Are my wife’s recent porn searches telling me something?

[slightlysubhub]

Or am I reading too much into this? Let me preface by saying that my wife is very sexually open with herself and me as well. We’re both very comfortable with eachothers’ sexuality. She identifies as bisexual and prefers woman predominately.
We share an iPad at home so I’m able to see the porn she’s been watching,the stuff that she doesn’t necessarily watch with me. We both watch porn together and have our favorite genres and actors so we have that really fun aspect to relate to eachother with. However she’s been watching a few categories that she has yet to share.
Upon seeing her search history I saw plenty of fun,arrousing and erotic themes among those were cuckolding,public female masturbation,swingers,and a few others. This has got me thinking about these lifestyles a lot more and I love it. I’m just curious and would like everyone’s opinions before I discuss with her if you all think these newfound interests mean a potential interest in trying these out in reality or is it simply fantasy?
I’d love to hear a few takes on it and your experiences as well…

 

[anchortown_m]

Or am I reading too much into this? Let me preface by saying that my wife is very sexually open with herself and me as well. We’re both very comfortable with eachothers’ sexuality. She identifies as bisexual and prefers woman predominately.
We share an iPad at home so I’m able to see the porn she’s been watching,the stuff that she doesn’t necessarily watch with me. We both watch porn together and have our favorite genres and actors so we have that really fun aspect to relate to eachother with. However she’s been watching a few categories that she has yet to share.
Upon seeing her search history I saw plenty of fun,arrousing and erotic themes among those were cuckolding,public female masturbation,swingers,and a few others. This has got me thinking about these lifestyles a lot more and I love it. I’m just curious and would like everyone’s opinions before I discuss with her if you all think these newfound interests mean a potential interest in trying these out in reality or is it simply fantasy?
I’d love to hear a few takes on it and your experiences as well…

That’s hot. I would get really turned on by what you experienced.

 

[slightlysubhub]

That’s hot. I would get really turned on by what you experienced.

I was extremely turned on and excited for what it might hold for our sex life in the near future

 

[anchortown_m]

I was extremely turned on and excited for what it might hold for our sex life in the near future

Oh hell yes. I would go crazy knowing her mind was on such sexy pursuits.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

you know your wife best and probably have an idea of how the discussion might go. i was involved in a threeway - several times over a few months - with a a couple. we'd meet in hotels convenient to them and me. it was obviously immense fun from my perspective. i got the impression the lady was the driving force in doing it. the husband was keen enough but maybe doing it because his wife wanted to.

i think your relationship needs to be rock solid because there were a couple of moments where i got the sense the husband involved in my little scene was being edged out. it was just the heat of the moment when the wife was getting really into it. i was aware she was focussed on me more than her husband, which is probably because i was 'new and different.' it went well but there was a spark of jealousy in the other guy. emotions and psychology can tangle it all up.

okay, so, there's my take.

 

[anchortown_m]

you know your wife best and probably have an idea of how the discussion might go. i was involved in a threeway - several times over a few months - with a a couple. we'd meet in hotels convenient to them and me. it was obviously immense fun from my perspective. i got the impression the lady was the driving force in doing it. the husband was keen enough but maybe doing it because his wife wanted to.

i think your relationship needs to be rock solid because there were a couple of moments where i got the sense the husband involved in my little scene was being edged out. it was just the heat of the moment when the wife was getting really into it. i was aware she was focussed on me more than her husband, which is probably because i was 'new and different.' it went well but there was a spark of jealousy in the other guy. emotions and psychology can tangle it all up.

okay, so, there's my take.

It’s something that could go badly, no doubt. Gotta have good communication and clear expectations. Still, I think it would be so hot. I want it.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

It’s something that could go badly, no doubt. Gotta have good communication and clear expectations. Still, I think it would be so hot. I want it.

oh, it's hot. i was involved with another couple where the lady decloaked from the model of suburban decorum to absolute sex freak. the guy was married and she was his bit on the side, so to speak. the lady was divorced with children. i don't know what she did for work but it was probably something professional [from her demeanor. she was very intelligent and articulate]. she went by Karen but i knew that was a fake name because the guy slipped up a couple of times. it was hot to see the [attractive] mid-40s lady [oldert han me at that time] be all prim and proper in the hotel bar when we met just shift into outrageousness in the room. it was like the switch had tripped. absolutely awesome experience.

anyway, it was only the one time but wow, she was so hot and excited for two men. she loved the fact that she could get fucked [all night]. if one of us was close to losing it, the other took over. it was all a mix up with her wanting us simultaneously or with one of us watching. she was the unicorn because she loved being told what a dirty slut she was, etc. while she was getting it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

you know your wife best and probably have an idea of how the discussion might go. i was involved in a threeway - several times over a few months - with a a couple. we'd meet in hotels convenient to them and me. it was obviously immense fun from my perspective. i got the impression the lady was the driving force in doing it. the husband was keen enough but maybe doing it because his wife wanted to.

i think your relationship needs to be rock solid because there were a couple of moments where i got the sense the husband involved in my little scene was being edged out. it was just the heat of the moment when the wife was getting really into it. i was aware she was focussed on me more than her husband, which is probably because i was 'new and different.' it went well but there was a spark of jealousy in the other guy. emotions and psychology can tangle it all up.

okay, so, there's my take.

Thank you for that,yes our relationship is definitely rock solid. I think the reason why she ends up watching so much threesome,lesbian and cuck porn is because we’ve established early on that jealousy is not much of a factor in our relationship whatsoever. I really do think that it’s one of the reasons why she loves that type of porn and we’ve been married ten years years in June so it’s almost like her knowing that number of years has made her more comfortable to start watching these scenarios and possibly engaging in some of that lifestyle.
I’ve seen my wife with a few women early on in our dating life,usually at house parties with a few others around. She would get very physical with them and on a few occasions end up in the bedroom with them. I witnessed most of these experiences first hand,I chalk it up to her being younger,drunk and in the party atmosphere since she hasn’t really done that much since we’ve been married but she talks about it fondly.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I wouldn’t read too much into it. It could be she was just hitting thumbnails and got carried away down the pornhub rabbit hole. It could be she IS interested in those things and went to search them out. It could be she wants it to be a fantasy and just forgot to delete her history, and you weren’t supposed to be privy to it. She could have left them there knowing you’d be snooping around and left you crumb Trail.

As an above poster said, you know her the best. You said you’re rock solid. I’d either come right out and ask about it, during a playful mood, and just be honest. You could drop a hint about just one of the things, don’t even let on you saw the search history.

Either way, looks like you may in for some fun times ahead. We’re all pulling for you! Give us an update as a lot of us live vicariously through this site!

 

[slightlysubhub]

I wouldn’t read too much into it. It could be she was just hitting thumbnails and got carried away down the pornhub rabbit hole. It could be she IS interested in those things and went to search them out. It could be she wants it to be a fantasy and just forgot to delete her history, and you weren’t supposed to be privy to it. She could have left them there knowing you’d be snooping around and left you crumb Trail.

As an above poster said, you know her the best. You said you’re rock solid. I’d either come right out and ask about it, during a playful mood, and just be honest. You could drop a hint about just one of the things, don’t even let on you saw the search history.

Either way, looks like you may in for some fun times ahead. We’re all pulling for you! Give us an update as a lot of us live vicariously through this site!

Most of the videos showed that she was searching specifically for those categories. Also these are videos that come up very often in her search history which is reassuring that this is right up her alley. She usually never clears her search history so I know she’s ok probably fine with me seeing.
I’ll probably bring up some of those videos when we both watch porn together.

 

[Poetryinmotionxo]

Not necessarily. I watch lesbian porn but women just don’t for it for me in person. If you haven’t got a cock im not interested. I just like how women eat pussy.

 

[slightlysubhub]

Not necessarily. I watch lesbian porn but women just don’t for it for me in person. If you haven’t got a cock im not interested. I just like how women eat pussy.

Ah that’s an interesting point! I definitely understand how someone can be really turned on by how people have sex even if they don’t want to join in on that specific act or with that specific person. She loves watching amateur lesbian videos specifically because she likes the idea of any of those women being approachable and looking like someone she’s already been with.

 

[SmokingFap]

Or am I reading too much into this? Let me preface by saying that my wife is very sexually open with herself and me as well. We’re both very comfortable with eachothers’ sexuality. She identifies as bisexual and prefers woman predominately.
We share an iPad at home so I’m able to see the porn she’s been watching,the stuff that she doesn’t necessarily watch with me. We both watch porn together and have our favorite genres and actors so we have that really fun aspect to relate to eachother with. However she’s been watching a few categories that she has yet to share.
Upon seeing her search history I saw plenty of fun,arrousing and erotic themes among those were cuckolding,public female masturbation,swingers,and a few others. This has got me thinking about these lifestyles a lot more and I love it. I’m just curious and would like everyone’s opinions before I discuss with her if you all think these newfound interests mean a potential interest in trying these out in reality or is it simply fantasy?
I’d love to hear a few takes on it and your experiences as well…

I'm not sure what the problem is here. If your wife is "sexually open" and you SHARE an iPad, why not just tell her, "Hey, I saw some of the stuff you've been watching and I'm really into it too!"

 

[slightlysubhub]

I'm not sure what the problem is here. If your wife is "sexually open" and you SHARE an iPad, why not just tell her, "Hey, I saw some of the stuff you've been watching and I'm really into it too!"

Not necessarily a problem,I’m just a bit slow and not as direct with suggesting the actual sex act itself. We’re both into all sorts of fun stuff but sometimes I play it too slow and hope that she brings it up first. That’s more of my problem o suppose lol

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I would be careful about jumping to conclusions. There are porn categories I watch but which I have no interest in ever participating, and there are others that I do not find interesting to watch but I would jump at in a heartbeat if the opportunity ever arose. Porn viewing and sexual interest are not the same. Also, my porn viewing categories change all the time. My sexual interests, not so much.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I would be careful about jumping to conclusions. There are porn categories I watch but which I have no interest in ever participating, and there are others that I do not find interesting to watch but I would jump at in a heartbeat if the opportunity ever arose. Porn viewing and sexual interest are not the same. Also, my porn viewing categories change all the time. My sexual interests, not so much.

Of course, yeah I try not to go overboard with what I think will be our next way to explore sexually together. We love trying new things even if it’s just as simple as a new toy in bed. We both don’t really have an overly eclectic selection of porn and I wouldn’t say it’s changed too much. We’re relatively vanilla with our kinks but hold pretty strong to them. That’s probably the only reason why I’m even considering her recent slight changes in taste as something she would want to try in real life.

 

[policywank]

I explore all kinds of things out of simple curiosity. And I don't think you can really understand something without giving it more than a cursory glance. Just because I take the time to understand it doesn't mean it appeals to me or that I want to do it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I explore all kinds of things out of simple curiosity. And I don't think you can really understand something without giving it more than a cursory glance. Just because I take the time to understand it doesn't mean it appeals to me or that I want to do it.

Of course, she has several kinks,interests and curiosities of all sorts. Having been with her for the past twelve years I try to understand her as best I can when it comes to what she’s into or wiling to try. She is a very willing partner and I adore that about her,obviously talking to her soon just to get a feel for all of this is what I need to but I like to pick others’ brains on the situation

 

[SmokingFap]

Of course, she has several kinks,interests and curiosities of all sorts. Having been with her for the past twelve years I try to understand her as best I can when it comes to what she’s into or wiling to try. She is a very willing partner and I adore that about her,obviously talking to her soon just to get a feel for all of this is what I need to but I like to pick others’ brains on the situation

Even if neither one of you would actually seriously consider acting out the situations that she's been watching, it could lead to you just watching them and masturbating together, which might be just as fun!

 

[slightlysubhub]

Even if neither one of you would actually seriously consider acting out the situations that she's been watching, it could lead to you just watching them and masturbating together, which might be just as fun!

Exactly!! We love to watch porn together and masturbate! Usually she likes to watch lesbian videos with me,ones with a lot of kissing and very sensual touching.

 

[SmokingFap]

After a few drinks and watching her lesbian porn and masturbating together, why not just say, "Hey, honey. I saw some of the cuckhold and swinger stuff you've been watching. Could I see a couple of your favorite vids? I think I might like them, too." For all you know, she might not be sharing them with you because she thinks YOU might be offended by them! Then if you start watching them together, you could say something like, "God, honey, that's totally hot! Can you even imagine US doing something like that?" Her response would be the end of your questions, one way or the other...

 

[slightlysubhub]

After a few drinks and watching her lesbian porn and masturbating together, why not just say, "Hey, honey. I saw some of the cuckhold and swinger stuff you've been watching. Could I see a couple of your favorite vids? I think I might like them, too." For all you know, she might not be sharing them with you because she thinks YOU might be offended by them! Then if you start watching them together, you could say something like, "God, honey, that's totally hot! Can you even imagine US doing something like that?" Her response would be the end of your questions, one way or the other...

I did grow up in a slightly conservative/Christian household but as long as I can remember I’ve been extremely sexual in many respects. My interests,fantasies,daydreaming all revolved around sex. I started watching very early so when we first met we both bonded over our similarities in sexual interests. She does go back to the fact that I didn’t have much actual sexual experiences going into our relationship so sue thought a lot of things would offend me or at least weird me out. It’s taken awhile to convince her how much I’m into all sorts of kinks. Watching porn together has helped us communicate and bond.

 

[CuckGuy89]

I would love if I saw my gf's search history and she was searching hotwife/cuck porn. Doesn't mean it's her fantasy, but if she searched it, she's definitely curious

 

[Diann_Mom]

If your sex life is what you say it is talk with her about it, maybe even pull up one she has watched and both of you watch and discuss it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I would love if I saw my gf's search history and she was searching hotwife/cuck porn. Doesn't mean it's her fantasy, but if she searched it, she's definitely curious

My wife is very curious if quite a bit of kinks and I love that about her,we’re very similar in our taste,anything new either of us has searched usually falls in line with the progression of our sex life or interests in general.