Any women like me?

[allforfun86]

So before I go into the post I want to say that I feel the tittle is misleading and I apologize. I'm a 30 mwm and was curious if there where any women out there similar to me.

So I'm just curious, if there are women like me out there. I like sex, a lot. Like I think about it everyday and most of the day. In my free time I love to sit on Tumblr and look at what other people post or write porn, only one of which I've posted on lit.

My fantasies range from simple passionate strangers, to taboo gangbangs and much more.

I seem to have few limits and my tastes grow as I learn and discover more. I can focus and function with no problem daily, but sex always pops back up after I'm done focusing on whatever I needed to.

Now, I've met men like this, but I'm curious if any women are? Are there any women out there that think about sex nonstop and seem to have a voracious appetite for it like me and a few other men? Or do women bury it down and only let it out occasionally when that itch can no longer be ignored?

I think this post may cause some women some grief, if any answer lol, so I thought that if any wanted to post a reply, but are worried about men hounding them because of it, then just send me a message and I'll post the answer for you.

Would really appreciate any feedback from women. Thanks!

 

[CharityLynn]

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[Sheana_V]

This described me pretty well. Women tend to have lower sex drives from my experience, but it's not like it's a hard and fast rule. There are plenty of women like you.

 

[magicalmoments]

A man's opinion.

Time and space means I have had to simplify my opinion on this topic. Invariably this will offend some but I can assure you I have no desire to offend.

In western society it takes a lot of time and experiences for a woman to shake off the conditioning received as a child to be a good little girl and live the woman's "role". Some, maybe most, are never able to or at least are unable to openly make the admission made by the OP. Others find it easier.

God help us men the day that all women fully understand their full sexual capacity and start acting as men do currently!

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

For me it comes and goes. I'll have a week or two where all I can think about is sex. I'll read erotica and look at sexy pictures and post messages here on Lit and just drift along in a constant state of low-grade arousal. I'll feel sexy and flirty and fantasize about spreading my legs for any cute guy I see.

And then it will go away and I'll spend a few weeks hardly being interested in sex at all. I'll be a good girl and stop reading porn and stop masturbating in the shower. Sooner or later though, the slutty urges come creeping back ... .

 

[xhxhxh]

For me it comes and goes. I'll have a week or two where all I can think about is sex. I'll read erotica and look at sexy pictures and post messages here on Lit and just drift along in a constant state of low-grade arousal. I'll feel sexy and flirty and fantasize about spreading my legs for any cute guy I see.

And then it will go away and I'll spend a few weeks hardly being interested in sex at all. I'll be a good girl and stop reading porn and stop masturbating in the shower. Sooner or later though, the slutty urges come creeping back ... .

Let us all be thankful,for that

 

[RacyWilde]

So before I go into the post I want to say that I feel the tittle is misleading and I apologize. I'm a 30 mwm and was curious if there where any women out there similar to me.

So I'm just curious, if there are women like me out there. I like sex, a lot. Like I think about it everyday and most of the day. In my free time I love to sit on Tumblr and look at what other people post or write porn, only one of which I've posted on lit.

My fantasies range from simple passionate strangers, to taboo gangbangs and much more.

I seem to have few limits and my tastes grow as I learn and discover more. I can focus and function with no problem daily, but sex always pops back up after I'm done focusing on whatever I needed to.

Now, I've met men like this, but I'm curious if any women are? Are there any women out there that think about sex nonstop and seem to have a voracious appetite for it like me and a few other men? Or do women bury it down and only let it out occasionally when that itch can no longer be ignored?

I think this post may cause some women some grief, if any answer lol, so I thought that if any wanted to post a reply, but are worried about men hounding them because of it, then just send me a message and I'll post the answer for you.

Would really appreciate any feedback from women. Thanks!

Everyone has seasons in their life. Some cycle regularly through, whether that be yearly, monthly, weekly... Some get stuck on a season for a while, others may even skip seasons all together. But we all reach the last season eventually, some sooner than others. Winter is coming! lol.

For me, right now, I'm sexually vibrant. Sex and arousal is a part of my daily life both online and offline. I walk the talk. The reason why I am so sexual is because I choose it. Too often daily life can get in the way of my sexual self, so I actually make a conscious effort to stay 'erotically active'. You have to work at your sexuality - if you don't use it, you lose it.

Sexual desire in a woman has historically been portrayed as shameful, and I'm finding these days that the movement for women to be sexually free is shrouded in pretence - a passive aggressive way for those same old beliefs about promiscuous women to creep in. The usual is "she's so sexual because it's trendy".

Never be ashamed of your sexual desire. Celebrate it. It is a gift. It is the natural absinthe of life. Those who don't understand it, don't have it.

In fact, a commenter here wrote about how she enjoys masturbating in the shower. My immediate thought - "ooooo! I haven't masturbated today yet! Where is my vibe?!" So yes, you're damn right, after posting this I'm going to have a little fun with myself.

 

[allforfun86]

Thanks to all the replies! It's good to see and meet some women out there. I start to feel like a perv for being pretty much horny all the time and just brush it off as being a guy. It's pretty cool to see women are/can be the same way and informative.

 

[DewMee]

Since I had my inner slut unleashed about ten years ago, yeah... I find I think about having sex a lot. I'll be at work and will see a guy come in and I start thinking about having sex with him. Anyway, yeah.... I think I may be like you.

 

[Spenser41]

And I married the woman who could care less. Figures.

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

Yes we women can be like you guys, and as some have admitted in this thread already, some of us bloomed later in some ways....for me it started slowly but in the last 30 or so years hubby and I have seen it blossom at levels we didn't even fantasize about in our past.

Sure I have those stages or seasons where I think of sex daily, maybe not constantly but quite often. Even at work, that has been a career long thing, hey I'm at work, hubby's not around, other guys and women are there to dream about. I have my own office with a door, not some cubicle and my fingers can be prone to doing some walking and seem to magically end up under my skirt or inside my slacks.....or I make an unneeded trip to the ladies room. I love fingering myself as I daydream about being fucked in some public or semi-public situation.....love relating to hubby my desires like that and then working to act them out at different times and locations....yes they can get wild and tabooish at times....it's just who I am.

I'm not a model and have never been, but I am proud of my body and that there are still others both male and female who will take the time to look, especially if I'm showing something off.....love where it can go sometimes.

Hot Wife

 

[hotwifeandhubby]

Since I had my inner slut unleashed about ten years ago, yeah... I find I think about having sex a lot. I'll be at work and will see a guy come in and I start thinking about having sex with him. Anyway, yeah.... I think I may be like you.

Hmmm Dew you could be that long lost younger sister.....loved peeking at your profile....well done.

Hot Wife

 

[allforfun86]

Yes we women can be like you guys, and as some have admitted in this thread already, some of us bloomed later in some ways....for me it started slowly but in the last 30 or so years hubby and I have seen it blossom at levels we didn't even fantasize about in our past.

Sure I have those stages or seasons where I think of sex daily, maybe not constantly but quite often. Even at work, that has been a career long thing, hey I'm at work, hubby's not around, other guys and women are there to dream about. I have my own office with a door, not some cubicle and my fingers can be prone to doing some walking and seem to magically end up under my skirt or inside my slacks.....or I make an unneeded trip to the ladies room. I love fingering myself as I daydream about being fucked in some public or semi-public situation.....love relating to hubby my desires like that and then working to act them out at different times and locations....yes they can get wild and tabooish at times....it's just who I am.

I'm not a model and have never been, but I am proud of my body and that there are still others both male and female who will take the time to look, especially if I'm showing something off.....love where it can go sometimes.

Hot Wife

Simply wow very nice response lol. I've had to do that myself before, make a quick and unneeded trip to the bathroom to find relief because I just can't wait till I'm home. Always thrilling and it usually arouses me even more lol

 

[Kittyscave]

You have a very select audience here. But, yes, women as you describe, myself included, exist. Unfortunately, some of us discover this mid-life and well into long otherwise happy yet sexually unfulfilling marriages.

K

 

[SimpleGifts]

As a guy...

...I've been fortunate to meet a few women who fit that description. I think it's somewhat situational--most were in or just leaving marriages without any passion (there's a book titled "Crazy Time" discussing how the newly-divorced act out with their newfound freedom), and were late in realizing how attractive they could be to men. But they still wouldn't jump in bed with any partner...they definitely had their preferences, and wanted to be appreciated. And a few, unfortunately, chose poorly and became cynical and disillusioned quickly.

But those who discovered and reveled in sexual pleasure with the right partner were certainly a force to be reckoned with. Not all women in that situation acted that way, to be sure, but they're out there.

SG

 

[SkyLight91]

Sex is a pretty constant thought for me as well. I spend a lot of time reading stories, talking with others, and indulging in it when I can. This all being said like you said as well I function as a normal member of society and I don't believe if I was put in a lineup with people someone could pick me out and say "she is the sex addicted woman."

 

[luv2bfkd]

Oh, you’re not alone. I think of sex several times a day. It’s usually thoughts of our latest love session, or wishing I were on my back with my bf thrusting deeply into me.

 

[mikendel]

I love that you call it an "itch". I love to have my itch scratched and think about sex daily. I don't remember the last time I turned a man down for sex. I love pleasing the sexually.

 

[KatKat169]

For me it comes and goes. I'll have a week or two where all I can think about is sex. I'll read erotica and look at sexy pictures and post messages here on Lit and just drift along in a constant state of low-grade arousal. I'll feel sexy and flirty and fantasize about spreading my legs for any cute guy I see.

And then it will go away and I'll spend a few weeks hardly being interested in sex at all. I'll be a good girl and stop reading porn and stop masturbating in the shower. Sooner or later though, the slutty urges come creeping back ... .

Yes, this is me, exactly! Glad to hear I'm not the only one.