If there are, if you are one of them and you would like to experiment with orgasm control I'd be delighted to pick up the reigns and whip you into a frenzy of expectation. Smart, creative guy, UK based, somewhere between Adonis and Quasimodo, in his 50's here, trying to find a woman who doesn't mind putting some effort into teasing herself if that builds her up to heart stopping climax. I'm no dom but if you are into other things, humiliation, pain, dress control, that sort of thing, I'm quite inventive and will do my best to incorporate your little pleasures. All I seek in return is a good written description of your trials, tribulations and eventual joys or, if you've no gift for literature, supply a nice picture or two and that you actually carry out the tasks and don't just role-play.