Arizona - Are straight CD's super rare?

[azlit]

I live an hour north of phoenix, been searching for a straight CD friend for many years.

My ads always made it clear that I am not interested in intimacy with another man but wanted to share this kinky side of my life with someone that understands.

There have got to be lots of CD's out there that aren't messed up about this fetish, enjoy it for what it's worth, don't feel the need to tell the world about it and perhaps would enjoy a friend they could share this side of their lives with.

Never happens, every guy I've communicated with wants to suck, get sucked or have their ass pounded. Maybe it's because I live in Arizona?

While I have other interests and fetishes, CD'ing is one of them but I don't have any fantasies that include dicks or men's asses. When I dress, I enjoy looking at images of sexy women and fantasizing about stuff my wife and I might do. In fact, my wife knows about my fetish, it's just not her thing.

All I ever fantasize about is finding that person, getting to know them, feeling comfy enough to dress up together, go on adventures together, enjoy plenty of masturbation and orgasms which don't involve us being sexually intimate.

In my early 50's now, I sense this will never happen.

After all this time, I believe I must be a rare case and thought it would be interesting to post this here and see if I truly am alone or not.

 

[FL30]

I live an hour north of phoenix, been searching for a straight CD friend for many years.

My ads always made it clear that I am not interested in intimacy with another man but wanted to share this kinky side of my life with someone that understands.

There have got to be lots of CD's out there that aren't messed up about this fetish, enjoy it for what it's worth, don't feel the need to tell the world about it and perhaps would enjoy a friend they could share this side of their lives with.

Never happens, every guy I've communicated with wants to suck, get sucked or have their ass pounded. Maybe it's because I live in Arizona?

While I have other interests and fetishes, CD'ing is one of them but I don't have any fantasies that include dicks or men's asses. When I dress, I enjoy looking at images of sexy women and fantasizing about stuff my wife and I might do. In fact, my wife knows about my fetish, it's just not her thing.

All I ever fantasize about is finding that person, getting to know them, feeling comfy enough to dress up together, go on adventures together, enjoy plenty of masturbation and orgasms which don't involve us being sexually intimate.

In my early 50's now, I sense this will never happen.

After all this time, I believe I must be a rare case and thought it would be interesting to post this here and see if I truly am alone or not.

you're probably looking in the wrong places

try Fet Life

 

[azlit]

I don't think so .

I've tried Craigslist when it used to have personals, aff.com, alt.com, fetlife.com, many others and always the same result. Where else would you suggest?

I think most CD's get drawn to wanting to try being bi because they want to feel that woman inside them and think they have to try those things to get there.

 

[irishblade]

I live an hour north of phoenix, been searching for a straight CD friend for many years.

My ads always made it clear that I am not interested in intimacy with another man but wanted to share this kinky side of my life with someone that understands.

There have got to be lots of CD's out there that aren't messed up about this fetish, enjoy it for what it's worth, don't feel the need to tell the world about it and perhaps would enjoy a friend they could share this side of their lives with.

Never happens, every guy I've communicated with wants to suck, get sucked or have their ass pounded. Maybe it's because I live in Arizona?

While I have other interests and fetishes, CD'ing is one of them but I don't have any fantasies that include dicks or men's asses. When I dress, I enjoy looking at images of sexy women and fantasizing about stuff my wife and I might do. In fact, my wife knows about my fetish, it's just not her thing.

All I ever fantasize about is finding that person, getting to know them, feeling comfy enough to dress up together, go on adventures together, enjoy plenty of masturbation and orgasms which don't involve us being sexually intimate.

In my early 50's now, I sense this will never happen.

After all this time, I believe I must be a rare case and thought it would be interesting to post this here and see if I truly am alone or not.

I’m pretty similar. Much younger but it’s not about male on male for me either. Just a fun little side thing to do.

 

[azlit]

Yes, but, you don't mention if you've actively searched for a friend of the same type?

 

[azlit]

Based on the lack of replies, this site is either not all that active or there really aren't that many straight CD's.

 

[LucyCanyon]

Based on the lack of replies, this site is either not all that active or there really aren't that many straight CD's.

Straight CD but way away from AZ! Female form attracts me, but the sensuality of female clothing is something I love too. It's just the sensations, and though I have ventured further - meeting other CDs in the UK to see if that would be a natural development - the reality is I just want to have sex with a woman but dressed in lingerie!

 

[azlit]

Straight CD but way away from AZ! Female form attracts me, but the sensuality of female clothing is something I love too. It's just the sensations, and though I have ventured further - meeting other CDs in the UK to see if that would be a natural development - the reality is I just want to have sex with a woman but dressed in lingerie!

That is me in a nutshell. I could care less about a mans junk but sure would enjoy knowing a CD just to have someone to share this part of my life with. However my sexual activities are the same as you, I only get turned on thinking about sex with a woman and even more when dressed.

 

[richdon03]

That is me in a nutshell. I could care less about a mans junk but sure would enjoy knowing a CD just to have someone to share this part of my life with. However my sexual activities are the same as you, I only get turned on thinking about sex with a woman and even more when dressed.

You're, actually, a lesbian CD, then. Maybe try using that label in your ads. You're a man who likes to dress as a woman who enjoys sex with women only.


I find it interesting that many MTF Trans people identify as lesbians. My daughter even dated one. Try identifying as a lesbian and see where it takes you. You might even find a woman who will help you to experience your ultimate fantasy, in the process.

 

[OldFred65]

I don't know why anyone would want to meet a straight CD. Bi ones are so much more fun.

Anyone bi, male or female, is more fun than a straight person.

 

[Iris_66]

That is me in a nutshell. I could care less about a mans junk but sure would enjoy knowing a CD just to have someone to share this part of my life with. However my sexual activities are the same as you, I only get turned on thinking about sex with a woman and even more when dressed.

It’s not super common, but there are a few of us out there

Finding a woman who tolerates, shares or (lotto time) embraces is the tricky bit

It’s Lucy’s tale to tell, but she has had a win, me too, but bringing it out into the open always carries risk that a relationship may fail

Feel free to PM

 

[azlit]

LOL, no one is asking for anyone's opinions or guidance on anything.

My post was asking others that experience the same yet many are posting their thoughts on what I should be doing, identifying etc LOL.

Yes, I could identify this way, that way but my ads are detailed so there is no point. My wife is already aware of my CD'ing and has fun with me probably weekly. It's not her favorite thing but she understands it's just a kink.

She too would welcome my finding a friend that's into CD'ing because while she's good about it, she cannot understand it as well as another CD would.

I posted only interested in hearing from others who have had the same problems looking for a straight CD.