Are older women more submissive?

[txwife594]

I know that after 40 I am a lot more submissive than I was before. What experiences do y’all have?

 

[hadruprider]

In my limited experience, the opposite - some women get more confident and dominant as they get older.

 

[sunandshadow]

I'd say older women are more comfortable with what they like. So if they like being submissive, they get more forthright and obvious about it, or if they like being dominant they get more forthright and obvious about it, etc. Young adults tend to have a lot of confusion and sometimes embarrassment about their preferences, and it takes a decade or two of experience to be comfortable opening up about what you want to prospective partners.

 

[CNYCarol]

I'd say older women are more comfortable with what they like. So if they like being submissive, they get more forthright and obvious about it, or if they like being dominant they get more forthright and obvious about it, etc. Young adults tend to have a lot of confusion and sometimes embarrassment about their preferences, and it takes a decade or two of experience to be comfortable opening up about what you want to prospective partners.

You got it, I'm much more "out" than I ever dreamed of being.

 

[luckyseven]

In my limited experience, the opposite - some women get more confident and dominant as they get older.

The older my wife gets the more sex she wants. I can hardly keep up in more ways than one might think.

 

[CNYCarol]

The older my wife gets the more sex she wants. I can hardly keep up in more ways than one might think.

Send her over, I promise I can keep up with her.

 

[Dreamer110]

My wife hasn't slowed down either. But to say she's dominant would be wrong. Sometimes I wish she was.

 

[Joeknoxville]

My wife has gotten much more dominant over the years. It started right after we were “done” having children. Her feelings about my balls went from fragile baby makers to stress balls for her pleasure.

 

[LitMasterJ]

My wife told me the other day that she'd rather have me take her in any way I want without asking, which is a complete 180 from her younger days. So who knows? As long as she's willing to fuck me reverse cowgirl now and then, I won't complain.

 

[nowisthetime]

When you say older, we need to be more specific.

40 and above?

50 and above?

Over 30?

I don't really see a correlation with submissiveness and age.

Submissiveness is based on how that woman was reared, environmental factors and/or her personality temperament, that is all.

 

[Dreamer110]

When you say older, we need to be more specific.

40 and above?

50 and above?

Over 30?

I don't really see a correlation with submissiveness and age.

Submissiveness is based on how that woman was reared, environmental factors and/or her personality temperament, that is all.

Well my wife is mid fifties. She tends be submissive but not totally. Doesn't hesitate to tell me what she wants.

 

[mark_j]

I don't think they are any more submissive, just more willing and or comfortable playing the game.

 

[screwher]

My wife

In my case - yes. Mrs. Screwher is in her late 40s. She's submissive in the way that she lets the guy decide how they're going to screw. Just as long as she gets pleasured in the process.

 

[bookworm69]

In my limited experience, the opposite - some women get more confident and dominant as they get older.

That's my experience as well.... more confident, more dominant and more accommodating.

 

[Hipshot1554]

As someone else has said, getting older doesn't make you one thing or another. What does happen is that as we live longer, we learn more about who we are. Also,we are more apt to accept it, maybe relish it too.

 

[SallyIsHere]

Not really submissive

I don't feel submissive to someone else but I am more submissive to my own desires that I restrained more when I was very young. "Use me like the naughty little fuck toy I am" has always been the way I felt at times. Now, I am more willing to say it aloud.

 

[LitMasterJ]

I don't feel submissive to someone else but I am more submissive to my own desires that I restrained more when I was very young. "Use me like the naughty little fuck toy I am" has always been the way I felt at times. Now, I am more willing to say it aloud.

Be still my heart...and cock!

 

[RoosterB]

It depends on the woman and her personality. I've been with both types. One was more take charge and the other was more easy going. In the sense of she was very easy and kind of just went along with suggestions. I've never really cared for the terms submissive and dominant. They just bug the hell out of me for some reason.

 

[A_Son_Jay]

A lady that I see is in her 40's and she is very, very submissive and I take full control whilst with her. It's something shes revealed coincided both with age and her meeting me. Like previous posters have mentioned, it's a case of women being at peace with who they are as they get older and not holding back like in their younger days.

 

[ssremember129]

I don't feel submissive to someone else but I am more submissive to my own desires that I restrained more when I was very young. "Use me like the naughty little fuck toy I am" has always been the way I felt at times. Now, I am more willing to say it aloud.

I think it is a personal choice as most have said on here. I also believe, and I'm in my 50's, that women are more sure of what they want, who they are, how they enjoy sex, and without the mind games--mature women have the best attitudes, outlook and challenge their partners.

So if they want to be submissive or assertive. Mature women just know who they are and are perfectly fine with that. Give me a mature women over a trophy wife any day!

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Only if she wants to be. My experience is that older women know what they want and go out and get it. If submission is what turns her on, then sure. If not, then no fucking way.

 

[sharona55]

i'm north of 60.....don't know i'd call it 'dominant/submissive', it's just i know what i want, what i like and....where in my younger days i may have been a bit more apprehensive to ask...now i don't really give a shit...lol!...i want what i want!

 

[Adrraiya]

Doesn't seem like many woman have responded. I am just north of 50. I am no more or less dominant or submissive than I was in my 20s. I mean really..... That kind of thing is based on mood not age similar to deciding if I want to drink tea or lemonade.

I am a whole lot more patient. In my 20s I think of sex and you better fucking find a way to do me right this second (rather demanding). Had to figure out how to tame the beast. These days I actually enjoy being on simmer for a little while.

 

[luckyseven]

I don't think it is submissive but more a case of being more open and relaxed in knowing what and how she wants her sexual needs met. In my wife's case, she knows what she wants as opposed her younger days she may have been a bit more apprehensive to ask. Now she doesn't really give a shit and will get fucked how she wants it and by who she wants to fuck her.

 

[Erlikkhan]

Older women have less hangups about sex. They are more willing to experiment, at least in my experience. They know what they want so there are not as many games in the flirting and courtship phase. Fucking on a first date is not uncommon. I'm speaking primarily about women over 50.