Checked off Male-Dom which is the role I have played and feel comfortable. I am somewhat confused or naive when BDSM is referred to as a lifestyle. I enjoy playing the Dom role during sex, but try to keep my relationships equal outside of the bedroom.
Can anyone provide enlightenment as to what a true BDSM lifestyle is and/or is this something that is practiced solely as a sexual role.
Having said that, during sex I prefer the woman to go on top of me, which some people might consider displays a subconcious wish to be dominated. I prefer it to be taken as an indication that I can caress her more easily in that position. And, of course, she does all the work and I get just as much pleasure.