencies.
 
Last edited:
We have found that the older we get and the older our friends get, the more we tend to lose all of our inhibitions. We were always somewhat exhibitionist, we became nudists in a our earlier forties, swingers and then bi-bisexual's a few years later,and got into incest after that. No we do almost anything that involves sex except pain and sex with animals.
 
I also think you have more patience and your tolerance is higher as you age.This opens your mind to being adventurous and curious.
 
that things that completely grossed you out before now seem ok or make you curious?

Nothing ever really grossed me out before (except for scat, that is). I would say that age (I'm only thirty-three, mind you) and access to the internet has made me realise that there are more things out there than I'd ever conceived of, though.
 
that things that completely grossed you out before now seem ok or make you curious?

When I was in my 20s I was very conventional about sex, but gradually drifted into a more polyamorous life style. Some things I still don't want to try, but am always interested in talking about them
 
My inhibitions are dropping. I'm open to a lot of things that would've surprised me years ago.
 
I have to be polite and discreet in my daily life. inhibitions? Never really had those mentally or emotionally. I have a few taboos though. Those have always been there.
 
that things that completely grossed you out before now seem ok or make you curious?


well I do think it is natural to evolve our thinking as we grow older, so the answer to your question is definitely yes
 
My perception is that this is about more than getting older. We folk in Europe and I guess North and South America are living at a time of so many taboos and prejudices falling away. Just a small but illustrative example: On British TV it is now ok in a drama any time of day to see two men in a deep kiss. That was such a no no when I was younger. These changes in mores are changing our attitudes and responses all of us older and younger, no?
 
Maybe the question should be what have you done now that you wouldn't have done younger?
 
That would have been interesting too.

definitely an interesting way to put it, because the though has always been for me that I am smarter now, so some the things I did while younger I would never do now. That said sexually speaking I think at times the opposite is true.
 
My perception is that this is about more than getting older. We folk in Europe and I guess North and South America are living at a time of so many taboos and prejudices falling away. Just a small but illustrative example: On British TV it is now ok in a drama any time of day to see two men in a deep kiss. That was such a no no when I was younger. These changes in mores are changing our attitudes and responses all of us older and younger, no?

Grey's Anatomy has had several M/M kissing scenes for the past season featuring 2 young gay Doctors. OTOH, it featured several lesbian Doctors for from the meeting to dating and later marriage several years ago. So it took that popular series about 6 years to progress to the males. That shows how attitudes have changed just in that amount of time.
 
that things that completely grossed you out before now seem ok or make you curious?

Absolutely. I can remember MANY MANY years ago (take that as you want to) when as a young'un raised Catholic even thought that oral sex and anal sex were super taboo. I thought that tying up a woman to spank or flog her, even if she wanted it, had to be a sin. Over the years I learned from may women and have become a devout pussy eater, never deny a woman who wants it up the ass, and if she wants to be bound and spanked and fucked at the same time, wonderful. There are other things that I once thought gross like watersports that I'd love to try but unfortunately haven't found women who agree with me. If I could go back those MANY years knowing what I know now, I would be a different person.

I'm sure there are women who feel the same way. I was fortunate to find a fair number of middle aged married women trapped in boring marriages who were up for a lot more than they were getting at home. One told me, 'I want to try it all, every possible position and thing to do." Another said, "For years I've been the good girl my parents and husband wanted me to be; now I want to be bad." Fortunately, many were indeed up for about anything..... unfortunately, not the true watersports beyond just letting me watch them.
 
Back
Top