Anybody ever miss that "one off" opportunity to fulfil a fantasy?

BJlovers

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Ever miss that opportunity that, in hindsight you realise you should have taken? That threesome that should have been? The time you walked in on the couple going at it and should have stayed instead of apologising meekly and leaving? The hot guy/girl who wanted to do nasty things to you on the dance floor of a night club but you were too chicken? Share your story here.
 
My First Missed Opportunity

I was only about 19 or 20. My GF, her friend and I had already had a couple of minor threesomes. By minor I mean they both has ended earlier than i wanted because of such things like my GF getting cold feet part way through even though it was her idea etc.

But...a month or so after our last threesome I was driving the three of us, plus my Girlfriends sister to a town about 2 hours away. Anyway, about half an hour into the drive my girlfriend announced out loud that she was going to lean over and suck my cock. This was exactly how the first threesome with her friend had started. Unfortunately, I was stupid enough to talk her out of it on the basis that her little sister was in the back seat (and only 16, legal where I'm from but still her sister). Little did I know that she was wanting to share me with her sister and her friend on this particular day and that had I let her suck my dick in the car, we soon would have been parked in a bush clad rest rest area with the three girls all working on my dick.

Stupid Me.....I did get the sister a few years later though!
 
YES. Years ago my wife and I went camping with another couple from church. We stayed up late and the conversation turned to sex. We went to our separate tents. My wife was on her side in the sleeping bag and I took her from behind. We could hear the other woman softly moaning in their tent. It would have been so fucking easy to have had a foursome that night, but we just fucked and went to sleep. I still regret passing up this easy opportunity. We haven't had one like that in many, many years.
 
For the most part, all the stories of woulda coulda shoulda, probably weren't that big of a deal.
The times I truly wanted passionate sex, or even just intimacy, and passed it up, the regret was not that I didn't fuck her, the regret was that I didn't share how I felt in the process. It would have been amazing sex, don't get me wrong, but it also would have been the start of a meaningful relationship that was passed up as well.
Those situations are the worst.
I do have to say, the two posts so far are great. I tend not to get too upset if sexual conquests are missed. First of all, it makes for long lasting fantasies afterwards. Second of all, often times the consequences of emotional confusion might not be worth it anyway. And lastly, well sometimes "getting around" too much is not the best thing.
But don't let me stop those stories from coming in! :D just putting in my two cents;)
 
A female friend suggested we go to a swingers club, but I didn't take up the offer. This happened a few years ago, so I don't remember why I turned the opportunity down :confused:

I lost touch with her shortly afterwards, so it turned out to be a "one off" opportunity.
 
I was at orientation for the latest season of my part-time gig. I got a text from a freind with benefits saying that if I was interested, both her and her room mate were craving cock. I opted to do the responsible thing and stay at the orientation. When I got back to town they said they were too tired from each other and wen to sleep.
 
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