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It´s always good to know what you want!
And I doubt that you offended anyone...
You seem to know what you want- but are you sure you want to be on the sumissive side? You seem to give very clear instructions...
Hope you find what you are seeking! (Unfrotunately I am out of your age range by a year or so!)
 
At least you are smart enough to know what you want, and make that point in your post. A submissive does need to know what he or she wants in a Dom, and should be confident enough to be selective. If at some point you plan on taking this to R/L, you do need to be concerned about the physical appearance of your Dom; however, if this is to be only online, a Dom's physical appearance, (or age), has little to do with his ability to create the illusion of Dominance. If your main consideration is your Dom's physical appearance, you could limit your opportunities. It may be prudent to consider a Dom's experience, rather than primarily his physical appearance. The relationship between a sub and Dom is more about respect and devotion to the Dom than it is about physical attraction. Often a Dom represents an authority figure for the sub.

Also, since you are new at trying to fulfill your desires/needs, you need a Dom who has the patience to train you as a submissive, rather than expecting more than you may be able commit to at first. Training a new sub takes a great deal of patience on the part of the Dom. One of the things your Dom has to consider is that you are married, and if your husband knows about this. Particularly where BDSM is involved, being trained as a sub may affect the way you relate to your husband.
 
Hi there . Male, married 32 here with pics!!! Love to dominate, PM me if interested/attracted!! xx
 
I am a 32 y/o married male. My wife and I lead and dom/sub life mostly in the bedroom. If you would like to chat some time and see where it leads, drop me a pm.
 
Petite_Putin said:
Hi... I am new to the forums, but have been a fan of Lit for many years. I had posted this on BDSM...but i think it may be a better fit here... I am not going to go into a long story about the reasons i am here...and I guess there's no need to sugarcoat anything..

I am married, yes... But I need something more... BDSM relationships intrigue me..but i am not sure i could fully commit to that lifestyle...(What with husband and kids...)

I am a strong, confident, playful woman and I know exactly what I want and need. I also know that I am very submissive, and I am looking for 'the one' who can help me fulfill my needs...

That being said...and I know this will probably piss some people off..but I am picky.. And I know what I want and don't want... I need a strong, confident married man who is dominant, and doesn't mind an online relationship (no, doesn't mean I have ruled out meeting in person).. A man between the ages of 30 and 45...who takes care of himself and his body. I know this is an online fantasy, and that attitude and personality are really what makes someone attractive...I still have to be attracted to the person physically...

I hope I haven't offended anyone.. I am just a woman that knows what she wants and needs...and I am hoping to find it here..

Merci :)
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What a wonderful ad - with a quirky sign off too.

Have a look at my profile and PM me sometime..
 
Petite_Putin said:
Hi... I am new to the forums, but have been a fan of Lit for many years. I had posted this on BDSM...but i think it may be a better fit here... I am not going to go into a long story about the reasons i am here...and I guess there's no need to sugarcoat anything..

I am married, yes... But I need something more... BDSM relationships intrigue me..but i am not sure i could fully commit to that lifestyle...(What with husband and kids...)

I am a strong, confident, playful woman and I know exactly what I want and need. I also know that I am very submissive, and I am looking for 'the one' who can help me fulfill my needs...

That being said...and I know this will probably piss some people off..but I am picky.. And I know what I want and don't want... I need a strong, confident married man who is dominant, and doesn't mind an online relationship (no, doesn't mean I have ruled out meeting in person).. A man between the ages of 30 and 45...who takes care of himself and his body. I know this is an online fantasy, and that attitude and personality are really what makes someone attractive...I still have to be attracted to the person physically...

I hope I haven't offended anyone.. I am just a woman that knows what she wants and needs...and I am hoping to find it here..

Merci :)
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I can relate with you sis. Are you also boring with your husband like me?
 
Wow - What a wonderful message and what a wonderful person you sound. I seem to tick all your boxes. I have sent you a message.

Catch you soon.
 
JasonDaniel said:
At least you are smart enough to know what you want, and make that point in your post. A submissive does need to know what he or she wants in a Dom, and should be confident enough to be selective. If at some point you plan on taking this to R/L, you do need to be concerned about the physical appearance of your Dom; however, if this is to be only online, a Dom's physical appearance, (or age), has little to do with his ability to create the illusion of Dominance. If your main consideration is your Dom's physical appearance, you could limit your opportunities. It may be prudent to consider a Dom's experience, rather than primarily his physical appearance. The relationship between a sub and Dom is more about respect and devotion to the Dom than it is about physical attraction. Often a Dom represents an authority figure for the sub.

Also, since you are new at trying to fulfill your desires/needs, you need a Dom who has the patience to train you as a submissive, rather than expecting more than you may be able commit to at first. Training a new sub takes a great deal of patience on the part of the Dom. One of the things your Dom has to consider is that you are married, and if your husband knows about this. Particularly where BDSM is involved, being trained as a sub may affect the way you relate to your husband.
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Thanks for the info - but if you would have read, i did say that BDSM intrigues me, but i don't think that I could have that lifestyle, being a wife and mom.. As for the physical attractiveness, I am fully aware of what a Dom, or other skillfull man, can do to excite me online, using only words...but I also know myself, i will want to know what this person looks like..and if i am not attracted to them physically, it just won't work for me. And i expect it to be the same if the man is not attracted to me - its a waste of my time and his...
 
Hey! not fair: I had replied in your other thread :rolleyes: ... t'es française? :cool:
 
I would love to help you Dear

Petite_Putin said:
Hi... I am new to the forums, but have been a fan of Lit for many years. I had posted this on BDSM...but i think it may be a better fit here... I am not going to go into a long story about the reasons i am here...and I guess there's no need to sugarcoat anything..

I am married, yes... But I need something more... BDSM relationships intrigue me..but i am not sure i could fully commit to that lifestyle...(What with husband and kids...)

I am a strong, confident, playful woman and I know exactly what I want and need. I also know that I am very submissive, and I am looking for 'the one' who can help me fulfill my needs...

That being said...and I know this will probably piss some people off..but I am picky.. And I know what I want and don't want... I need a strong, confident married man who is dominant, and doesn't mind an online relationship (no, doesn't mean I have ruled out meeting in person).. A man between the ages of 30 and 45...who takes care of himself and his body. I know this is an online fantasy, and that attitude and personality are really what makes someone attractive...I still have to be attracted to the person physically...

I hope I haven't offended anyone.. I am just a woman that knows what she wants and needs...and I am hoping to find it here..

Merci :)
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I could help you. but I am over your age that you are looking for. if you expand you age let me know. I also have a post in BDSM for what you are looking for love.
 
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mightygrey1956 said:
I could help you. but I am over your age that you are looking for. if you expand you age let me know. I also have a post in BDSM for what you are looking for love.
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But she was looking for an online fantasy - your fantasy could be that you are just the right age, height, weight, etc :rolleyes:
 
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