Are bisexual men kinkier then most

[ncbiwildguy]

So I am wondering how many of the bisexual men find that they are kinkier then most, either in what you fantasize about or what you do sexually?

I find that being bi that i am open to kinkier things and have some really kinkyfantasies. How about you?

 

[hoodooman]

yep

i've always had a thread of kink....when i was a kid i looked innocent but somehow the girls felt safe telling me their fantasy's...so i learned from them...

but i pretty much like all races of people, all ethnic foods and many kinks.....

from Footlight Parade, "there's any time Annie, she only said no once in her life and then she changed her mind"

so just slap my ass and call me annie

 

[kingkhan1]

For me no except for the fact that I am bi I am not that kinky. Then again I am very inexperienced sexually so just regular plain old sex would satisfy me for now.

 

[thighhiman]

So I am wondering how many of the bisexual men find that they are kinkier then most, either in what you fantasize about or what you do sexually?

I find that being bi that i am open to kinkier things and have some really kinkyfantasies. How about you?

I think I am. Your fantasies are not just Big tits,Blonds,Long legs.......
They have a whole other half of the human race ,more if you consider shemales..
You are not afraid of cum.(safe sex people) Yours or someone elses.
You may be in touch with your ass, and using it for gratification.
You may like to crossdress,which leaves open many possibilitys.
Add a few toys, lube, some rope and you have one of a fun .

 

[JHarrison01]

I'm never sure what people mean by kink. Some would consider sex with a member of the same sex kinky.

Beyond that, it appears there are a lot of bisexual men interested in women's lingerie, strap-ons, and submissive/domination relationships.

If we are talking orgies. watersports and some other rather bizarre forms of sex, then I don't think bisexual men are any different than straight men.

 

[BlowTheseDice]

I would think that being bi automatically means you're open more than most, by simple definition. I would think it means you're open to backdoor action, and sucking. But really it means less inhibitions. Of course it does depend on what you mean by kinky. I doubt there's much correlation from bisexuality to urine/scat play, but there would be in pegging, threesomes/groups etc.

*edit* Just realized without reading JHarrison that I posted pretty much the exact same thing.

 

[pcarp]

I must agree with the last two posts.....maybe it isn't that bisexuals are kinkier (whatever that definition is) but maybe kinkier people are bisexual?? Like BTD said I think it is more a more open mindedness.

 

[groove_kid]

I must agree with the last two posts.....maybe it isn't that bisexuals are kinkier (whatever that definition is) but maybe kinkier people are bisexual?? Like BTD said I think it is more a more open mindedness.

Totally. I'd just have to agree.

 

[ncbiwildguy]

maybe that is it, kinkier people are bisexual. Never thought of it that way but it makes sense.

So what is it that makes you kinky? I think it is my willingness to try just about anything that isn't painful or scat. The idea of a roman orgy is a huge turn on as well as being the party slut for a group.

 

[JHarrison01]

maybe that is it, kinkier people are bisexual. Never thought of it that way but it makes sense.

So what is it that makes you kinky? I think it is my willingness to try just about anything that isn't painful or scat. The idea of a roman orgy is a huge turn on as well as being the party slut for a group.

But you are admittedly, "A Wild Guy" so I expect you to be kinky

Kinky to me is just another frame of mind. I've heard both straight and homosexual guys say almost exactly the same thing: I'll try just about anything that isn't painful or scat.

I think kink can originate from any part of the spectrum.

 

[orallybiguy]

Kinky vs erotic vs open minded vs experimental

Regardless of how you define, "Kinky" I firmly believe that a high proportion of males that are Bisexual are so inclined due to a higher sex drive mixed with a taste for the exotic. Hence the large proportion of bi males who crave cock but are not in the least bit feminine or attracted to men romantically.

"Erotic is using a feather, Kinky is using the whole chicken, Sad is getting a job at Butterball to find a date"!

 

[cf23430]

I am not sure if kinky is the correct word....but def more open minded than most.

 

[ncbiwildguy]

So if we are more open minded...what is your kinky.

one of my kinky fantasies is to be the toy at a party. I would serve the guest and males and females could use me as they wanted.

 

[slarsit]

Really Bi-Sexual

I get tired of people saying they are bi-sexual when all they do with people of the same sex is to have sex with them. My gay freinds not only have sex, but they hold hands, cuddle watching TV while on the couch and do pretty much the same thing as hetrosexual people.
The research has shown it is most likely everyone has the potential to participate in sex with same sex people, but does not mean or even indicate they are homosexual.
I don't care who does the pitching or the catching. It feels good regardless of who is doing it. We don't have a label for those people who just love having sex with all kinds of different people.

 

[rbone04]

Warning! Philosopical banter ahead...

I get tired of people saying they are bi-sexual when all they do with people of the same sex is to have sex with them. My gay freinds not only have sex, but they hold hands, cuddle watching TV while on the couch and do pretty much the same thing as hetrosexual people.
The research has shown it is most likely everyone has the potential to participate in sex with same sex people, but does not mean or even indicate they are homosexual.
I don't care who does the pitching or the catching. It feels good regardless of who is doing it. We don't have a label for those people who just love having sex with all kinds of different people.

True, the concept of bisexuality is vulnerable to subjective interpretation. And I love the fact you've brought research into this, because Alfred Kinsey has proven (and his institute continues to prove) that we are all capable of same-sex desires... to what extent is the only variable. Therefore, it isn't as simple as using the term bisexual to infer an individual is "sometimes heterosexual and sometimes homosexual"; rather the concept of it creates a gray area encompassing the entire realm of those who have chosen to participate in sexual activity with both genders.

When couples - gay or straight - "hold hands, [and] cuddle watching TV while on the couch..." they are engaging in acts of intimacy that are expressions of an emotional sentiment towards one another that may or may not be strong enough to be a result of love, and further accompanied by sexual relations. The thought that they "...do pretty much the same thing as heterosexual people" implies that emotional and sexual gratification are inclusive. I beg to differ...

People are quite capable of emotionless sex, regardless of whether it is with men or women. I think it is easier to have sex without love than to have love without sex, but either way the two are quite exclusive. I choose to have sex with men and women because of pure, simple, physical pleasure. I choose to love women because they provide an emotional atonement that I am not (or at least have yet to be) capable of accepting from a man. With regards to "labeling", I am forced to undoubtedly consider myself bisexual; so if you insist the word bisexual is simply a label - as the dictionary suggests it is - bisexuality is just that... sexual activity, or sexual attraction to, members of both sexes.

Bisexual is defined as... noun. a person sexually responsive to both sexes, ambisexual. As absolute as it may sound, this definition only accomplishes damning the word "bisexual" to, in fact, nothing more than a label. It fails to consider that the word bisexual, as we are discussing it here, is impossible to generalize. It is merely an abstract concept.

Alfred Kinsey's life was dedicated to developing a scale illustrating that the extent to which same-sex sexual behavior is considered varies so widely from one individual to the next, that the two extremes on his scale are considered to be (1) pure heterosexuality with absolutely no sexual attraction to the same sex, and (2) and pure homosexuality with absolutely no sexual attraction to the opposite sex. The person with equal sexual attraction to both sexes (pure bisexuality... as it were) falls right smack in the middle. Simply, statistics from his surveys show that most of us fall somewhere in between. Because of this, there is no way to label a bisexual; we can only accept that some of us are more bisexual than others. I digress...

Kinkiness to me, should be viewed just as bisexuality as I described it before. All people are capable of "kinky" desires; to what extent they desire and follow through with it is the only variable. Therefore the question of "what is kinky?" is completely open to interpretation. A happily married couple who saved themselves until marriage may think sucking each other's toes is kinky, while the gay couple next door engaging in anal fisting proceeds with an attitude of normalcy that would make some of the most seasoned porno stars blush.

Kinky, as implied by this discussion, is defined as slang terminology... adj. Marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behavior, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.

Unlike that of the word bisexual, this definition at least begins to suggest the subjective nature of the word kinky. There are too many open-ended questions. What are unconventional sexual preferences or behavior? They begin by implying "fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like" as such, but what about the "...or the like" part? What is like fetishism and sadomasochism? Furthermore, who decided that these were unconventional sexual practices?

Another dictionary entry describes kinky as: adj. (used of sexual behavior) showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes; "kinky sex"; "perverted practices". Again, who decides what is bizarre, and from what "tastes" are kinky behaviors deviating from? Is the vanilla married couple who decided to "get a little kinky" and suck some toes no engaging in "perverted practices"?! Kinky sex as part of the definition of kinky?! So we gather that kinky sex is kinky? Thanks for the help dictionary.com. Thus, in my opinion, this too is a conceptual phenomenon; but of such indefinite proportions that I'm afraid poor Kinsey's methodology would be useless in trying to illustrate its implications. One cannot define the least and most kinky behaviors out there.

While the straightest of the straight and the gayest of the gay individuals are theoretically out there, there's a lot in between. And when the kinkiest behavior fathomable for any human to engage in has been absolutely, without a doubt agreed upon by everyone and the concept of kink can be scientifically studied... only then can the question of "who is kinkier?" be asked.

Unfortunately, society as an entity cannot comprehend such abstract ideas and must define the word kinky just as it does bisexuality with absolute language, despite the fact that any such language would fall short of explaining its true meaning. Therefore, I will spare you anymore painful jabbering and say simply this in response to the original question:

If you define bisexuality as kinky behavior, then the question has answered itself. Bisexuals are kinkier than "non-bisexuals". If you do not think bisexuality is kinky, then then I will find you a straight person who gets pleasure from things that 99.9% of those calling themselves bisexual would get nauseous just thinking about.

 

[A_Kefka]

I'd say if you are interested in both at all then you are bisexual. Now there is a whole range of behavior that fits into that, from being mostly straight but liking to look, to being mostly gay but liking to look at women. And there's a wholelot of varying sexual activities in between those. If its holding hands and doing romantic stuff that defines it, then I've met guys who wouldn't be considered gay or straight.