Are men stupid?

CharleyH

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Why do men (not gay men, of course) so totally not understand women?
Question: What do you men know about women?

2nd Question and for women? What do men NOT know about you?
 
Well, if you understood men, would you be asking that question? :D
 
Ah! Generalisations.

The experienced man knows when to give chocolate.
 
Actually, it's not a matter of understanding. You're confusing that with the subtle art of pretending to care, which we are quite skilled at. They even make us take classes when we're younger (what do you think really happens in Cub Scouts meetings?).
 
cloudy said:
...and when not to get his hand too close, too. ;)

Too close to the chocolate? Mm.

I always say no when offered, more for her.



I've always been curious about my favourite American Indian. What does she really look like? *taps fingers*
 
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I'm a woman and I don't understand women.

It all depends on the people involved, obviously.
 
Liar said:
Well, if you understood men, would you be asking that question? :D
I have known enough men to say many (not all) are stupid. Not ones I dated (sort of), just friends I know. Why are men stupid? Why are they so damned dumb?
 
It's a shocking and sad but undeniable fact that half of all men fall below the median in male intelligence levels. :(
 
CharleyH said:
I have known enough men to say many (not all) are stupid. Not ones I dated (sort of), just friends I know. Why are men stupid? Why are they so damned dumb?
Dumb. Maybe, maybe not.

It's more of a priority thing to most men. work (job), entertainment (from beer to sex here), family (if they have one), back to work. The loop never ends and anything outside the loop takes to much energy. Seeming stupid or dumb solves a lot of problems.... ;) :D

On a more serious note.

Mens understanding of women is exactly what women want it to be. True or false.
 
Roxanne Appleby said:
It's a shocking and sad but undeniable fact that half of all men fall below the median in male intelligence levels. :(

A somewhat good assessment. How do they scale in sex relations?
 
Roxanne Appleby said:
It's a shocking and sad but undeniable fact that half of all men fall below the median in male intelligence levels. :(

POTW! (post of the week)

laughing so hard my stomach hurts!

Great one Roxanne! now I am just waiting for some male to argue this... :p
 
CharleyH said:
I have known enough men to say many (not all) are stupid. Not ones I dated (sort of), just friends I know. Why are men stupid? Why are they so damned dumb?

I've met a fair share of stupid women, too.
 
impressive said:
I've met a fair share of stupid women, too.
:D I knew I loved you for a reason..... If I'd have said that I'd be hanging by my dangly bits about now.....

The reason I stopped dating..... women with more head problems than me..... Now there's a truth for ya....
 
Roxanne Appleby said:
It's a shocking and sad but undeniable fact that half of all men fall below the median in male intelligence levels. :(
Thread over. Rox won.



And on a serious note: Charley, you have either a very peculiar history of social encounters, or you are making the classic mistake of equalling "not thinking like me" with "dumb".
 
CharleyH said:
I have known enough men to say many (not all) are stupid. Not ones I dated (sort of), just friends I know. Why are men stupid? Why are they so damned dumb?

That is very much a generality. Granted, some men are idiots, but others are geniuses. The same can be said about women. On the average, I don't think there is much difference in intelligence between men and women.

However, if you mean to ask why men don't understand women, the answer is simple. Women are hard to understand. They will often say one thing and mean quite another. A good exam;ple is this post. In the opening post on this thread, you asked why men don't understand women. Now you are just asking why men are so stupid. :confused: Do you still mean the first thing you asked and, if so why don't you just say that.

Men lie to women too, of course, and say things they don't mean, but the reason for that is simple. They want to get into her pants, and are saying things they think she wants to hear, in hopes it will help in that endeavor. :nana:
 
Roxanne Appleby said:
It's a shocking and sad but undeniable fact that half of all men fall below the median in male intelligence levels. :(

An exception to this, however, is at Lake Woebegone. :cool:
 
I'm still trying to understand either one of my cats--and they're both neutered.
 
Liar said:
Well, if you understood men, would you be asking that question? :D

Beautiful.

If we are humans together - if that means anything, and if we have any respect, affection, or decent feeling toward each other - then we seek to understand each other.

Might we also give up that tired old saw about husbands being "trained" by their wives? How one can fail to see that as degrading to both sexes, I cannot imagine.
 
sr71plt said:
I'm still trying to understand either one of my cats--and they're both neutered.
Good luck with that..... :rolleyes:

The only thing on earth more mystifying than women are cats....
 
BlackShanglan said:
Beautiful.

If we are humans together - if that means anything, and if we have any respect, affection, or decent feeling toward each other - then we seek to understand each other.

Might we also give up that tired old saw about husbands being "trained" by their wives? How one can fail to see that as degrading to both sexes, I cannot imagine.

This is true, but we should also try to avoid being hard to understand. In other words, say what you mean and mean what you say. :)
 
Boxlicker101 said:
An exception to this, however, is at Lake Woebegone. :cool:

You have made the classic mistake of thinking that good-looking men are intelligent.

"Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average."

They are all female children of course ;)
 
Noor said:
You have made the classic mistake of thinking that good-looking men are intelligent.

"Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average."

They are all female children of course ;)

No, I mean that when the children grow up, male or female, they continue to be above average.
 
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