Are you a bi male...

mssweetangelina

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Who keeps his desires for other men a secret? Do you have a wife/girlfriend/significant other who doesn't share that "forbidden" fantasy with you so you're left to sneaking out and having discreet encounters? I personally think bi men are very appealing--how could I argue with a man's desire for cock when I enjoy it so much myself?!

The secrecy of it all can be a turnon but it can also become almost too much to bear at some point. If you feel you need a release for whatever reason, let me hear from you. I'm very easy to talk to and maybe you might find it easier chatting with someone who doesn't know you or your history and who won't judge you because of your sexual desires.

Hope to hear from anyone who'd like to share... :kiss:
 
Familiar tune

Sounds familiar...girl, you've written my life story... :devil:

Wish there were more women like you who not only understand their guy's feelings and desires, but also encourage them to act on them. And participating right alongside with them is absolutely hot hot hot.
 
Oh yes how could I have forgotten to mention that?!

Sharing cock with another guy is definitely HOT HOT HOT and all the other combinations/variations as well.

Thanks for reminding me, badger. ;)
 
You have definetely got me pegged also ms. It can be a turn-on for those "discreet" encounters, but keeping it hidden is a pain in the ass, and not the fun kind of pain either! would love to talk to you sometime!
 
Yes thats me all over although I also hide the fact I like to crossdress too, I was in a relationship but am single again now (nothing to do with me being bi) so I am looking forward to exploring my sexuality alot further. Would love to chat with you sometime.
 
I'm glad that my thread has resonated with some of you. It's too bad that things that we enjoy sometimes can't be understood or accepted by others. That's why Lit is such a great place and I look forward to hearing from more of you.

Would love to chat anytime flywater and 21st Century Boy. My IM handles are in my profile or just PM me here :kiss:
 
I'm in the club too, my S/O DAMN sure doesn't share my fantasy...I really can't talk to anyone about it...sucks.
 
fisherman2

I have had these feelings for years but never had the chance to try. But I am now recently single, maybe Mr. Right will come by and teach me. Wish I had a girl like you to talk too before.
 
Had some experiences with a girlfriend a few years ago. It was especially hot with her there added emensly to the experience. Also great turn on before and after in bed with her. Nothing like reliving and fantisizing with her. Could never ffind the right girl to return the favor with her. Have had some experience with guys alone and strongly favor the female presence. Also is a frequent enabler when pleasing myself.
 
Great thread

Hi Miss I love the thread. I am searching for the woman who wants to share this with me. I would love to chat with you sometime. You can reach me at shaven359@yahoo messager
bill
 
Encouragment from the female

I think it would helpful if more women who had this interest in their male friends would be more open about it and ask the guys if they would consider a bi experience. I bet there's many guys quietly thinking of this, but afraid to approach their gal for fear of freaking them out. Or perhaps they've broached the topic subtly and received a lot of bad vibes.

Come on girls, help us guys out here!
 
I've been married for 7yrs and my wife knows I had bi experiences when i was younger i try to fight the desire to be with a man but usually give in after a few months gave in last week as a matter of fact
 
openmnded said:
I've been married for 7yrs and my wife knows I had bi experiences when i was younger i try to fight the desire to be with a man but usually give in after a few months gave in last week as a matter of fact

Please share all the juicy details with us....
 
i met two guys on a phone chat line they said they were both straight but wanted a guy to suck them i went over and sucked two of the longest fattest cocks i've ever had the pleasure to wrap my lips around
 
I'm glad to see more guys being honest and sharing their desires/experiences.

I know there are more ladies out there who share my opinions. I think many women don't discuss the subject with their male partners for fear of them freaking out. I've discussed the subject with my bf and while he says he doesn't have to desire to be with another man sexually, if it would really turn me on, he'd do it. He claims his fear would come afterwards, wondering if I'd feel differently towards him after watching him perform with another guy. I reassured him that wouldn't be the case but I can understand his hesitation.

Anyway thanks for all the replies and I hope to see more! :nana:
 
don't I wish

Yes, there are many of us who wish his wife or GF would share your attitude, but my wife would never even think of that! I had a GF once who expressed an interest in MFM 3somes, but we never found a guy we could agree on :confused:

So, we just wait for the nice open minded discreet couple out there somewhere, keeping the fantasy alive, or look for a like minded guy :cool:

B :devil:
 
secret desires

I feel the same way. I have strong desires to experience sex with other guys. In college, 20+ years ago, I went to a bath house in St. Louis, MO. It was truely a mistake. But the bath house was gay. I walked around in a towel and saw every manner of gay sex you can think of in small changing rooms, the sauna, the steam room, the showers, the whirlpool, and the "open room". I got blown in the steam room :) , groped in the whirl pool :) and sucked my first cock in a "69" in the "open room" :nana: :devil: :nana: on a mat with others around me doing the same thing or similar. I never went back, but I remember all that happened and replay it again and again. I have had a few other minor bi/gay experiences since, but nothing compared to the bath house.

Ten years ago I married a wonderful woman who seemed open to "sexual experimentation" of all types. Durng our courtship she was fantastic. :nana: Once we got married, she lost a lot of her interest in the "kinky" side of things. She did not lose interest in sex, just being open to new things. When we would talk about it, she would say that she indulged me while we courted, because she knew I had been single for a while (after my divorce) and thought that after we got married, I would become more conventional. :confused:

However, I still have a great interest in sucking cock and trying a little anal sex. So I am stuck with these secret desires. I love my wife and do not want to do anything to jepordize whet we have together. Literotica helps enormously. Reading that others are in the same situation as I also helps a great deal. Fantasy is a wonderful release. :nana: I am lucky I have such a rich fantasy life and such a rich real life. I don't want to lose either.
 
For the last couple of years I've really been getting more and more into wanting to experience what it was like to play with another guy. Wife has also asked me if I would ever suck another guy off. Instead of just coming out and saying "yes" I'd like to, I told her if she wanted to see me that I would. She's only brought it up twice though. I have to live that dream through many fantasies and chatting with other like-minded guys. I'm hoping one day that she might come around, but I'm not holding out much hope. It's very hard for me to get away to play. Gets very frustrating...
 
Don't do what i did..

I was honest about it with my now ex-wife... From now on, I am openly bi. I will be happier, and the secrecy thing is sort of hot, but its even nicer to be with someone with an open mind and heart. This has been a long journey for me, but I am glad I am here.
When I move into the new apartment, I want to celebrate...
 
glad to see other openminded persons

There is something very appealing about submitting to a Dominant woman/couple/man and letting them explore me. *S
 
Fla Sun - have you tried to bring the subject up with your wife lately, perhaps a subtle hint or reminder of the conversation you two had a while back? Maybe she thought you weren't so hot on the idea and hasn't brought it up since...?

Sun Sub - have to agree with you, for me the bi thoughts are very strong, but I think it would be so much more exciting for a female to be participating alongside. I have lots of desires to be with a another man, but an experience with a M/F couple would be right up there. :nana: :nana:
 
Participation

It would be incredibly hot to have a woman (my wife) actively participate and orchestrate the action. There was a series of pix on Threepillows.com a while back where the woman was "feeding" an erect cock to the other guy. From the poses it looked like he was a little reluctant, but with her active encouragement, holding the cock with one hand and seeming to nudge the guys head along closer and closer with her otehr hand. I thought it was an extremely hot series and fed into my fantasies.

For me this would take away the anxiety that many have expressed that their wives or GFs would think worse of them after as well as heightening the excitement.

I am also confliected about this for another reason. This may not be a popular attitude here, but when you bring in a 3rd person to a relationahip, sexually, it really complicates the dynamic. Even if it only a one time thing. The couple's relationship is forever changed. I feel that today, we are all the product of every experience we have ever had. A third party, participating sexually with a couple, is a very powerful event - even if both agree to bring in that 3rd person. They cannot help but be changed - sometimes form the worse.

So I fantasize and bless all of you that contribute to these discussions.
 
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