Are there any non-horny men on Lit?

[RomanticErotic]

I know that sounds ridiculous but sometimes I just need a friend to help me through the bumps in life’s road... I do get horny and I do have a kinky, perverted mind, but I’m not there at the moment and probably won’t be there tomorrow. Life is really crapping on me right now. I would love to find a nice, intelligent, sexy man on Lit (ages 35-55) who understands that true intimacy evolves from being friends first.

I’m depressed and going to sleep. Will check my inbox in the morning... nite...

 

[hotoldrguy]

I am horny off and on myself but I am above your age range. As soon as you reach 100 posts you will be able to post an AV and profile PIC.

Good luck I hope you find someone that is right for you

 

[RSHornyCouple]

37 y/o married male, willing to talk about whatever.

 

[strong_daddy]

I could pose a question asking if there are any intelligent and available women who are able to manage the behavior and emotions like an adult...


but I already know the answer

 

[KrazieKat69]

Pm sent!

 

[Ironfan]

Just dropped you a quick PM

 

[Hatsjikkiedee]

Like someone said before, I too am horny on and off. Not even men are horny all the time . I'm from a different continent then you, but I'm still up for talking and learning from each other. Btw, I'm 33 years old, male and living in the Netherlands. PM me if you are interested.

 

[StarGazer58]

I hope that there are not too many people here of both sexes that don't get horny. Kind of the wrong site to come to if you are not a sexual person. That said, I am sure most can control themselves to have both sexual and non-sexual conversations.

 

[ATLfoto]

Not meaning to be a wise-a$$, but why would non-horny men be here in the first place?

 

[LadyJS]

Not meaning to be a wise-a$$, but why would non-horny men be here in the first place?

I'm sure that there aren't many (any?) non-horny men on Lit, but I'm sure there have to be some who aren't thinking 24/7 with their little head. Or guys that won't lose interest in a woman on Lit when they find out that sex isn't necessarily the currently predominant thing on her mind. Nothing wrong with the OP asking.

Non horny men? Yeah, they're over there with Santa Claus, watching the unicorn herd...lol...jk

You'll never know what you'll find out there

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[Trojanhunter007]

Always up for a chat

Male 42 married UK always up for a friendly chat.

 

[StarGazer58]

I Wonder if she found her chat friend? I am sure she got inundated with PMs so probably still filtering through them.

 

[gcoop3]

I would agree that if you are searching for non horny people this is not the site. Now if you are searching for men that are interested in more than a quick cyber fuck, you may find that.

I for one have made many connections here at lit over the years. Some of the people I met here were very short lived relationships. Others became friends. While we never met in person in most cases, there was an intimacy and trust built over time that rivaled some of my rl friendships.

So if you are looking for a friend you might find that here, but they will be horny at least sometimes

 

[summerose]

Well the space santa nyan unicorn made my day anyway.

I've made some lovely friends on lit... where's the fun in friends who aren't pervs

 

[Parmajack]

Nobody is Static

You can be politely horny, and not be a perv. Aren't we all a tad horny from time to time . Parmajack

 

[Bigspurt]

Non horny men is an oxymoron. Unless he is dead.

 

[Mei5ter]

I wouldn’t presume to speak for the OP, who in any case has already explained herself very clearly.

Unfortunately, this being an erotic website, there seem to be men who think that sending a photo of their genitalia counts as a sophisticated and acceptable form of introduction. Or, equally drearily, that a woman has posted here so she can have the opportunity to send him photos and messages while he sits in a darkened room masturbating.

It would be lovely to think that lots of men are already restoring the OPs faith that many of us are better than that...

 

[Pawleys16]

I know that sounds ridiculous but sometimes I just need a friend to help me through the bumps in life’s road... I do get horny and I do have a kinky, perverted mind, but I’m not there at the moment and probably won’t be there tomorrow. Life is really crapping on me right now. I would love to find a nice, intelligent, sexy man on Lit (ages 35-55) who understands that true intimacy evolves from being friends first.

I’m depressed and going to sleep. Will check my inbox in the morning... nite...

By definition - on Lit there will be only a few candidates. Above your age range, so I am out but you might find a few that are stimulated by thoughtful conversation - I have been in the past.

 

[Beardenketrick]

Please...

Don't be ridiculous. This is a SEX site. Sexual literature and sexual chat and sexual everything! Why don't you try one of the million other places online you can get your "clean" chat? Leave this place to those who like sex and want to talk about it. Yes, gasp! Even us terrible, nasty, wrong minded horny men! "Methinks thou doth protest too much". There, have you gotten enough attention from us terrible horny men?

 

[Bjerget]

I've found some pretty amazing friends here - all genders who are not only interested in the sexy times. It's not hard to root through who is just interested in a one time event, from those who want more. It just takes a little time and a lot of effort, but it is worth it in the long run.

I hope you find someone to talk to, not only about your depression, but also about whatever good things you have in your life. It's important to keep reminding yourself that those do exist, especially when you're in the middle of the black. It's a thing that will pull you back out. And when you're out, you can work on keeping yourself out. That will bring back your physical appetite for certain.

Shoot me a message anytime but be aware, I am not a dude. Cheers!

 

[riverman74]

I know that sounds ridiculous but sometimes I just need a friend to help me through the bumps in life’s road... I do get horny and I do have a kinky, perverted mind, but I’m not there at the moment and probably won’t be there tomorrow. Life is really crapping on me right now. I would love to find a nice, intelligent, sexy man on Lit (ages 35-55) who understands that true intimacy evolves from being friends first.

I’m depressed and going to sleep. Will check my inbox in the morning... nite...

Your PMs are full. You can PM me if you’d like. I’d be interested in a friendly chat.