As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[SmokingFap]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm bi, but I prefer men..

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I'm bi, but I prefer men..

Yummmm!!!

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm bi, but I prefer men..

Were you always bi with that preference? Or were you straight, learned to love the ladies as well, but still have the preference for men?

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I have admired the womanly body for years and years...
My first sexual experience as a young gal was experimenting with females.
But men are just my preference...
Id rather have sex with a woman if she's a stranger.
I've been in FFM and was very happy!!

 

[saintcero]

Recently bi but still primarily attracted to females. I like their complete package. Only attracted to a guys junk. No explanation for it. That’s just how it happened

 

[barefootgirl69]

Yummmm!!!

How does this comment continue the dialogue or conversation in this thread?

People aren't sharing things here just to turn you on.

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I'm not bi, @SmokingFap but have been in MFF situations. I still prefer a man. I'd say more, but comments like the one I replied to make me hesitate - and squeamish.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

Prefer a woman, but a nice clean shaved cock wouldn't go unnoticed or untouched. Not much on kissing or making out with another man but everything else. Wide open

 

[Escierto]

I have never had any interest or attraction to men and I still don't. However the first time I met a trans woman (virtually on cam), I knew that I wanted her cock on a visceral level. It took me at least a decade to act on these desires but once I did, I never looked back. I have been with my trans girlfriend for over five years and it's been great!

 

[bobb64]

i'm bi always have been i love my wife but prefer sex with men.

 

[BiDrew42]

I believe I would more appropriately be labeled as pansexual. I am attracted to, and have sex with, men, women, and transgender women. As I have gotten older I have trended more toward men and especially trans women.

 

[32aa]

For me, it's one of those 'it depends ' answer.
Guys are fun. So, when I'm in the mood for some playfull ' fun sex' I'll get together with one of my guy friends. I mean sometimes a girl just needs a good fun fuck.
But, when I'm in the mood for some slow tender loving it's one of my bi girlfriends. In my opinion only a woman knows how to make love to another woman.
Or maybe it's just me.

 

[KarinSoftly]

I prefer playing the woman for a man.

 

[AlexBailey]

Attraction is a funny thing - there are lots of facets to it and it took me years to figure out how to define what I like and what I’m not into.

If I focus on physicality I’m mostly attracted to cute and androgynous - tomboys and femme guys, though I’m usually (not always) more into fit and pretty-boys than the sissy type. Next would be fem females…then every so often I meet a big handsome guy who can actually make me stumble over my words and have to remember to breathe. (Think Heath Ledger )

My first loves were girls, then I was a femme unicorn for an older married couple. I loved the pan/poly family thing but I was never presented with the opportunity again.

Later I was partners with a bunch of lesbians with a couple of FWBs with femme guys in between.

My first wife was a waif model (big oops for me) , my wife now is an adorable elf.

I’ve been kissed and groped by a few but otherwise I never had my big handsome guy.

 

[Travler99921]

My best sex is with my wife. However sometimes only a man will do. My wife understands this. She knows a man is not a threat to our relationship. This deepens my feeling for her, and that makes our sex better.

 

[stargame]

Attraction is a funny thing - there are lots of facets to it and it took me years to figure out how to define what I like and what I’m not into.

If I focus on physicality I’m mostly attracted to cute and androgynous - tomboys and femme guys, though I’m usually (not always) more into fit and pretty-boys than the sissy type. Next would be fem females…then every so often I meet a big handsome guy who can actually make me stumble over my words and have to remember to breathe. (Think Heath Ledger )

My first loves were girls, then I was a femme unicorn for an older married couple. I loved the pan/poly family thing but I was never presented with the opportunity again.

Later I was partners with a bunch of lesbians with a couple of FWBs with femme guys in between.

My first wife was a waif model (big oops for me) , my wife now is an adorable elf.

I’ve been kissed and groped by a few but otherwise I never had my big handsome guy.

I love your style & oh would we be good together ☆☆☆☆☆

 

[Dashabout]

For me, it's one of those 'it depends ' answer.
Guys are fun. So, when I'm in the mood for some playfull ' fun sex' I'll get together with one of my guy friends. I mean sometimes a girl just needs a good fun fuck.
But, when I'm in the mood for some slow tender loving it's one of my bi girlfriends. In my opinion only a woman knows how to make love to another woman.
Or maybe it's just me.

I'm happily married but like 32aa says it comes down to mood, love my gal friends for the more tender moods but for a night of lustful fucking it's Bill and a male friend or two. I've alway kind of thought of myself as sort of a 60/40 percent as rocking with males is more of a sure thing to arrange.

 

[Tessinwales]

It really depends on how I'm feeling and what type of sex I want at the time. Sometimes I want to be pinned down and have my brains fucked out, other times I want the softness and tenderness of fem2fem sex.

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm happily married but like 32aa says it comes down to mood, love my gal friends for the more tender moods but for a night of lustful fucking it's Bill and a male friend or two. I've alway kind of thought of myself as sort of a 60/40 percent as rocking with males is more of a sure thing to arrange.

Good to see you, Dash. Hope you and everyone are doing well.

 

[PFWilly]

I’m bi, prefer women, but a hard cock is also a pure delight. Just a totally different experience. Only done oral with guys, perhaps my preferences would change if I’d had a cock, or three, up my ass. Not all at the same time, obviously…lol!

 

[Travisspank]

I’m bi, I prefer to look at women, but prefer being fucked by men.

 

[Dashabout]

Good to see you, Dash. Hope you and everyone are doing well.

Hey there fap it's nice to see you too sometimes Everyone is doing well in my world for now.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Openly bi here, and happily married to a woman. As far as a partner goes, I NEED a woman in my life. I have been exclusive with men in the past, but I find that the men I'm sexually attracted to to tend to reinforce my self-destructive behaviors. When I'm partnered with a woman, I tend to be less selfish and care more about my mental and physical health. I am generally a better person.

But as far as pure lust goes, sex with men brings me more pleasure. If I'm planning to engage in meaningless sex, I'd much rather it be with a man. My wife knows this, and she told me something interesting recently that helped it make sense... She said, "you have the empathy of a woman but the sex-drive of a horny teenage boy..."

 

[JennyCapricorn]

At this point I enjoy looking at men but don’t want any other than my husband, while I love looking at women and would sleep with more of them if I had the opportunity.

Sex is different between hubby/men and women lovers, but that might just be because my experiences with women are so limited in real life that they get such a blush from both being new and also transgressive (not that married woman takes lesbian lover is that transgressive around here)

 

[Phatfeet]

I have not been doing bisexual sex for very long now, so it is hard for me to say.

I do not want to offend anyone in how they live their life, but I do not see myself enjoying a fully gay lifestyle to the end of my days exclusively. But having said that, because I am trying to be less reserved about what I do with a man, I try and consider myself as fully gay when I am with one, and not just bisexual.

Splitting hairs? Perhaps but it keeps me trying new things too, like kissing for example.

But it is liberating to be with another man just because sexually there is no guessing what he likes. Chances are, if I like something, he will like me doing it to him. That co-knowledge is liberating and exciting. So little rejection now, and that I admit it addicting.