Anyone find married men more appealing?

[Terotic33]

That’s interesting. Maybe you were missing the cues? Women aren’t always direct..

 

[StarGazer58]

When I was married, I traveled a lot (still do) and attended a lot of trade shows (still do) and conferences (still do) and all that time (20+ years and married for 13 of them at that time) I never had any women hit on me for being married.

It isn’t like I was inaccessible. I would be at the hotel bar or venue bar. Circulate the floor. Attend all the social functions on and off site.

I have had two pleasurable encounters with married women while on business travel. The first was at the Hard Rock Cafe in Atlanta. Just started chatting casually with the woman sitting next to me at the bar while eating dinner. She wanted to but did not feel safe walking down to Olympic park by herself so I walked with her, went to the top of the Westin for a few drinks, walked her back to the Ritz where she was staying. Had one more beer and she invited me up.
The second was at an annual work conference but it built over a couple of years. We would email occasionally throughout the year and hangout during the conferences. It was the third year that she invited me up on the last night of the conference.

 

[KyleR215]

That’s interesting. Maybe you were missing the cues? Women aren’t always direct..

Maybe. I have been called worse than cueless.

 

[StarGazer58]

I cannot say that married men are more appealing but definitely say that married women are more appealing to me. They know what they want so there are no games. It is also the forbidden fruit that adds to the passion.

 

[AussieGeek]

As an Aussie in the USA, I get "I love your accent!" from women quite frequently. I've been told that some women are flirting with me, but they all seemed to have the same degree of interest in my accent, so I doubt there's been flirting that I've missed (I'm clueless when it comes to someone flirting with me). But even when I've been on my own, no woman has ever intimated that she'd like to do more than just listen to the accent. I'd love some indication that I'm attractive to someone other than my spouse, but at least I haven't missed any opportunities. *sigh*

 

[StarGazer58]

I am certainly no expert and looking back I know I have missed some opportunities but I normally look for the non-verbal clues. Does she ever touch me, my hand, my arm, while we are talking. If we seated side by side, does she turn to face me. Does she laugh easily. Does she seem genuinely interested in our conversation or does it seem like polite small talk. Does she pull her hair back exposing her neck. If she goes to the bathroom, does it look like she has primped in some way when she gets back. Are her pupils dilated when she looks at me and just generally how she is looking at me.