lonely_hubby60
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- Dec 21, 2017
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Because you look for and perceive some unique kind of bliss coming your way, when you do?
I dislike the conventional rules of the game immensely. But unfortunately, I have not run into many women yet, who dislike them for the same reasons. Too bad actually, because the rules suck, and not only I know it. But it takes a special kind of resolve to break the rules. So might you be a woman rule breaker perhaps, ready to break the rules with me?
As I see it, the game of affection -- maybe even love in the best case-- gets played according to mighty strange rules. It’s a “no-no”, or a heavy taboo at least, to admit one craves affection. That is considered a weakness, an inadmissible one for sure. The cool game boils down to hiding one’s longing. To never quite admit it, sometimes not even after two lovers have found each other.
Because admitting a need for affection is most “uncool”. It’s OK to allow a member of the opposite sex to sweep one off one’s feet, because that is considered “manly” or “admirably female”, when it happens. But by no means admit this need for affection one has. That makes one “vulnerable” after all. Also it would out one to be human, and who wants to get de-masked as a human human being? In our age of having to stand one’s ground.
Now what if you and I simply broke these rules? You’d be considered a slut or worse. And I’d be a man who goes for “push-overs”. BUT what if neither I nor you care? What we crave is affection, so why not stand up and admit our desires? Which is -- in my case -- a need for affection more than a need for emptying my balls inside of you. Unmanly, I know, but that’s what I crave, I cannot help it.
For me, genuine affection is something one gets back, and doubly so. So one never really gives it away, it only seems that way. And sex with affection -- some people call this affliction “demi”sexuality -- feels super great to me. Maybe not necessary the first time we get together, but it makes the second time all the better.
There’s an additional thought worth mentioning, I think: for people like me, and I hope for you also, our minds and our souls are involved when we make love. And with that kind of involvement, our orgasms simply turn out better. A bit like a mind-gasm or a soul-gasm. Especially when we get together by mail mosty. Or exclusively even. When I cannot physically touch your body, I feel some compensation when I am touching your soul. And your mind.
So what do you say, rule-breaking woman-to-be? Are you feeling in the mood now to write me a PM?
I dislike the conventional rules of the game immensely. But unfortunately, I have not run into many women yet, who dislike them for the same reasons. Too bad actually, because the rules suck, and not only I know it. But it takes a special kind of resolve to break the rules. So might you be a woman rule breaker perhaps, ready to break the rules with me?
As I see it, the game of affection -- maybe even love in the best case-- gets played according to mighty strange rules. It’s a “no-no”, or a heavy taboo at least, to admit one craves affection. That is considered a weakness, an inadmissible one for sure. The cool game boils down to hiding one’s longing. To never quite admit it, sometimes not even after two lovers have found each other.
Because admitting a need for affection is most “uncool”. It’s OK to allow a member of the opposite sex to sweep one off one’s feet, because that is considered “manly” or “admirably female”, when it happens. But by no means admit this need for affection one has. That makes one “vulnerable” after all. Also it would out one to be human, and who wants to get de-masked as a human human being? In our age of having to stand one’s ground.
Now what if you and I simply broke these rules? You’d be considered a slut or worse. And I’d be a man who goes for “push-overs”. BUT what if neither I nor you care? What we crave is affection, so why not stand up and admit our desires? Which is -- in my case -- a need for affection more than a need for emptying my balls inside of you. Unmanly, I know, but that’s what I crave, I cannot help it.
For me, genuine affection is something one gets back, and doubly so. So one never really gives it away, it only seems that way. And sex with affection -- some people call this affliction “demi”sexuality -- feels super great to me. Maybe not necessary the first time we get together, but it makes the second time all the better.
There’s an additional thought worth mentioning, I think: for people like me, and I hope for you also, our minds and our souls are involved when we make love. And with that kind of involvement, our orgasms simply turn out better. A bit like a mind-gasm or a soul-gasm. Especially when we get together by mail mosty. Or exclusively even. When I cannot physically touch your body, I feel some compensation when I am touching your soul. And your mind.
So what do you say, rule-breaking woman-to-be? Are you feeling in the mood now to write me a PM?
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