If you're a sane, intelligent sexually submissive female looking for a similar dominant male, it must be a nightmare task searching through all the ... er ... less suitable ads. 
This being the case, I'll try to save you some time by beginning with ...
THE EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
I'm an attractive, successful, 38yo straight male dom seeking a
sexually submissive female for both erotic adventures and friendship, with perhaps more if we both find ourselves wanting that. I'm based in London, and can both travel and accommodate.
ABOUT ME
Looks may not be the most important thing, but we at least need to find each other acceptably attractive, so let's start with the easy bit. I'm 5'9, fairly stocky build, short hair which varies between dark brown and fair depending on how much time I've been spending in the sun lately. I'm told I'm attractive and well-endowed. I never know what to tick on those ads that ask for 'Dress' as I wear everything from jeans and t-shirt through smart casual to suit-and-tie, depending on circumstances and whim.
I'm a senior management consultant in a multinational. My work is important to me, but I believe life is to be enjoyed. I enjoy both the simple things - walking along a beach, flying a kite, sitting in a pavement cafe chatting & watching the world go by - but also enjoy some of life's material pleasures.
I'm also guilty of Boys Toys Syndrome - I drive a sports car, ride a
sports bike and enjoy taking them round race-tracks.
I like good food, both eating out and cooking, and adore red wine!
Sexually, I'm a dom who enjoys creating erotic adventures, whether via an elaborate role-play exercise or something simple & spontaneous. I'm into bondage, spanking, whipping and can enjoy humiliation scenes with a partner who finds that a turn-on.
I'm extremely committed to safety, both in terms of BDSM and safe-sex practices, and take plenty of time to find out your limits & likes. If you don't have sufficient experience to know this, we can explore it together.
I'm divorced (amicably but permanently!), and while I'm happy being single, I'm also open to finding a new relationship.
I have a homepage which provides more information about my experience and what I can offer. Please feel entirely free to email me to ask for the URL - no need to tell me anything about yourself in that email unless you want to.
ABOUT YOU
I'm never terribly convinced by the 'dating agency approach', where you specify everything you want your ideal partner to be. In my experience, you often meet people by chance who meet hardly any of your criteria and yet become great friends. So treat all this as some wild guesses about what you might be like, rather than a specification you have to fit.
Taking things in roughly the same order, I don't need supermodel looks, just someone who's at least averagely attractive. I'm not hung up on any particular physical type (height, hair colour, precise body type, etc), but would have to say that if you are *seriously* overweight, then I'm afraid I'm not the one for you.
You are almost certainly successful in your work, whatever that may be.
You probably have at least one adventuresome hobby, and if you enjoy fast cars that's a definite plus.
Sexually, you enjoy handing over control to your partner. Both
physically, through bondage, and also mentally. A sexual scene could include walking across a hotel lobby and carrying out an instruction you find mildly embarrassing, or being instructed to pull your skirt up around your waist during a car journey. You may enjoy extended scenes of submission, but are not looking for anyone to control your whole life.
You enjoy friendship and affection as well as play. You want a
relationship (in the broadest sense) in which there is good
communication, honesty and humour.
WHAT NOW?
You can find out more about me simply by dropping me a line and asking for the URL of my homepage. You can then look at that before deciding whether you want to get to know me further.
If you'd then like to take things further, we can chat via email, ICQ or phone, as you prefer. If you'd like to meet, we can have dinner or you may feel brave enough for an alternative idea.
So ... back to all those 'On your knees, bitch' ads, or drop me a line ... ?
Ben
This being the case, I'll try to save you some time by beginning with ...
THE EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
I'm an attractive, successful, 38yo straight male dom seeking a
sexually submissive female for both erotic adventures and friendship, with perhaps more if we both find ourselves wanting that. I'm based in London, and can both travel and accommodate.
ABOUT ME
Looks may not be the most important thing, but we at least need to find each other acceptably attractive, so let's start with the easy bit. I'm 5'9, fairly stocky build, short hair which varies between dark brown and fair depending on how much time I've been spending in the sun lately. I'm told I'm attractive and well-endowed. I never know what to tick on those ads that ask for 'Dress' as I wear everything from jeans and t-shirt through smart casual to suit-and-tie, depending on circumstances and whim.
I'm a senior management consultant in a multinational. My work is important to me, but I believe life is to be enjoyed. I enjoy both the simple things - walking along a beach, flying a kite, sitting in a pavement cafe chatting & watching the world go by - but also enjoy some of life's material pleasures.
I'm also guilty of Boys Toys Syndrome - I drive a sports car, ride a
sports bike and enjoy taking them round race-tracks.
I like good food, both eating out and cooking, and adore red wine!
Sexually, I'm a dom who enjoys creating erotic adventures, whether via an elaborate role-play exercise or something simple & spontaneous. I'm into bondage, spanking, whipping and can enjoy humiliation scenes with a partner who finds that a turn-on.
I'm extremely committed to safety, both in terms of BDSM and safe-sex practices, and take plenty of time to find out your limits & likes. If you don't have sufficient experience to know this, we can explore it together.
I'm divorced (amicably but permanently!), and while I'm happy being single, I'm also open to finding a new relationship.
I have a homepage which provides more information about my experience and what I can offer. Please feel entirely free to email me to ask for the URL - no need to tell me anything about yourself in that email unless you want to.
ABOUT YOU
I'm never terribly convinced by the 'dating agency approach', where you specify everything you want your ideal partner to be. In my experience, you often meet people by chance who meet hardly any of your criteria and yet become great friends. So treat all this as some wild guesses about what you might be like, rather than a specification you have to fit.
Taking things in roughly the same order, I don't need supermodel looks, just someone who's at least averagely attractive. I'm not hung up on any particular physical type (height, hair colour, precise body type, etc), but would have to say that if you are *seriously* overweight, then I'm afraid I'm not the one for you.
You are almost certainly successful in your work, whatever that may be.
You probably have at least one adventuresome hobby, and if you enjoy fast cars that's a definite plus.
Sexually, you enjoy handing over control to your partner. Both
physically, through bondage, and also mentally. A sexual scene could include walking across a hotel lobby and carrying out an instruction you find mildly embarrassing, or being instructed to pull your skirt up around your waist during a car journey. You may enjoy extended scenes of submission, but are not looking for anyone to control your whole life.
You enjoy friendship and affection as well as play. You want a
relationship (in the broadest sense) in which there is good
communication, honesty and humour.
WHAT NOW?
You can find out more about me simply by dropping me a line and asking for the URL of my homepage. You can then look at that before deciding whether you want to get to know me further.
If you'd then like to take things further, we can chat via email, ICQ or phone, as you prefer. If you'd like to meet, we can have dinner or you may feel brave enough for an alternative idea.
So ... back to all those 'On your knees, bitch' ads, or drop me a line ... ?
Ben
