I guess it all depends on who you talk to. I think I am a very nice, real person, my husband on the other hand thinks differently (mostly about the nice and then only part of the time). I have the idea that he also thinks that I am some kind of sicko slut considering his reaction to most of my fantasies. Oh well! I'm not very close to Paris anyway. I am up in Germany and still haven't gotten around to driving over to Paris. Maybe someday.