Arousing in Retrospect

[Foolhen]

Would anyone like to share experiences that were not arousing, or even unpleasant, at the time, but are now when looking back?

 

[ComatoastTX]

Would anyone like to share experiences that were not arousing, or even unpleasant, at the time, but are now when looking back?

Something that was traumatizing to me with a babysitter growing up but now when I think back about it, I get aroused.

 

[Foolhen]

I once got a blowjob from a girlfriend who must not have had much practice and turned out to be really bad at it. She used her teeth in a way that was downright painful and it was difficult for me to stay hard, let alone climax. Nevertheless, I realized that she was determined to finish me off, so out of respect for what she was offering I let her keep at it while trying not to show my discomfort. The only way out for me was to orgasm, but, as I said, it was more painful than pleasurable. We also happened to be in a tent camping with friends and it was early morning with other people starting to stir, so I could not say anything to her and had to keep as quiet as possible. I realized that my only chance was to focus my mind on something arousing enough to put me over the edge.

She had taken off her sweater and her small breasts were hanging down and within reach of my hands, so I felt those gently as she went down on me and their softness and hard little nipples were very nice and it helped my state of mind. Nevertheless, I also needed some visual stimulation. She still had her panties on and there was no way for me to reach far enough to pull them down. I knew that by this point her vagina must be swollen bright red and sopping wet and I longed to see it, but it was impossible. The best I could do was to pull at the back of her panties so that they pulled tight in the crack of her tight bottom. I looked at her bottom that way and imagined what her pussy must look like underneath and the next thing I knew there was the familiar twinge in my groin and a few seconds later the first spurt of come shot into her mouth, quickly followed by another and then another.

It really caught her by surprise, either because of the amount of come that I had building up for the past few days, or because of her lack of experience. But she refused to lose so much of a drop and sat up with her cheeks bulging and face bright red, looking more terrified than anything. Then I saw her Adam's apple move and she was swallowing it down one gulp at a time. When I went to give her a thank-you kiss, I saw that there was still a little droplet of come on her upper lip, but I pretended not to notice.

 

[Cate_Archer]

The first time with a guy, both of us had a few drinks. He was very rough, and it was painful. But the following day, I kept thinking about it and even played with myself (best cure for a hangover). Then I went and woke him up with a blowjob.

 

[Foolhen]

Very hot, thanks for sharing!

I had a girlfriend for a time who I could not take from behind (vaginally) because it hurt her. This was particularly unfortunate because she had the most incredible bubble butt. One night we were at a party and got quite drunk and when we got to bed she rolled over and we just went at it doggy style for the first and only time. The next day she was in some pain, unfortunately, but it did make for a memorable experience for both of us.

The first time with a guy, both of us had a few drinks. He was very rough, and it was painful. But the following day, I kept thinking about it and even played with myself (best cure for a hangover). Then I went and woke him up with a blowjob.

 

[screwher]

The first time my wife cheated. I was furious! Our relationship came within an eyelash of ending. But we kept it together and managed to move forward. Soon after though, her tryst started to arouse me. I began fantasizing about other men fucking her. And secretly started hoping she’d do it again. She did again many years later. It was then I told her of my desires and soon after she started hooking up with her first lover in our new lifestyle!

 

[TitanTits]

The first time an older woman called me for erotic purposes, I was absolutely terrified. She was so bold and confident, I took it at first as her being vulgar and pushy.. I could barely speak and was so nervous. It happened a few times because she enjoyed it and I got a rush afterwards.

Fast forward a few years and after building myself up... I turned into her in many ways. I now look back at those experiences with a smile not anxiety.

 

[innocntplay]

After lurking here a while and enjoying the open ideas I think back to all the times seeing guys naked in various states of arousal. Were they opportunities?
The first encounter that retrospect is necessary for, was when I was still short, head high to a priest who hugged me by the back of the head pushing my face to his groin. With retrospect I believe he was semi erect. At the time I had no idea what it was.
In my 20's I can remember a few times being so drunk I missed out on getting laid. Oops.

 

[Jarito]

There was a teacher at my school who I and most of the lads had a crush on. She was also rumoured (I honestly think it was true, in retrospect!) to be a bit promiscuous.

One day she cornered me alone at my desk and complimented me on the sun tan I’d got while on holiday. As she did so, she leaned down and rested her hands on the desk in front of me, blatantly
revealing her substantial cleavage to me, before saying that she thought she had a good tan too, even though she’d only been on holiday to (nearby) Wales. It should’ve been perfect but I was just embarrassed and tried not to look

A few weeks later we were on a school trip to the Netherlands and she came to my hotel room without explanation. She asked if she could come in and did so, asking how I was, but I had no idea what she was there for and she never explained. She didn’t seem to know herself! Again I felt really embarrassed being alone with her. We had a slightly awkward conversation and she eventually left. I was a super naive 14 year old who’d never had a girlfriend and, maybe I am also deluded, but as a much more experienced man nowadays I’m convinced she was probably up for messing around!

 

[innocntplay]

Had a similar situation with my Art teacher who cornered me in the pottery kiln room and accused me of constantly staring at her breasts (we all were as she seldom wore a bra!) she then unbuttoned her blouse and held it open telling me to have a good look. I didn't need a second invitation

Not sure if this is retrospect, but as was working at a small university I was enjoying semi regular sex with the interim Dean. During that time the head of the Art Department made some obvious hints at interest in us. I never acted on them due to the quality of the time spent with the iDean when her husband was traveling.

I guess retrospect would be that I could have pulled that off and should have. Young and dumb....

 

[Jarito]

Had a similar situation with my Art teacher who cornered me in the pottery kiln room and accused me of constantly staring at her breasts (we all were as she seldom wore a bra!) she then unbuttoned her blouse and held it open telling me to have a good look. I didn't need a second invitation

Lucky boy

 

[Thiagawr]

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[conquen]

The first time my wife cheated. I was furious! Our relationship came within an eyelash of ending. But we kept it together and managed to move forward. Soon after though, her tryst started to arouse me. I began fantasizing about other men fucking her. And secretly started hoping she’d do it again. She did again many years later. It was then I told her of my desires and soon after she started hooking up with her first lover in our new lifestyle!

I had a similar experience with my X. She would go out after work and at times fuck other men, coming home after midnight. This crushed me. But one night when she was out I couldn't sleep and completely naked I walked out on the patio and sat in the dark, alone wondering what she was doing. The next thing I knew my cock was hard as a rock and with barely any stroking I had an incredible orgasm. I never told her about it. I didn't really understand it at the time. But now I regularly fantasize about my current wife fucking other men.

 

[Foolhen]

It's amazing how quickly "cheating" turns into eroticism, especially for men it seems. I had a long distance girlfriend and we agreed to keep it "open". She finally came to visit me after 6 months or so of being apart and on the first day we both confessed that we had hooked up with someone else. I remember her saying something about how the guy had a beautiful cock. It was painful to hear at first, but the pain dissipated quickly and we screwed several times a day over the course of her stay. By the time she left, I was burnt out on sex, but she wanted to do it one last time. I realized that her sex drive might be even higher than mine and that turned me on enough to get it up again. The more I thought about her going out and getting her needs satisfied, the more turned on I got and as I was inside her I ended up whispering in her ear that I wanted her to go out and get herself laid while she was away.

 

[Foolhen]

A girlfriend and I went on a beach vacation, but she went a week before I did and travelled around the country. Along the way, she met a couple of guys who she became good friends with and travelled with them for some time. Supposedly nothing happened between them, but she sent me various photos they had taken of her posing in her tiny bikini at the beach. They shared some hotel rooms so it's hard to imagine that at least one of the guys wasn't thinking about screwing her brains out, especially since she had quite a body that she liked to show off.

At the time I hated the idea of her cheating on me, and she screwed my brains out when I got there, but I've always found it exciting to think about her "servicing" those guys in their hotel room.

 

[littlecordelera]

My husband and I were at a business conference at a resort in Florida. Some of his friends/colleagues grabbed me and threw me into the pool. I was wearing a long white dress, and it clung to my body like paint and became practically see-through. The water was cold, and my nipples were standing like darts. There were lots of people around, and lots of chatter and laughing, but when I climbed out of the pool, the entire pool area went dead silent. Everyone was enjoying the show. I am very proud of my body, but under those circumstances, I was mortified and angry!

Sometimes during sex I think about that situation, all those men staring. It gets me very aroused.

 

[de_valmont]

My husband and I were at a business conference at a resort in Florida. Some of his friends/colleagues grabbed me and threw me into the pool. I was wearing a long white dress, and it clung to my body like paint and became practically see-through. The water was cold, and my nipples were standing like darts. There were lots of people around, and lots of chatter and laughing, but when I climbed out of the pool, the entire pool area went dead silent. Everyone was enjoying the show. I am very proud of my body, but under those circumstances, I was mortified and angry!

Sometimes during sex I think about that situation, all those men staring. It gets me very aroused.

And this story of yours gets me very aroused.

I saw a female colleague I had a crush on deep tongue kissing with a guy. I was envious, somehow intimidated, I am not into deep tongue kissing anyway, so I looked away and tried to be a gentleman ignoring that view.

But now, when I think of several situations with her, this is one of my favourites.

 

[innocntplay]

It is still a mood or curiosity that comes and goes.

But I was at a gay friends pool party where most every one including myself was naked hanging out. Respectful blow jobs abound. Most any other sex was taken indoors.

There were several that wanted to blow me. I would get aroused but never let it happen. Maybe if it was in secret 1 on 1? 30 years later I am curious what returning the favor would be....

 

[ComatoastTX]

It is still a mood or curiosity that comes and goes.

But I was at a gay friends pool party where most every one including myself was naked hanging out. Respectful blow jobs abound. Most any other sex was taken indoors.

There were several that wanted to blow me. I would get aroused but never let it happen. Maybe if it was in secret 1 on 1? 30 years later I am curious what returning the favor would be....

I think I would have had to let it happen. I mean, when in Rome, let the Roman's do what they do.

 

[Wonderer67]

About 35 years ago I got out of the army reserves and finished college around the same time. I was traveling cross country on my way home from Denver. I stopped off at a rest stop on I70 in Kansas somewhere to just sleep for the night in my car. I woke up around 2am cuz I heard someone outside my car. I got out and there was a note, “if you want to be with a man, go three cars over.”

It freaked me the hell out and I got the hell out of there. I literally drove that night and all of the rest of the rest of the way thru Kansas, into Missouri, crossed the mississp, drove thru Illinois and found a campground in Indiana. I maybe stopped for gas 2x and felt like someone was following me.

Now, I might say, “hmmmmm. Why not?”