Anyone else turned on by girls talking about sex in public?

[cpmike1989]

This is such a huge turn on for me. I remember I was in high school once and this girl I really dug said her throat was so sore, she felt like she has just sucked a dick. Then I was at work before and one of the girls had asked the other girls if she liked her asshole licked. She went on to say she couldn't be with a guy if they didn't lick her ass. I just love hearing girls talk about sex. I can't be the only one...?

 

[starider07]

Absolutely!!

For me there's nothing sexier than a woman so confident, so secure in her sexuality that she can speak of anything, anywhere. Including total disclosure of what she enjoys. After all, we're all adults and there certainly is nothing to be ashamed of. Sexual delight's are something we've be graced with the ability to have whenever we wish. To share, give, and receive.
So when we're out to dinner and she gives me that provocative smile and speaks about a new turn on. Maybe when we are enjoying a meal and the women behind us are sharing their most recent exciting sexual experience. Or maybe any one one of a number of other scenario's, I think about the woman speaking and wish I could converse with them. It's just to me, another form of beauty. Beyond that, it can also be very arousing.

This is my opinion, so folks, what's yours?

 

[cherylashi26]

If you're not ashamed of sex, you're not doing it right.

 

[starider07]

So funny...

If you're not ashamed of sex, you're not doing it right.

As it occurs to me that even the kinkiest things I've done, or even thought of, not one that aroused me have I been ashamed of.

 

[amofiga]

If you're not ashamed of sex, you're not doing it right.

I suppose this is an variant of the old, "Sex isn't dirty unless you're doing it right."

I like women who can converse openly and bluntly about sex without being shy about what they like, and can also listen to me about what I like without passing judgement. I don't like to judge and don't like to be judged. However, I don't like women who tend to be crude and slutty in public, just in private. I don't necessarily like hearing all the details of someone's sex life in an inappropriate place like a restaurant or coffee shop or book store, etc. Nobody loves dirty talk more than me, but keep it out of other people's ear shot. The sexiest women to me have always been those who act professional in the office, or watching the game with the other soccer mom's and dad's on Saturday morning, but had no problem in private being a filthy slut who could give any porno queen a run for her money.

 

[Edensgarden]

If you're not ashamed of sex, you're not doing it right.

As it occurs to me that even the kinkiest things I've done, or even thought of, not one that aroused me have I been ashamed of.

I think that is one of those comments you post and it sounded good when you were posting it.

I am with you about not being ashamed of what I do sexually. I know for a fact that I am doing it right. There may be occasions where I won't talk about something in public due to who I may be with at the time. This is no reflection of me being ashamed, it's called being respectful of others.

 

[gabriel16]

bump and love it

Hi

Love talking about sex in public, and a girl who loves that too.

 

[norcalkelli]

There may be occasions where I won't talk about something in public due to who I may be with at the time. This is no reflection of me being ashamed, it's called being respectful of others.

I agree.

I was in a cafe with a male friend the other day. During the conversation he asked if I had read the popular "50 Shades" book and I said no. He responded saying he didn't get the whole domination thing. I said that I do get it, but the fetish I don't get is cuckholding. He says he's somewhat familiar with the term but asks me to explain. I begin with a basic explanation of what it is (to the best of my understanding), he looks around and apparently notices that our conversation is being eavesdropped on (I soon found out it was by a young college girl), and he starts to turn 50 shades of red. LOL...He looks at me and says "maybe we should move this conversation somewhere else".

See, when we sat down, there wasn't anyone else in the section and my back was to the other seats so I didn't notice that we weren't alone anymore. I absolutely agreed we either needed to change the subject or move.

But it was quite endearing to see that he got all flustered. And yeah, a bit of a turn on.

 

[DarkBee]

Are they in public, talking about sex or are they talking about sex in public? Big difference, both hot.

 

[naughtynjmale]

I love overhearing conversations in public

about sex

something so forbidden,

taboo


appeals to my voyeuristic side

 

[Cherry_Rose]

I am the type to be candid with people I trust, friends (males in particular) are surprised by my ability to discuss sexual things with the same tone as I would use for a host of other things, to me, volume in public places is your friend, everyone knows how to control your voice (well I like to think so) so apply that ability to this topic, my aim isn't to show off or turn strangers on, its to be frank and candid about various aspects of my life, so my volume reflect that, its low, and really for the ears of the person I am speaking to only. Yes, there have been times where I have been overheard, but as Kelli indicated, its in situations where I once thought we were out of ear shot when people have sat closer to us.

It hadn't occurred to me that it would turn the listener on. Does it matter who speaking, like if its a friend, or a gf or a lover? does it change how the level in which it turns you on. Or is it all the same as long as its sexual?

 

[Shrubbery]

Can be very hot to be in a public place with someone you are/are about to sleep with and talk openly about things you've done, what makes you hot, how turned you are right now..

The best one I've had though was just with a group of friends in Wagamamas restaurant. We got talking about pegging for some reason and my friend started loudly relating this story about some guy she was fucking while traveling in Thailand who'd never tried it but wanted to, and how she went and borrowed a fat black 8 inch strap on from a prostitute and made him scream like a girl. The faces of everyone around us in the restaurant were the best thing ever. I almost wet myself laughing.

Talking about sex in public is awesome