Anyone want a mature chat about porn & solo sex?

[Biorgium]

Ho folks, I'm new to these forums.

I'm an over-40 straight (not narrow) male seeking mature/enlightened chat about porn and solo sex. I'm happy to talk to men or women.

The porn & sex-toy industries are both mega sized, yet their customers mainly keep silent & hidden. Why so? Millions of people know who Ron Jeremy & Jenna Jameson are, yet it seems very few will admit that.

This is very weird to me.

If you believe that solo sex is just as valid as any other kind, and that selectively-chosen porn can be a perfectly good accompanyment to that, I'd like to chat with you. My intentions don't go beyond online chat ; I'm happily married and am not looking for anything on the side physically speaking.

If you feel compelled to judge me, kindly spare us both that.

I think human sex should be ether solo or between equally-empowered adults. If you're intolerant or disrespectful of women, neo-feminists, GLBTs, atheists, liberals, other races & cultures, environmentalists etc, please go elsewhere. I'm not a "new-age hippie vegetarian" or anything, but I am sympathetic to the aformentioned groups.

Don't think I'm too serious, ultimately I'm just a horny older guy who thinks it's totally healthy/normal to look at porn and to cum often! To me, you can be in a loving sexual relationship with someone and still enjoy getting yourself off too. That's pretty uncomplicated isn't it?

 

[Biorgium]

Thanks to the nice folks who have already PM'd me to say Hi and chat. I think I'm gonna like it here!

 

[Biorgium]

(Since I'm ususally on here late at night, just thought I'd try bumping this up during the daylight hours in case different folks are here then)

 

[EireSexy]

There now?

Hi
Are you there at the moment?

 

[Biorgium]

Check your Message box on the top right of you screen

 

[rob35can]

sure what would you like to discuss?

 

[Biorgium]

I'll discuss anything you'd like to PM me about.

Or if you want to comment right here about anything I wrote in my intro post at top, feel free and I'll chime in.

 

[Lappdog]

Hey Bio..

I think Solo sex is great...second only to sex with someone else (of course!). I have been practicing the hobby since I was about 11 years old (Mid 40's now, do the math) and I still look forward to my "alone" time every week, as often as possible. I will play for hours and usually do not want the fun to come to an end. However, I am very secretive about my activities and my wife of 21 years has no idea. So, I guess this goes along with your observation of how silent this topic is.

One of biggest fantasies is to masturbate in front of a woman, especially if she is a stranger (I may just have to place a personal ad here!). I think that would be wickedly fun!!

Lapp

 

[Biorgium]

I will play for hours and usually do not want the fun to come to an end. However, I am very secretive about my activities and my wife of 21 years has no idea. So, I guess this goes along with your observation of how silent this topic is.

Lapp

Even people who are aware that their partner masturbates and are cool about it, might not be aware of the full *scope* of these solo activities eh? Funny how despite everything, we're still bashful about things we have no logical reason to be - me included. But I do hope to fix that situation here at home one day soon.