Are most girls in BDSM Bisexual????

SubKekiLee

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I was having a discussion with a friend about being Bi-Sexual and it seems in the BDSM world more girls are Bisexual than in the Nilla world whats your opinions on it?????
 
I'm Bi-Sexual, but I think in what you're talking about I believe it has more to do with people being more open about it.
 
HornyBabe1965 said:
I'm Bi-Sexual, but I think in what you're talking about I believe it has more to do with people being more open about it.
That could be. You know, we are the "odd ducks" *insert rolling eyes smiley here*

I've only had one experience with it, so I don't think I really qualify as bisexual. Not that I wouldn't want to do it again, just don't think it will happen in this lifetime.
 
I'm bi-sexual. I don't think it has anything to do with my interest in BDSM.

I would be willing to agree with hb in that it is possible that those who are in BDSM are more open about who they are sexually in all areas compared to the general population.
 
I'm not really bi, but I do enjoy playing with women in a 3some type of arrangemt.
 
I think you will find a somewhat higher percentage of bi-sexual women AND men in the BDSM community.

Why?

Because #1, we are in the "kinky end" of the swimming pool already.
#2, being in the kinky end we are more tolerant of "not mainstream sexuality"
#3, it's easier to be "out" when there are more "out" people around you. The more bi's you see, the more readily you will admit it, creating more bi people for others to see and get comfortable with outting themselves, making more visible bi people... etc.
 
Evil_Geoff said:
I think you will find a somewhat higher percentage of bi-sexual women AND men in the BDSM community.

Why?

Because #1, we are in the "kinky end" of the swimming pool already.
#2, being in the kinky end we are more tolerant of "not mainstream sexuality"
#3, it's easier to be "out" when there are more "out" people around you. The more bi's you see, the more readily you will admit it, creating more bi people for others to see and get comfortable with outting themselves, making more visible bi people... etc.


Yeah basically what I said. I do think it has more to do with tolerance of it. BDSM folks are more tolerant of a lot more than even Homosexuals are.
 
Daddy2mylilgirl said:
All chicks are bi. Most just don't know it yet. ;) :D

Um, I'm not bi. I'm not bi curious. I don't even use women for sex. I'm straight. Rare in this lifestyle, but it does happen. You don't see people telling the dominants that they're actually bi, the just dont' know it yet.
 
i was bi long before i ever labeled myself as kinky. (Though the first time i experienced "kink" was with my first girlfriend.)

For all those that are bi, do you have a preference? For sex? For D/s?

i don't necessarily have a preference for sex, but it would be almost impossible for me to submit to a woman. i tend to "top" other women.
 
Daddy2mylilgirl said:
All chicks are bi. Most just don't know it yet. ;) :D
Y'know... as a queer woman, this phrase just fucking bites my ass.

All Daddies are really just little sissies, easily topped by any strong-willed woman... they just don't know it yet.


How's that sound to you?

*glare*
 
HottieMama said:
i was bi long before i ever labeled myself as kinky. (Though the first time i experienced "kink" was with my first girlfriend.)

For all those that are bi, do you have a preference? For sex? For D/s?

i don't necessarily have a preference for sex, but it would be almost impossible for me to submit to a woman. i tend to "top" other women.
I have no preference for sex... but I have some difficulty with submitting to women... no woman has yet inspired it. It could happen, it just hasn't yet.
 
alexanna said:
I knew it!!

It's true, all females are bi to some extent.

It's natural, the same way everyone likes girl/girl porn but not boy/boy porn.
 
LittleJade said:
I have no preference for sex... but I have some difficulty with submitting to women... no woman has yet inspired it. It could happen, it just hasn't yet.


i love your new AV. You're SO pretty!
 
HottieMama said:
i was bi long before i ever labeled myself as kinky. (Though the first time i experienced "kink" was with my first girlfriend.)

For all those that are bi, do you have a preference? For sex? For D/s?

i don't necessarily have a preference for sex, but it would be almost impossible for me to submit to a woman. i tend to "top" other women.


I dont have a preference with sex but as for submitting.. Ive only submitted to ONE woman once before and it wasnt what I thought it would be so I would prolly say Id be a top for that .. l)
 
HottieMama said:
i was bi long before i ever labeled myself as kinky. (Though the first time i experienced "kink" was with my first girlfriend.)

For all those that are bi, do you have a preference? For sex? For D/s?

i don't necessarily have a preference for sex, but it would be almost impossible for me to submit to a woman. i tend to "top" other women.

I feel exactly the same. Except that I think the reason that I top other women is that I have a hang up from childhood with my mother being such an overwhelming bitch. I top women to keep myself from being trampled by them. If I ever felt like a woman earned the respect that I give my Dom I think I could submit to her.
 
Jeez

I was JOKING people!

Next time I'll make sure the Make Joke Apparent box is checked in my User CP before I post a joke. :)
 
Betticus said:
It's true, all females are bi to some extent.

It's natural, the same way everyone likes girl/girl porn but not boy/boy porn.

Wouldn't it be just as natural then for all men to be bi and just not know it?
I swear I know a lot more men who want me to stick my finger in their ass than I know women who want me to go down on them. Just sayin'
 
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