Are there any real submissives out there?

[stevemike08066]

I've been trying for far too long.....

I'm a 34/m/nj, I'm looking for a sub female between the ages of 25-40, I'm willing to take it as slow or as fast as you'd like, but, you must be willing to write/call everyday........

Please be advised: This is NOT a game to me

I'm getting truly fed up with the so called "submissives" on here that try to make me jump through hoops just to get the slightest bit of attention from them.......

Once again: This is NOT a game to me.....

34/m/nj, seeking sub female 25-40, can take it as slow or as fast as you're comfortable with, but, must be able to write/call on a daily basis.....

If interested, please pm me, but, be prepared for a response

 

[niv78]

They're out there, but it takes trust to have a true bdsm relationship atleast in my opinion it does. So when you talk about jumping through hoops it is probably just the women trying to build trust with you. Especially if you're trying to do something long distance/internet. With some patience you'll find a lady with the same style/schedule as you, able to do something each day, but sometimes people just are to busy to do something everyday. Keep looking though!

 

[quietwoman187]

Niv is right. When I first joined lit, I wanted more daily interactions, but I don't require/desire that as much now. Also, you'll probably have to wade through a lot of people. While I enjoy being directed, I wouldn't describe myself as a true, real submissive. However, I do wish you well and encourage you to interact with those who catch your fancy or you see on the boards (in addition to those who contact you). Hopefully, you'll eventually come to a mutually satisfactory arrangement. Do remember that people have their own schedules in the r/w and lit can serve as just a transient stage. While I hope you'll find someone that you'll have a long-term interaction with, don't get discouraged if that doesn't happen. Just keep trying. Hopefully, you'll accumulate a large enough contact base, just in case someone disappears. However, I wish you the best of luck in your search