Are you proud of your marks?

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On the giving or receiving side. All of mine subs loved them. A point of pride I guess. A reminder of the scene. That's a big downside to playing with married subs I imagine. Having to be careful of such things.
 
I'm always quite happy with mine...lol, he is repeatedly lamenting at the moment is that the burn mark on my arm which is quite noticeable was not caused by him, just a nasty mishap in the kitchen. :p

Catalina :catroar:
 
WriterDom said:
On the giving or receiving side. All of mine subs loved them. A point of pride I guess. A reminder of the scene. That's a big downside to playing with married subs I imagine. Having to be careful of such things.

I love to be marked. It's a constant reminder of the time we shared. When I'm missing him all I have to do is look in the mirror, or feel how sore different areas of my body are and it reminds me of him.
 
Yes, and also being married I can say that I was proud when I arrived back home bruised and bitten from my first venture away from home. It was a reminder of the great weekend I'd had. My husband was aware of where I was and why I was there. We are open about our relationship, and while those "1st times" were a bit disconcerting for both of us, we have worked past that now. I don't deny that sometimes things get the best of both of us, but we continue to grow and mature every day.
 
Yes i am proud of the marks i receive, It reminds me of the time we have spent together. I am constantly walking past the mirror to check on them, and walking around with a permanant grin on my face. :D
 
catalina_francisco said:
I'm always quite happy with mine...lol, he is repeatedly lamenting at the moment is that the burn mark on my arm which is quite noticeable was not caused by him, just a nasty mishap in the kitchen. :p

Catalina :catroar:

LOL I hate that! I totally get jealous of doctor scars and mishap marks.


The only marks I get so far are obvious bite marks and hickies. Which I sport prouder than a teenager - I never got any then, so maybe this is me making up for it. I thought it was a territorial thing with my Bull, but he tells me he loves the tactile thing about giving them, supposedly the skin changes in your mouth when you really break the capillaries. Cool, whatever.

When I was playing with more corporal people I liked them, it was cool, I felt tough.

I love to give them, but I'm respectful of people's wishes about them as much as possible. I underdid many a married client I wanted to mark when I was in the biz.

I also got very creative about no-marks pain. Bastinado. Flicking a delrin cane along the asscrack, vertically. Electro. Clamps on tongue. Predicament, forced excercise....
 
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I wear my marks like badges of courage. He took delight in putting well placed cane stripes across my thighs so that each time I sat to pee I would see them.


WriterDom said:
On the giving or receiving side. All of mine subs loved them. A point of pride I guess. A reminder of the scene. That's a big downside to playing with married subs I imagine. Having to be careful of such things.
 
There is always hair pulling and cunt spanking I guess. Maybe a ruler or something to directly spank the anus. But I really like people that I don't have to worry about it. Every toy a different brush leaving a different color on soft ass skin.
 
Yeahh, although I love feeling sore the best. Lately though, I've been a quick healer. It's bumming me out! I don't know what happened. I guess my skin is just recovering faster.
 
I wouldn't say I am proud of them. But they are wonderful reminders of the memory of receiving them.

I'm married and I will say that the first time I came home from a caning my very vanilla husband was a little worried. The physical marks ar still something that bothers him a bit, he is fine with me having sex with another man, but the other stuff concerns him. Which is ok. I think I would be a little hurt if he didn't care at all.
 
I currently have a perfect bite mark on my stomach from three weeks ago. You can see every single little tooth line perfectly.

I hope it scars.
 
i'm like intothewoods, i savor the lingering pain/soreness more than the marks, although i love them too. also, because my Master and i are not really into bdsm and he doesn't use any "tools" on me per se, most of my marks are not the sort that could be easily explained as bdsm/rough play or something of the sort. this is one of those lucky things about being a houseslave who rarely leaves home, with no vanilla friends...less explaining to do. most of my marks are things like big greenish/blue bruises from punching, cuts and scrapes from being slapped and his nails catching me, sometimes a black eye, things like that. when i absolutely have to come up with some excuse, i'll usually say something cliche like i ran into a door or fell down the stairs.
 
intothewoods said:
Yeahh, although I love feeling sore the best. Lately though, I've been a quick healer. It's bumming me out! I don't know what happened. I guess my skin is just recovering faster.

You might be like moi. I used to mark easy, but as time has progressed it takes a lot to get any lasting mark beyond a couple of hours. It frustrates him, especially when he gets great variation of colour and even blood from caning etc., only to look a little later and not see anything at all.

Catalina :catroar:
 
I did love the ones I've gotten. They are gone all too quickly. OTOH, I hate marks on skin in general. I like to see smooth expanses that are not marked. Maybe it's a "boldly imagine going where nothings been marked thing?"
 
FurryFury said:
I did love the ones I've gotten. They are gone all too quickly. OTOH, I hate marks on skin in general. I like to see smooth expanses that are not marked. Maybe it's a "boldly imagine going where nothings been marked thing?"


hmm, sort of like a virgin fetish?
 
YES I am very proud of the marks I sustain from him.. I know what it does to him and I love to look days later and see and the remenants it reminds me I am his.. and HIS Alone .. ;)
 
I looooove my marks.

I have one faint cane mark left on my inner thigh which is barely visible anymore, from over 2 weeks ago... when it's gone completely I'm going to be so sad.

I always feel lonely and depressed when the last of the marks goes away. sigh.
 
I remember the first time my bum got spanked, and I was really worried that I will not like the marks left on my bum.....but when ~A took pictures and showed them to me, and also when I looked at my bum in the mirror, I felt some pride and felt really proud of my lovely glowing red marks! :D

The second time, there were no red glowing reds, just fading pink marks and I felt so disappointed and so upset!! :(

The third time - Yay! You can see the results in my avatar and in my kinky picture thread! ;) :D

:nana:
 
for me they are my and my Dom's little secret. He gave them to me, and I get to relive the experience of getting them for few days afterward when I touch or sit on them. When I get a really good caning I have a picture made so I can see it and remember the experience.
 
I do.

I like poking and prodding at my bruises. I like the reminders... of what was done, how it felt, how I felt, the satisfied and happy gleam in his eye afterwards.

It makes me feel good.
 
I have two hand prints on my ass.
Gosh it's been a long time since i have stood in the mirror admiring them and feeling that rush of excitment remembering how they got there.
 
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