Are you?

are you a

  • Lurker who just likes to read posts

    Votes: 42 7.5%
  • Female switch

    Votes: 36 6.5%
  • Male switch

    Votes: 55 9.9%
  • Male Dom

    Votes: 90 16.2%
  • Female Domme

    Votes: 12 2.2%
  • Male sub

    Votes: 57 10.2%
  • female sub

    Votes: 114 20.5%
  • Dom/me curious

    Votes: 18 3.2%
  • sub curious

    Votes: 120 21.5%
  • seeking same sex only

    Votes: 13 2.3%

  • Total voters
    557

WriterDom

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Who are you and what are you looking for?

curious= interest but never had a skin on skin bdsm experience.
 
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I think you missed an option there lol i was sitting here trying to decide how to cast my vote but ran into a problem;

I have had no skin on skin expirience which according to your definition makes me curious, but curious what?

I have a Sir, one that i am meeting in RL withing the next 4 months at which point he has promised to collar me and make me his (which makes me very happy...but off topic too lol)

but i am also switch (there again by definition only switch curious) as i have had the opportunity to enjoy Topping, but again, only online.

I have discovered though that i am far more sub than Domme which made the selection a bit easier, but i think you might have also included a choice that said dont fit neatly into any of these choices lol ;)
 
I'm sub curious; interested in being dominated by a sexy lady with a strap-on cock. Not into heavy stuff with pain though.
 
Seems like we have some curious subs out there.

If you are a curious sub, how long have you been curious?
 
My reply was sub curious but I'm also a lurker who likes to read the posts. I think that part of my being a lurker has to do with discovering that there are others like me - that it's okay to feel the way I do.
 
Domme, after a transition period of switching.

However, have since realized I will not sub again. It is like wearing someone else's skin.

:D
 
Y/you curious folks are always welcome at the other bdsm forums. We have a nice online library, and you can ask questions on any topic.

I hate Y/you, but I just had to do it :p
 
I am submissive but I am also intrigued by the thought of doing the spanking occassionally. I think there is a shortage of Dom's. Do you know what I have to do to get my boyfriend to spank me? ugh.
 
My personality makes me a naturally dominant person, reguardless if it's a male or female that I'm with. However, I haven't had any real experience with it, so I suppose that would make me a Domme curious (?).
 
Hi WD!

I answered switch... since I do that on occassion... but I am more sub than top... oh and bi of course:D
 
PrettyKitty427 said:
I am submissive but I am also intrigued by the thought of doing the spanking occassionally. I think there is a shortage of Dom's. Do you know what I have to do to get my boyfriend to spank me? ugh.

Kitty, tell him to contact me ... I'll give him some "pointers". :D
(Or maybe I should just demonstrate .... decisions, decisions).
 
MissTaken said:
Domme, after a transition period of switching.

However, have since realized I will not sub again. It is like wearing someone else's skin.

:D

Do you miss getting spanked? Or did you ever like it?
 
female sub....thought about switching one time but just the thought of it made me a nervous wreck. Guess i just don't have the Dominant gene!

Hi WD!
 
after much absence from Lit just wandering on through again and ran across this

Put sub female well hard to go against bone hard facts
 
lassarina said:
female sub....thought about switching one time but just the thought of it made me a nervous wreck. Guess i just don't have the Dominant gene!

Hi WD!

Hi lass

how are you?
 
I believe I'm Dom curious. I've had a brush at dominating a *boy* and I rather enjoyed it. Not much the submissive type though - sorry ;) I'd love to have a slave at some point preferrably from Europe (either UK or Scotland).
 
Betticus said:
Where is the "male Dom being trained by lesbians" option?

The fact that you even think that should be an option moves me to ask how I can become it and change my answer.:devil:
 
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